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By *rCallum OP Man 36 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
Hi.
This is a bit more of a plea than a pitch.
I’m Callum, 34, local to Edinburgh, and right now I’m really feeling the absence of simple human closeness. Cuddles, warmth, falling asleep beside someone... even just sitting on the sofa, watching a film with legs tangled and heads resting. That sort of peace.
I’ve shared that kind of space with a couple of people before, one visiting, one who moved away, but now it’s quiet. And hard. And I don’t know if it’s just me or if nobody really wants platonic cuddles anymore.
I’m not looking for sex. I’m not here for hookups. I don’t want to be touched below the waist or expected to touch anyone else like that. My serotonin thrives on slow touch, head rubs, body contact, naps, and calm conversation. If you’re the kind of person who just wants to feel safe in someone’s arms without pressure, I’m very much your kind of person.
I tend to prefer more feminine bodies, women, non-binary folk, or anyone soft and comfortable to hold. Just being honest there. I’m not into anything involving dicks or beards or boners. Sorry lads. This post really isn’t aimed at men unless you're also genuinely platonic and fully respectful of that boundary.
Wouldn’t it be lovely to just hang out? Share cake, coffee, some good conversation, and then curl up on the bed or sofa for proper, held, stillness? Big spoon, little spoon. Hand-holding. Closeness. That’s all I want right now.
So if anyone else around Edinburgh (or Scotland in general) is feeling the same way, craving touch without sex, company without expectation, please drop me a message. Or even just react to this post. I’ll reach out if it seems like a good vibe.
I'm cuddle fueled. It's what helps me keep going.
— Callum 🤍
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