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If you’re polite, respectful, not full on or pushy with messages and you read profiles you’ll get chats/meets which in turn will bring hopefully good verifications. Just my opinion  |
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Took me a bit of time to meet someone and get a verified. It happened recently but don’t put too much pressure on yourself and be yourself. Message with respect and treat whoever you’re messaging like a human. Yeah it’s a swinging site and most are interested in sex. But life is much more and having a genuine normal conversation is how people see the real you. I don’t know if that’s the same for everyone but that’s the way I am and I was given the chance of a meet.
Then don’t blow it and ghost which is another issue I think people have. If you’re going to and want to meet, then meet because that’s being genuine. |
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"Took me a bit of time to meet someone and get a verified. It happened recently but don’t put too much pressure on yourself and be yourself. Message with respect and treat whoever you’re messaging like a human. Yeah it’s a swinging site and most are interested in sex. But life is much more and having a genuine normal conversation is how people see the real you. I don’t know if that’s the same for everyone but that’s the way I am and I was given the chance of a meet.
Then don’t blow it and ghost which is another issue I think people have. If you’re going to and want to meet, then meet because that’s being genuine. "
Well put especially from another guy
Also agree with others above try a social or going to a club sometimes pre drinks on etc and can meet other like minded people |
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"Took me a bit of time to meet someone and get a verified. It happened recently but don’t put too much pressure on yourself and be yourself. Message with respect and treat whoever you’re messaging like a human. Yeah it’s a swinging site and most are interested in sex. But life is much more and having a genuine normal conversation is how people see the real you. I don’t know if that’s the same for everyone but that’s the way I am and I was given the chance of a meet.
Then don’t blow it and ghost which is another issue I think people have. If you’re going to and want to meet, then meet because that’s being genuine.
Well put especially from another guy
Also agree with others above try a social or going to a club sometimes pre drinks on etc and can meet other like minded people "
That’s what worked for me. I had a profile before and deleted it because I felt I was hitting a brick wall. I realised that trust is massive. So I persevered and tried again. Don’t let it get to you, it just takes time and be yourself. You will get a lot of rejections, a lot. But don’t take it to heart.
Being you is more important than being desperate. Also, don’t do cock pics unless requested 🫣😂 |
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Can also be down to timing. This time of year most folk are busy so may not want to start chatting if they dont have time to meet.
As the other guy said. Be yourself and have normal chats not just sex chat |
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"Anyone help looking for advice to get verified as I've been on a while and still struggling to get chat any help would be great thank you "
Just keep at it.
Although it’s wild how many messages go unread. It must be crazy the amount that women get as the volume just overwhelming.
Still can send a handful of messages and all of them stay unread. Pretty disheartening… |
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