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Last time (years ago) I was on here I got recognised by an old school friend of the opposite sex. I changed my profile pic to one without my face straight away. We did end up having lots of sex soooo? |
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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It's something I'd like to stay a fantasy.
Very nearly happened for me, had a local interest with very few photos, I wouldn't normally do a home game, but I'd been let down by a dreamer.
The local interest wasn't available that evening.
The following week, the local interest posted his face picture public instead of private by mistake and I realised I worked with him.
Fantasy good, reality bad.
Obviously it's different if you are straight and single, a bit different in my case. |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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Sure I recognised someone by there hand tats never said anything but sure someone else did cos she was wearing mittens next time i saw her and her last update was along the lines of "I dare you to tell" profile gone now probably got another with no pics |
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"Does it turn people on at the thought of being recognised/recognising someone?
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Is that the dread ?"
If we recognise someone who messaged us,we will be honest so they can chat or block
Or we might block depending who
We have had a few idiots saying they recognised us
One said he will turn up at door
Another was messaging saying is this?? Full name
Why would you do that and if it wasn't the person you had just named a couple
Or another say I can keep a secret if you let me do stuff with wife |
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By *illxxMan 18 weeks ago
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Got talking to a woman on here and after a few messages she sent me her photo. It turned out to be a friend of mine’s wife play away. After the shock and a few more messages we decided to meet up and the rest is history as they say |
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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago
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The thought of being recognised is something of a turn on but also quite scary too!
We have been recognised as somebody messaged us and used our first names, he was nice with it though and all agreed to leave it at that….as he’s married! |
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Think it depends i had a single gent back trace my picture and approached me through Facebook. That was horrible and was really angry as thats my personal life away from this part of my life however I know I have a distinctive look and that's make it more likely I could be recognised I would hope if it's out and about they would be respectful. On here I dont stress if some1 says they know me, we all on here for our own reasons and I have nothing to hide x |
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Recognised my mates ex wife who was on here for a bit. Mrs sent me a pic one day when she was working at the weekend, posted it here and a guy at her work recognised the office and said hello to her on the Monday  |
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Recognised a friend who was the year below me at school (about ten years ago) and didn't approach as we were both on here for our own reasons.
About two weeks later she messaged me and we ended up playing together and as a couple for two years or so until she moved down south for work. |
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I get recognised alot. I don't mind . We are all here for the same reason ..I mind when they don't want to share anything about them with me... That's just creepy . Just don't admit you know me if you don't want to tell me who you are 🤷 |
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Mrs here. I've been recognised by one of my best friends fiancé and a couple other people that either "called me out" by name or mentioned my job. Unsure what they hoped to accomplish but my experience would suggest it's a dread. |
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I've never recognised a single person on here, wouldn't bother me if i did. Would just move on like it never happened.
On my previous, longer term, profile about 4 years back a girl I'd worked with messaged me on Facebook saying "saw you on Fab", nothing creepy or malicious, just asked each other how we'd both found it and said she was free to pop round one night after sending her a private pic Some flirts and laughs, no harm done. |
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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago
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Was approached at work a number of years ago by a colleague who was in here.
She came into my office, closed the door and called me by the name I used at the time.
I happened to be in a position that could allow her access to software for her home PC.
Became a regular Friday afternoon BJ session. |
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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago
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It shouldn’t be a drama but when you read stories about people getting bribed and extorted it’s maddening. Sad really, we should be comfortable that most have a similar outlook/acceptance. |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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I’ve bumped into fabbers across daily and professional life multiple times over the years, it happens. Unless it’s one I know super well, I’ve never let on at all. Do to others as we wish ourselves to be treated kinda thing  |
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We have recognised a few people on here. We would never out anyone for being unfaithful and probably wouldn't let them know we recognised them.
One of our verifications is from someone we recognised so it has its advantages too.
We hope no one ever recognises us! That gives mrs the fear  |
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By *enelope2UWoman 14 weeks ago
Doesn't matter cant block distances |
Doesn't bother me what does is the lack of intelligence of most fab males on here.
that's my dread. They think most women on here are just free sex workers yet give us less respect of one.... |
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I was in my gyms spa facility, & when I entered the sauna, there was a m&f couple who looked like a stag caught in the headlights, they awkwardly left to go & sit on the Loungers, when I walked past them, they were both on their phones & overheard the missus accidentally exclaimed out loud to her man, “ aye, that’s him, he’s got a big pork sword”!
I left to go home & had a cheeky look at my fab & it was obvious they had checked me out!🥴 |
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Happened to me me at Xmas and it ended up turning me on although I was taken aback!
At a Xmas party in a hotel, maybe 300 people there and I was at the bar and some really good looking guy came up and whispered in my ear “your on fab yeah?” , I nodded but then went about my night, saw him a bit later with clearly his wife
About 2am, I was coming back from the toilets and he was coming out of the gents, he walked up behind me and said “Lily” and cupped my boobs and said “I couldn’t fucking resist”
I put a message on here next day and by that night I had his dick in my mouth and it was as big and lovely as I thought!! |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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I am not bothered at all for people to know I have non-traditional sexual tastes. However, I find it really creepy if someone sort of hints at it sheepishly because they aren’t comfortable in their own sexuality yet use the site to peep on others’. Either have the confidence to bring it up directly and appropriately OR have the good sense to respect discretion and save acknowledgment of recognition for the club. Basically, don’t be a creepy coy stalker with an “I know what you’re up to” attitude. It’s like in a club setting — don’t follow someone around who isn’t giving you anything back. If they were interested, they’d let you know. *sigh* |
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Currently in canary islands gets a message from a guy i am bi but dont meet single guy asking for a meet as if I am staying in such and such hotel .I deleted message next day he says where I was sitting and with who and the time .I dont really care if someone knows me from my pics but it was a bit to much like stalking for my liking . |
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Many years ago went to a couples and singles party In gravesend been there awhile went upstairs for a play came back downstairs and my nextdoors neighbours wife was sitting in the lounge I panicked and decided to leave before she saw me then I calmed down and looked round and her husband wasn't there so Sat down and had a chat we had lots of fun over years till we moved x |
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Many years ago it wasn’t so much dread but did have to be wary because of my job, not a lot of women in my chosen career path and less so at that point and I’d already been threatened by an ex to mail all my work colleagues
Now days I couldn’t care less my kids have met a lot of my fab friends and know what I get up to so there’s no one to tell, if folk want to talk about me let them ! Says more about the kind of people they are than me |
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