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Ladies - help me with being an option for you
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By (user no longer on site) OP 15 weeks ago
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Hi, I have pics, I’ve a clear profile, I go on cams, I offer to meet, I’m a site supporter, photo verified and cam verified.
Yet, I never get replies from you ladies. I have had couples plan with me, then pull out last minute after I pay for a hotel,
If I do get a message from a lady, they tend to be fake accounts where I receive abuse.
Help me with adjusting my profile and photos to what the majority of you desire, and please pm me to discuss chat messaging preferences, teach me ladies!!! Help me out , x
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"Hi, I have pics, I’ve a clear profile, I go on cams, I offer to meet, I’m a site supporter, photo verified and cam verified.
Yet, I never get replies from you ladies. I have had couples plan with me, then pull out last minute after I pay for a hotel,
If I do get a message from a lady, they tend to be fake accounts where I receive abuse.
Help me with adjusting my profile and photos to what the majority of you desire, and please pm me to discuss chat messaging preferences, teach me ladies!!! Help me out , x
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Never let your cock rule your head .
When arranging meets Insist on at least a social meet first & insist on going half for the hotel why should you pay it when all are getting mutual fun from it .  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 15 weeks ago
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Thanks Nawty
Points noted.
I do think if I said halfers on hotel, I would be bombarded with hate. This sites a minefield for a man trying to please. lol. |
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By *aspberryWoman 15 weeks ago
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Tend to agree on the feedback so far.
Profile is quite wordy, maybe shorten the sentences, talk about things you like or would like to try, and definitely don't use I alot.
Definitely a social meet first then agree the hotel arrangements |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 15 weeks ago
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Thank you, it’s natural to use “I” when it’s a single person so I take the feedback on board to refer to what I can offer and how to hopefully make the I and you = we. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 15 weeks ago
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Yeah I agree, but I did have a shorter profile narrative and I was told it was too short.
I shall tweak the wording to reduce and hopefully find middle ground. Thank you for advice. X |
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I always feel that the profile should reflect you adhd show what you have to offer then the right people will be interested. If you try to adapt it to please others then it will just become a mess and not really be about you.
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One thing is a given: most women on here will look at the sender's profile before they even open the message, if at all, and before they reply.
A lack of response or engagement may possibly be attributed to the quality of the sender's profile.
Do you feel that your profile is up to scratch? (That's a general remark and not necessarily pointed towards the OP) |
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