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"I don't know if it's cause my age but the amount of daddy messages I get is unreal and I really don't like it lol
Does anyone hate the daddy thing lol "
Totally agree gives me the actual ick lol so im with you OP |
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By *ay2571Man 7 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
i’m the same. I often get messages calling me Daddy. which i find very strange and a huge turn off. It is at least partly because I have kids.
Also given that i lean towards being a sub bottom it seems a bit unusual. |
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By *ergie59Man 7 weeks ago
Aberdeenshire |
There are creepy men who ruin it for others. There are a few creepy women but men hold the no 1 spot by a long way.
Can tell it by the way many women write their profiles, much of it is for avoidance. |
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"It's a definite no from me.
It's on the same creepiness level as panties 🤮
Urgh...hate that word! Makes my skin crawl. "
Oh and mine too! So glad reading this thread knowing I am not the only woman who hates the word panties 🤮 |
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That whole Mummy stuff I find odd as well, and any sort of age-play stuff.
It all makes me wonder if everything's ok in the mind of the person doing it.
Same with the Daddy, Little, Toddler, Baby, etc, stuff.
I can't get my head around why anyone would sexualise any of that. |
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It personally does nothing for me. Although I do not get many messaging me referring to themselves as daddy. Can you imagine the age they would have to be to pass as my dad. Lol.
I have been out with a guy from Fab and was mistakenly referred to as his mum!! Gave us both a good laugh. |
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The term Daddy is usually a dom/sub thing and doesn't necessarily mean age play and doesn't necessarily have to be purely sexual. A Daddy dom or Mummy is someone who is nurturing to their sub. I love my Daddy  But as you say, each to their own. A BDSM dynamic is a personal relationship and can be how ever the individuals feel comfortable and happy with. |
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By *ergie59Man 7 weeks ago
Aberdeenshire |
"It's a definite no from me.
It's on the same creepiness level as panties 🤮
I’m so glad I am not alone in this. Panties is a 🤮🤮🤮 word "
Never knew panties was a hate word also!
What word to use? Pants, Knickers or undies? |
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"It's a definite no from me.
It's on the same creepiness level as panties 🤮
I’m so glad I am not alone in this. Panties is a 🤮🤮🤮 word
Never knew panties was a hate word also!
What word to use? Pants, Knickers or undies?"
Drawers? |
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By *innMan 7 weeks ago
edinburgh |
Each to their own comes to mind. I don’t like being called daddy. But it doesn’t give me the ick, boak or is it a turn off. There are much worse offenders on this site and some of you need to clean your house before taking naked pictures - surrounded by your mess or with pets in the background. That’s an ick |
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"Each to their own comes to mind. I don’t like being called daddy. But it doesn’t give me the ick, boak or is it a turn off. There are much worse offenders on this site and some of you need to clean your house before taking naked pictures - surrounded by your mess or with pets in the background. That’s an ick "
Haha, I always check out the background in people's photos!! Some are absolutely shocking  |
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"I don't know if it's cause my age but the amount of daddy messages I get is unreal and I really don't like it lol
Does anyone hate the daddy thing lol "
Certainly something we have never got.
Each to their own though, thats the great thing about kinks, there are many!
Maybe put something in your profile to say you dont want those kind of messages?
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To me it's not better than calling someone mummy and I can't think of anything worse to say during sex... definitely not for me! Each to their own etc but I don't want to be called daddy and I'll certainly never call someone mummy lol |
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"Each to their own comes to mind. I don’t like being called daddy. But it doesn’t give me the ick, boak or is it a turn off. There are much worse offenders on this site and some of you need to clean your house before taking naked pictures - surrounded by your mess or with pets in the background. That’s an ick "
Spot on, some mangy gits on here, but the worse is taking pics, standing over or sitting on the toilet.  |
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"Does anyone hate the daddy thing lol"
I always found it an instant turn-off. Really don’t like it.
But … then there’s been a couple of girls I met through Fab who called me daddy and I liked it. Which was a surprise, I can tell you. And just goes to show that every rule has the odd exception. Must have been the way they said it. |
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It's not my thing personally, but I don't have an issue with it. In the past I did think it was creepy, but then I thought, I say 'baby' as an endearment in relationships, plenty folk say it during sexytime, and is that really any different? It's a familial term too. If that doesn't bother me, it feels a bit silly to take umbrage with daddy.
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"It's not my thing personally, but I don't have an issue with it. In the past I did think it was creepy, but then I thought, I say 'baby' as an endearment in relationships, plenty folk say it during sexytime, and is that really any different? It's a familial term too. If that doesn't bother me, it feels a bit silly to take umbrage with daddy.
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That's fair.
I hadn't thought of that. |
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I don't like being called mummy or mommy it's a total turn off for me and just makes me think the guy is too immature for me anyway. However I had the daddy thing explained to me both in it's sub dom use and the other more fascinating one, the sugar daddy, not the financial usage which I also abhor but the sugar coming from the sugar daddy ie. His seed and he is giving me his sugar. Still a bit strange but I don't bother about it anymore and I will call a sugar daddy, Daddy if he asks me to. Mx 👿🍆💦💦💋 |
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"It's not my thing personally, but I don't have an issue with it. In the past I did think it was creepy, but then I thought, I say 'baby' as an endearment in relationships, plenty folk say it during sexytime, and is that really any different? It's a familial term too. If that doesn't bother me, it feels a bit silly to take umbrage with daddy.
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Baby , babe also gives me the boak too. |
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"I don't know if it's cause my age but the amount of daddy messages I get is unreal and I really don't like it lol
Does anyone hate the daddy thing lol "
Yes, I find the whole thing unsettling.
I blame Pornhub |
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I blame Pornhub
But surely not as bad as the step sis/ step bro, stuck in a washing machine thing."
Yeah, that's just out of control
I'm surprised they've not started doing
Step lawyer or step plumber skits yet
Oh Hi, step dog walker, do you want to put a leash on me and make me bark
Bolt with all that pish. I find fab has better content |
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I blame Pornhub
But surely not as bad as the step sis/ step bro, stuck in a washing machine thing.
Yeah, that's just out of control
I'm surprised they've not started doing
Step lawyer or step plumber skits yet
Oh Hi, step dog walker, do you want to put a leash on me and make me bark
Bolt with all that pish. I find fab has better content"
This made me proper chuckle |
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"As an older bi male I sometimes get messages calling me daddy from guys. It definitely doesn't do anything for me, especially when their in their 40s lol."
Say Hello, I won’t call you a daddy. Lol |
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I'm a Dom.
I've been Sir, Master, and a few "other" titles.
Daddy isn't for me, but I do know a few.
It's less about the "be my father and play father/daughter games" and more about look after me unconditionally.
Just a matter of perspective really.
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I use Sir all the time
Saves me remembering names heheh
I don’t use Daddy as it’s not my thing. But I’ve seen how some men react to it 
Some guys hop in the DMs with Mommy and it’s a nope from me. I often wonder if it’s intended to be ironic… I only block them if they say it after I’ve said it’s not my thing.
We gotta not kink shame though guys, especially on here. The one thing that unites us all is we’re all filthy fuckers, just in different ways. Fuck and Let Fuck 
Need to check though - is the Sir thing a turn off..?! |
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"I use Sir all the time
Saves me remembering names heheh
I don’t use Daddy as it’s not my thing. But I’ve seen how some men react to it
Some guys hop in the DMs with Mommy and it’s a nope from me. I often wonder if it’s intended to be ironic… I only block them if they say it after I’ve said it’s not my thing.
We gotta not kink shame though guys, especially on here. The one thing that unites us all is we’re all filthy fuckers, just in different ways. Fuck and Let Fuck
Need to check though - is the Sir thing a turn off..?! "
Being called "Sir" once by someone as a bit of a joke when I was being a wee bit bossy was the first time I realised that I'm a bit kinky
It used to be my go-to, but I don't need those kinda things as much now. |
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"Guys do it because they are potential nonces and not all have the required intelligence or imagination for role-playing. School uniforms and that lolita syndrome is not on good people's agenda."
I'm going to add a caveat to this one.
If I was doing a school uniform thing in a role play, I'm not saying I'm into school children, I'm replaying (or attempting to) a very fond memory or 2 from my younger days.
Yes one of them was when I was still a school lad and we where both still figuring things out, used this scenario in my later years to really experiment into new areas.
Another was when we were both in our twenties and she surprised me by dressing up and phew... What a night.
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Guy goes to prison and gets put in with a huge muscle bound guy. On his first night he gets asked "Do you want to play Mummies and Daddies?" He quickly says, "No thanks", so they guys says "it's ok, ill play mummy!?" The guys figures thats ok so agrees, his muscle bound cell mate says "OK, come over here and suck mummies cock!" |
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"Guys do it because they are potential nonces and not all have the required intelligence or imagination for role-playing. School uniforms and that lolita syndrome is not on good people's agenda.
I'm going to add a caveat to this one.
If I was doing a school uniform thing in a role play, I'm not saying I'm into school children, I'm replaying (or attempting to) a very fond memory or 2 from my younger days.
Yes one of them was when I was still a school lad and we where both still figuring things out, used this scenario in my later years to really experiment into new areas.
Another was when we were both in our twenties and she surprised me by dressing up and phew... What a night.
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Yeah, same.
I was explaining this to someone recently.
I wouldn't be chatting up some young lassie in a school uniform, but if my ex, who's three years younger than me, and who I knew in high school, happened to be dressed like she was when we were at school, then it might feel a bit weird 'cause I'm nearly 40, but there would be all sorts of memories from when we were those ages, feeling that way, etc.
Totally different. |
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"I'm a Dom.
I've been Sir, Master, and a few "other" titles.
Daddy isn't for me, but I do know a few.
It's less about the "be my father and play father/daughter games" and more about look after me unconditionally.
Just a matter of perspective really.
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I know a couple of women who like to use the term Daddy and by their own admission its because the grew up with Daddy issues . Its a term that has different connotations for different folk ..me I think there has to be issues by either getting off on either being called Daddy or being the one calling someone Daddy in a sexual scenario . I get everyone has their own kinks and thrills and honestly not trying to kink shame anyone . Just I dont understand it and I dont think I ever will and nor do I want to , rightly or wrongly . |
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"I'm a Dom.
I've been Sir, Master, and a few "other" titles.
Daddy isn't for me, but I do know a few.
It's less about the "be my father and play father/daughter games" and more about look after me unconditionally.
Just a matter of perspective really.
I know a couple of women who like to use the term Daddy and by their own admission its because the grew up with Daddy issues . Its a term that has different connotations for different folk ..me I think there has to be issues by either getting off on either being called Daddy or being the one calling someone Daddy in a sexual scenario . I get everyone has their own kinks and thrills and honestly not trying to kink shame anyone . Just I dont understand it and I dont think I ever will and nor do I want to , rightly or wrongly . "
Agreed |
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"I don't know if it's cause my age but the amount of daddy messages I get is unreal and I really don't like it lol
Does anyone hate the daddy thing lol
Yes, I find the whole thing unsettling.
I blame Pornhub"
I blame Boney M. But you need to be a dad age to get that one. |
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