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By (user no longer on site) OP 7 weeks ago
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Is it really worth while messaging someone to get their attention or just hope after they've saw you've looked at them you might like each other and chat |
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"Is it really worth while messaging someone to get their attention or just hope after they've saw you've looked at them you might like each other and chat "
I've decided to pretty much stop sending messages to women and couples on here, and have only messaged recently someone asking recommendations on a good place some things, and someone else from a forum that said folk could DM them for more info.
All other messages have been to pages for events and such.
I've left a few winks here and there, but no one ever replies to those.
Ive decided that I'll stop sending messages as I know how many messages women and couples get on here, so I'd be another one of however many.
I also know that I don't seem to have the gift of making a catchy opening message, and I'm also not over 6', nor do I have muscles or such to show off, and my willy is a decent size but nothing compared to some of the monsters here filling up people's inboxes and getting eyeballs on them.
So, I've decided I'll meet folk at events. 'cause I know that I'm decent looking, even if I have some extra weight around my waste.
I know I can be funny and have a laugh in person and can, on occasion, successfully flirt. Even if I can have a bit of social awkwardness.
I know my dick is decent, and I know that I've got some good skills in pleasing my partners, even if I've not got the body or stamina or an Adonis.
So I work with what I've got. I find it less of a negative experience from messaging people and not getting any response.
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By *ergie59Man 7 weeks ago
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"Is it really worth while messaging someone to get their attention or just hope after they've saw you've looked at them you might like each other and chat
I've decided to pretty much stop sending messages to women and couples on here
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I think that sums it up for most men on here.
Rarely send any messages myself anymore.
Occasionally to who has looked at my profile. Mostly just friendly hello.
Try not to say much, because it might be the wrong thing to say.
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"Is it really worth while messaging someone to get their attention or just hope after they've saw you've looked at them you might like each other and chat "
Just send the message,what's the worst that can happen !?
You are not going to be everyone's cup op tea but you just might be someone's & you'll never know if you dont message.
Im not one of these women who sit back and wait for messages if Im interested in someone il message them . |
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By (user no longer on site) 7 weeks ago
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"Is it really worth while messaging someone to get their attention or just hope after they've saw you've looked at them you might like each other and chat Just send the message,what's the worst that can happen !?
You are not going to be everyone's cup op tea but you just might be someone's & you'll never know if you dont message.
Im not one of these women who sit back and wait for messages if Im interested in someone il message them ."
I’m waiting on your message |
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