Genuine question ladies and not having a go.
Alot of profiles state non verified profiles dont bother messaging.
Question is how are you supposed to get verified if most won't even entertain you for being newish.
Surly you were all not verified at some point. |
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By *sm265Woman 6 weeks ago
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Easiest way to get verified is probably to go along to an organised group social meet or a club. Chat to people, be polite and friendly , and ask if they would be willing to verify you.
Alternatively see if someone local to you would be willing to just meet for a coffee or similar.
You could also go on cam in the chat rooms and get verified that way...but a lot of people prefer face to face verification.
There are people on here who do meet unverified profiles. I have done it in the past when a profile has really caught my interest. |
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There's lots of good advice above OP.
New, unverified profiles aren't necessarily an issue for me, as I also look at any effort that has gone into a profile. If someone has been here a number of years & never verified, that's more of an issue. I frequently get messages from profiles that have never been delivered in 5 years or more. The longest has been 14 years! |
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One of the negatives of this site is that it’s free to create a profile and lots use it as a wank bank or for the keyboard warriors to get their kicks.
I don’t meet unverified users as a rule because I value my free time and have been let down previously to unverified profiles mostly “ghosting” or deleting profiles on the proposed day to meet  |
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