FabSwingers.com > Forums > Scotland > Do any women put out likes or message guys first
Do any women put out likes or message guys first
Jump to: Newest in thread
Yeah that's my topic today! Do women initiate conversation and wink or like on this site?
As i would love to find out your thoughts.
To me it seems incredibly rare. Maybe I'm not what women want. Maybe some women get there rocks off with the attention us guys give you.
Happy days everyone x
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By *he_Wite_NiteMan 6 weeks ago
NEC next month, Usually Dundee and around |
"Have done numerous times, more so when working away. "
I know Razzle messages. Because she has messaged me. Some women can think twice about fabbing or messaging because some guys think it represents a definite!
When it often is just the start of interactions to see how things go.
Guys, we only have ourselves to blame.
The messages that kill me every time are the ones where they say "I didn't think you'd be interested!" So they thought they'd self deselect rather than asking me if I was.
I know there is the whole rejection thing, but you get that on here whatever, you become anesthetized to it.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I messaged someone who was just out my age range and also who I thought was completely out of my league, because I had noticed him looking at my profile multiple times. He was local and this has ended up becoming a nice friendship and some amazing sex. Nothing ventured nothing gained 😉 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *sm265Woman 6 weeks ago
Perthshire |
I dont use winks. I regularly fab pictures that I like (but that's not necessarily a sign of interest, simply means that I like the photo).
Over the years I have sent many first messages to profiles that have captured my interest and inspired me to find out more. A lot of these have resulted in further interactions and in some cases to very enjoyable meets. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I dont use winks. I regularly fab pictures that I like (but that's not necessarily a sign of interest, simply means that I like the photo).
Over the years I have sent many first messages to profiles that have captured my interest and inspired me to find out more. A lot of these have resulted in further interactions and in some cases to very enjoyable meets. "
I agree, I fab pics too, if they appeal to me.
Doesn't mean it's a sign of interest in the person.
Nice to get fabs too, I often check out their profiles.
Has lead to some fun meets |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Have done numerous times, more so when working away.
The amount of guys that think it’s a wind up, that I’m fake etc.
Can’t win on here! "
lol yeah, I always double check..... You message women without response for days then a beautiful woman messages you out of the blue 😁 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *976scottMan 6 weeks ago
North Lanarkshire |
It does happen but not very often. Probably down to the ratios Male to female on fab plus the women have to look through the 300 cock pics in their inbox before they get a chance to message anyone 
Single guys don’t help themselves on fab |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"It does happen but not very often. Probably down to the ratios Male to female on fab plus the women have to look through the 300 cock pics in their inbox before they get a chance to message anyone..."
•
No, it isn't that at all. What occurs in their inbox is irrelevant and they are more than capable of managing the dross... because they can run their own searches, peruse from the forums or look at their local feed.
Women (most women, not all) are reluctant to send the first message. They rarely do, if at all. Apathy, fear of rejection and issues concerning confidence are some of the factors for their reticence. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
