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Struggling for meets or just me ?
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It’s always a struggle these days for anyone. A lot of people love the chat but the actual physical meet mor so much. The amount of ghosting, profile blocked you or profile disappeared is unreal. You just have to stick at it unfortunately there is no magic line you can use. Just get out there as much as possible. If you’re serious about swinging do socials and attend events and clubs. The more known you are it helps. |
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"Really struggling to find people too meet on here any help would be appreciated "
I've been on-and-off this site, and in-and-out of the swinging scene for over ten years, and what everyone else is saying has always been the way. In all that time I can think of one person from this site that I've ended up meeting after communicating with them on here to begin with. All the others have been people I've met at a club, etc.
It's way more difficult as a single male.
Going to events, clubs, etc, is the best way to meet genuine people when you're a single guy on here.
"Chin up" and all that  |
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By *oyo55 OP Man 5 weeks ago
kilmarnock |
"It’s always a struggle these days for anyone. A lot of people love the chat but the actual physical meet mor so much. The amount of ghosting, profile blocked you or profile disappeared is unreal. You just have to stick at it unfortunately there is no magic line you can use. Just get out there as much as possible. If you’re serious about swinging do socials and attend events and clubs. The more known you are it helps. "
ah ok thanks for the reply will look into them
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People can be fussy and more cautious if they have had a bad experience meeting
Your profile and pics look fine.
For me it’s about building a connection but local men seem to be looking for quickies with randoms and no bears |
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By *aylor30Couple 5 weeks ago
East Lothian |
We r really struggling too atm!
It’s like there’s been a black mark against our name or something 😂 we had quite a few chats going, winks coming in etc then nothing zilch no takers no reply’s!
We go to clubs as much as we can but having 8 kids between us sometimes makes it hard
Plus I suppose wat we r into doesn’t interest a lot of people either 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ |
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"We r really struggling too atm!
It’s like there’s been a black mark against our name or something 😂 we had quite a few chats going, winks coming in etc then nothing zilch no takers no reply’s!
We go to clubs as much as we can but having 8 kids between us sometimes makes it hard
Plus I suppose wat we r into doesn’t interest a lot of people either 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️"
We’re struggling too, most couples want to meet with a bi female so that rules us out.
We did have a meet arranged with a single guy but he cancelled as he hadn’t had his tea…..
Need to sort out a Fife social so we can network. |
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