I get that people have age limits on their profiles, and rightly so. What I don't get though are people that have set their limits years ago and do not change them as they get older. I've been on and if the site for a number of years and I see it regularly. People that I've previously communicated with I can no longer do so as I've past their upper age limit even though they've aged as well. Frustrating! ☺️ |
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"I get that people have age limits on their profiles, and rightly so. What I don't get though are people that have set their limits years ago and do not change them as they get older. I've been on and if the site for a number of years and I see it regularly. People that I've previously communicated with I can no longer do so as I've past their upper age limit even though they've aged as well. Frustrating! ☺️"
If you have previously communicated then you still can |
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"I get that people have age limits on their profiles, and rightly so. What I don't get though are people that have set their limits years ago and do not change them as they get older. I've been on and if the site for a number of years and I see it regularly. People that I've previously communicated with I can no longer do so as I've past their upper age limit even though they've aged as well. Frustrating! ☺️"
Has it occurred to you that their limits haven't changed so there's no need to change it? |
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"I get that people have age limits on their profiles, and rightly so. What I don't get though are people that have set their limits years ago and do not change them as they get older. I've been on and if the site for a number of years and I see it regularly. People that I've previously communicated with I can no longer do so as I've past their upper age limit even though they've aged as well. Frustrating! ☺️
Has it occurred to you that their limits haven't changed so there's no need to change it?"
Imagine having a preference 🙄🤣 |
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By *sm265Woman 5 weeks ago
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Ive adjusted my age range several times over the years. My lower age limit has been raised significantly as I have gotten older but my upper age limit has been increased far less. Because that is my personal preference.
If you've previously been in contact with people on your current profile then, unless they have blocked you, you should still be able to message them. If its a new profile then there's really nothing you can do. |
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"I get that people have age limits on their profiles, and rightly so. What I don't get though are people that have set their limits years ago and do not change them as they get older. I've been on and if the site for a number of years and I see it regularly. People that I've previously communicated with I can no longer do so as I've past their upper age limit even though they've aged as well. Frustrating! ☺️
Has it occurred to you that their limits haven't changed so there's no need to change it?
Imagine having a preference 🙄🤣"
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Rationally, the age band would move up every year, the same day your age changes on Fab (your birthday), but as humans we are far from rational and our preferences change occasionally.
If it was to raise every year those poor 99 year olds would all fall off the age limit cliff and never get another meet  |
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For us age limits is just a guide its not set in stone. We have also noticed a lot of people dont exactly tell the truth when it comes to age anyway. Its more about a connection and attraction regardless of a number on a profile. |
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"The other thing is pictures that are well out of date some by years , that only allowed in Hollywood darling 👀"
At least they are dated and you know. Some folk delete them and add them again as a new pic. |
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"The other thing is pictures that are well out of date some by years , that only allowed in Hollywood darling 👀
At least they are dated and you know. Some folk delete them and add them again as a new pic. "
Ohh now that’s sneaky |
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