Probably going to upset a few folk on here,but its not my intention,although i couldnt really give 2 effs if i do,as these will be the people im sure i am talking about,but.....on here there seems to be a certain snobbery,its almost like a clique of snobbery, really it is,dont get me wrong ive spoken to some nice folk,but really its a minefield on here! |
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"Probably going to upset a few folk on here,but its not my intention,although i couldnt really give 2 effs if i do,as these will be the people im sure i am talking about,but.....on here there seems to be a certain snobbery,its almost like a clique of snobbery, really it is,dont get me wrong ive spoken to some nice folk,but really its a minefield on here!"
I doubt you will upset anyone, they will just block you and move on, most people are here to have fun, and get away from the real world in their leisure time, life is hard enough , without having stress on a sex site... nothing in cyber space is real, especially on a sex site  |
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"Don't know how you deduce snobbery on here, if you reckon there snobs cause they won't meet, that's preference, a totally different thing  "
look at YOU and ur big house, fancy car, fine wine and engaging discussions..fancy a shag? |
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Half on here are timewasters and the other half is split between cunts up their own arse and a brass neck with it, seeing some of the sites on here, and people who are actually, genuine, polite and well mannered. Oh and most the couples are guys who are offering up their partner without their knowledge or its a bogus profile. |
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"Probably going to upset a few folk on here,but its not my intention,although i couldnt really give 2 effs if i do,as these will be the people im sure i am talking about,but.....on here there seems to be a certain snobbery,its almost like a clique of snobbery, really it is,dont get me wrong ive spoken to some nice folk,but really its a minefield on here!"
Youre meaning a lot of folk look down on others on here because they dont fit into 'traditional' swinging catagories or their own branch of it. I agree with you that they do. BUT!!!!! and it is a very BIG BUT I believe everyone is a snob in one way or another wether on this site or not. It is a fact of human nature that we believe ourself to be correct and those that disagree with us are infeirior to us. |
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"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get."
Not been to s social yet but have been to cjs a few times. Everyone bangs on about how welcome you are made to feel at cjs. REALLY? TRUTHFULLY? Dont get me wrong, i've had my fun there and did meet and have played with some great people. But plenty patrons occupy their own wee bubble and barely pass the time of day. Mind you the smoking policy doesnt help.... |
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"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.
Not been to s social yet but have been to cjs a few times. Everyone bangs on about how welcome you are made to feel at cjs. REALLY? TRUTHFULLY? Dont get me wrong, i've had my fun there and did meet and have played with some great people. But plenty patrons occupy their own wee bubble and barely pass the time of day. Mind you the smoking policy doesnt help...."
its a business therefore cant just smoke anywhere like an actual party or gathering of friends |
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"Half on here are timewasters and the other half is split between cunts up their own arse and a brass neck with it, seeing some of the sites on here, and people who are actually, genuine, polite and well mannered. Oh and most the couples are guys who are offering up their partner without their knowledge or its a bogus profile. "
Most of the couples? Really? |
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"Half on here are timewasters and the other half is split between cunts up their own arse and a brass neck with it, seeing some of the sites on here, and people who are actually, genuine, polite and well mannered. Oh and most the couples are guys who are offering up their partner without their knowledge or its a bogus profile. "
dunno if ur statistics are entirely true..... |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get."
You're wrong. There's loads goes on which nobody feels or has the need to publicise or promote here (or anywhere else). |
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"Half on here are timewasters and the other half is split between cunts up their own arse and a brass neck with it, seeing some of the sites on here, and people who are actually, genuine, polite and well mannered.
dunno if ur statistics are entirely true....."
I stand corrected 75% are timewasters. |
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"Half on here are timewasters and the other half is split between cunts up their own arse and a brass neck with it, seeing some of the sites on here, and people who are actually, genuine, polite and well mannered.
dunno if ur statistics are entirely true..... I stand corrected 75% are timewasters."
what do u meen by timewasters?is it ppl who dont meet u or dont reply to your msgs?. |
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Snobbery breeds resentment,snobs are folk who talk to you like houre some sort of scum,best thing about it is the ones who do,generally are the worst looking! And class is not measured by size of house,or car!!! |
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"Snobbery breeds resentment,snobs are folk who talk to you like houre some sort of scum,best thing about it is the ones who do,generally are the worst looking! And class is not measured by size of house,or car!!!"
have a look at your paragraph is this then not what you are complaining of "best thing about it is the ones who do generally are the worst looking"  |
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I think it's a "standards" rather than snobbery thing...but then again I could be wrong. Everyone has standards and if others don't live up to them, does that make the other person a snob?
Now where's my popcorn and beanbag seat? |
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"I think it's a "standards" rather than snobbery thing...but then again I could be wrong. Everyone has standards and if others don't live up to them, does that make the other person a snob?
Now where's my popcorn and beanbag seat?"
or in some cases live down to their standards 
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"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.
You're wrong. There's loads goes on which nobody feels or has the need to publicise or promote here (or anywhere else)."
I have no doubt you are correct that things happen that don't publicise. I don't feel the need to talk about my activities.
However, there is still a "social elite", with many in jokes, and references which will only be understood by those in the know, and this seems to outsiders like me to come from those who attend clubs and socials.
On another matter, as has been said about smoking policy, it is the law, as such places will be classed as "Enclosed public spaces". |
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Take away the fancy cars , the designer labels, big houses and what lies behind it. Ordinary people. I seen something recently and it was very accurate about people who may have a certain standard or if you want to call it class where it was said they had a good lifestyle .... Lifestyle maybe , but that doesnt necessarily mean good life !!!
Because behind all that everyone has a background some trier to better themselves. Some happy with what they have and who they are. Does others need to be made to feel looked down upon or up as said earlier.
Snobbery to me is pinky out ,oh no you're rif raf !!! and would cross the road to avoid rather than help if trouble fell at their feet.
We all have people we are more comfortable being around but I like to think I can mingle and mix with the majority and fit in where and when required ..  |
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"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.
You're wrong. There's loads goes on which nobody feels or has the need to publicise or promote here (or anywhere else).
I have no doubt you are correct that things happen that don't publicise. I don't feel the need to talk about my activities.
However, there is still a "social elite", with many in jokes, and references which will only be understood by those in the know, and this seems to outsiders like me to come from those who attend clubs and socials.
On another matter, as has been said about smoking policy, it is the law, as such places will be classed as "Enclosed public spaces"."
im quite sure on occasion you have shared a joke with folk that would understand what your refrence point was is that any diffrent there is no elite if your upset that these folk can talk and share jokes join in otherwise dont complain of it  |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.
Not been to s social yet but have been to cjs a few times. Everyone bangs on about how welcome you are made to feel at cjs. REALLY? TRUTHFULLY? Dont get me wrong, i've had my fun there and did meet and have played with some great people. But plenty patrons occupy their own wee bubble and barely pass the time of day. Mind you the smoking policy doesnt help...."
You're only paying for admission . There's no entitlement to shag whoever takes your fancy. |
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over a year ago
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"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.
You're wrong. There's loads goes on which nobody feels or has the need to publicise or promote here (or anywhere else).
I have no doubt you are correct that things happen that don't publicise. I don't feel the need to talk about my activities.
However, there is still a "social elite", with many in jokes, and references which will only be understood by those in the know, and this seems to outsiders like me to come from those who attend clubs and socials.
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That'll only be a problem if you let it be one.
Unless, of course, you wish to join this 'social elite' - but why would you? |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
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"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.
You're wrong. There's loads goes on which nobody feels or has the need to publicise or promote here (or anywhere else).
I have no doubt you are correct that things happen that don't publicise. I don't feel the need to talk about my activities.
However, there is still a "social elite", with many in jokes, and references which will only be understood by those in the know, and this seems to outsiders like me to come from those who attend clubs and socials.
On another matter, as has been said about smoking policy, it is the law, as such places will be classed as "Enclosed public spaces"."
I think you're viewpoint is skewed by the forums. The vast majority of people on here haven't attended a social or CJ's.
Should point out I've heard good things about CJ's but we've never been and not sure if we ever will. |
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"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.
Not been to s social yet but have been to cjs a few times. Everyone bangs on about how welcome you are made to feel at cjs. REALLY? TRUTHFULLY? Dont get me wrong, i've had my fun there and did meet and have played with some great people. But plenty patrons occupy their own wee bubble and barely pass the time of day. Mind you the smoking policy doesnt help....
You're only paying for admission . There's no entitlement to shag whoever takes your fancy."
Don't think anyone made any references towards entitlement to shag anyone.If he has could you point it out to me please Onny.
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"Half on here are timewasters and the other half is split between cunts up their own arse and a brass neck with it, seeing some of the sites on here, and people who are actually, genuine, polite and well mannered.
dunno if ur statistics are entirely true..... I stand corrected 75% are timewasters.
what do u meen by timewasters?is it ppl who dont meet u or dont reply to your msgs?."
Just what I was wondering?  |
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If 20 ppl naked in a room who knows or cares what they have not me all the same naked.
but depending if you class your self as a snob or not depends if my dad can batter your dad lol
happy swinging guys
mr fudge
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"If 20 ppl naked in a room who knows or cares what they have not me all the same naked.
but depending if you class your self as a snob or not depends if my dad can batter your dad lol
happy swinging guys
mr fudge We all shite broon.
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"If 20 ppl naked in a room who knows or cares what they have not me all the same naked.
but depending if you class your self as a snob or not depends if my dad can batter your dad lol
happy swinging guys
mr fudge We all shite broon.or is it golden brown for some
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"If 20 ppl naked in a room who knows or cares what they have not me all the same naked.
but depending if you class your self as a snob or not depends if my dad can batter your dad lol
happy swinging guys
mr fudge We all shite broon.or is it golden brown for some
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That'll only be a problem if you let it be one.
Unless, of course, you wish to join this 'social elite' - but why would you?"
Where did I say it was a problem? I was making an observation, nothing more.
I have no desire to join any "social elite". I am simply pointing out that whilst the members of this won't see themselves as such, that is how they are perceived by some. |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.
Not been to s social yet but have been to cjs a few times. Everyone bangs on about how welcome you are made to feel at cjs. REALLY? TRUTHFULLY? Dont get me wrong, i've had my fun there and did meet and have played with some great people. But plenty patrons occupy their own wee bubble and barely pass the time of day. Mind you the smoking policy doesnt help....
You're only paying for admission . There's no entitlement to shag whoever takes your fancy.Don't think anyone made any references towards entitlement to shag anyone.If he has could you point it out to me please Onny.
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Is there another reason for going? |
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By *eganWhoWoman
over a year ago
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"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.
Not been to s social yet but have been to cjs a few times. Everyone bangs on about how welcome you are made to feel at cjs. REALLY? TRUTHFULLY? Dont get me wrong, i've had my fun there and did meet and have played with some great people. But plenty patrons occupy their own wee bubble and barely pass the time of day. Mind you the smoking policy doesnt help....
You're only paying for admission . There's no entitlement to shag whoever takes your fancy."
No but when you say hi to people and they stare thru you, ignore you and turn their backs on you? Really? You're saying thats welcoming?
Its not snobbery its downright rudeness |
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"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.
Not been to s social yet but have been to cjs a few times. Everyone bangs on about how welcome you are made to feel at cjs. REALLY? TRUTHFULLY? Dont get me wrong, i've had my fun there and did meet and have played with some great people. But plenty patrons occupy their own wee bubble and barely pass the time of day. Mind you the smoking policy doesnt help....
You're only paying for admission . There's no entitlement to shag whoever takes your fancy.
No but when you say hi to people and they stare thru you, ignore you and turn their backs on you? Really? You're saying thats welcoming?
Its not snobbery its downright rudeness"
I was shagging and had to concentrate...sorry if I appeared rude..but I did cum thinking about u  |
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"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.
Not been to s social yet but have been to cjs a few times. Everyone bangs on about how welcome you are made to feel at cjs. REALLY? TRUTHFULLY? Dont get me wrong, i've had my fun there and did meet and have played with some great people. But plenty patrons occupy their own wee bubble and barely pass the time of day. Mind you the smoking policy doesnt help....
You're only paying for admission . There's no entitlement to shag whoever takes your fancy.
No but when you say hi to people and they stare thru you, ignore you and turn their backs on you? Really? You're saying thats welcoming?
Its not snobbery its downright rudeness
I was shagging and had to concentrate...sorry if I appeared rude..but I did cum thinking about u "
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over a year ago
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"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.
Not been to s social yet but have been to cjs a few times. Everyone bangs on about how welcome you are made to feel at cjs. REALLY? TRUTHFULLY? Dont get me wrong, i've had my fun there and did meet and have played with some great people. But plenty patrons occupy their own wee bubble and barely pass the time of day. Mind you the smoking policy doesnt help....
You're only paying for admission . There's no entitlement to shag whoever takes your fancy.
No but when you say hi to people and they stare thru you, ignore you and turn their backs on you? Really? You're saying thats welcoming?
Its not snobbery its downright rudeness"
You may very well be right. I wouldn't be seen dead any where near the place.
Others make different choices and that entirely up to them - but you can't force people to be friendly or sociable. |
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"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.
Not been to s social yet but have been to cjs a few times. Everyone bangs on about how welcome you are made to feel at cjs. REALLY? TRUTHFULLY? Dont get me wrong, i've had my fun there and did meet and have played with some great people. But plenty patrons occupy their own wee bubble and barely pass the time of day. Mind you the smoking policy doesnt help....
You're only paying for admission . There's no entitlement to shag whoever takes your fancy.
No but when you say hi to people and they stare thru you, ignore you and turn their backs on you? Really? You're saying thats welcoming?
Its not snobbery its downright rudeness
You may very well be right. I wouldn't be seen dead any where near the place.
Others make different choices and that entirely up to them - but you can't force people to be friendly or sociable."
There's clubs I wouldn't want to frequent as I find them sleazy. If that makes me a snob, that's fine by me
Have to say though, that I've always felt very comfortable and welcome at CJ's. Never found anyone to be either unsociable or rude |
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Have to say though, that I've always felt very comfortable and welcome at CJ's. Never found anyone to be either unsociable or rude "
At the risk of stating the obvious, females are always going to be more welcome at sex parties than guys. |
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Have to say though, that I've always felt very comfortable and welcome at CJ's. Never found anyone to be either unsociable or rude
At the risk of stating the obvious, females are always going to be more welcome at sex parties than guys."
Well clearly not the lady who posted saying she felt ignored  |
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"Just read the posts....
I always have a good time at CJs...
But thats probably because im FUCKING SOCIABLE!!!!!!!
Unless of course I get all snobby on you and simply ignore you!
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"If you haven't been to a social or CJ's, you're a nobody, is the vibe I get.
Not been to s social yet but have been to cjs a few times. Everyone bangs on about how welcome you are made to feel at cjs. REALLY? TRUTHFULLY? Dont get me wrong, i've had my fun there and did meet and have played with some great people. But plenty patrons occupy their own wee bubble and barely pass the time of day. Mind you the smoking policy doesnt help....
You're only paying for admission . There's no entitlement to shag whoever takes your fancy.Don't think anyone made any references towards entitlement to shag anyone.If he has could you point it out to me please Onny.
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Thank you salt n sugar. I am a single guy on profile, but have always attended. Cjs as escort to a well kent lady of the parish. I merely offered an opinion re the op....wasn't greetin about not getting a shag ( as stated I have, everytime ) |
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