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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Needing a wee bit of advice people.
I'm 32 years old and have had many, many bj's in my life but no woman has ever been able to make me cum. It's gotten to the point where I'm actually starting to think that it's in my head now which is stopping me. I've had some unbelievable bj's over the years but sadly never had a happy ending  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Needing a wee bit of advice people.
I'm 32 years old and have had many, many bj's in my life but no woman has ever been able to make me cum. It's gotten to the point where I'm actually starting to think that it's in my head now which is stopping me. I've had some unbelievable bj's over the years but sadly never had a happy ending "
Are you waiting for us girls to take pity & offer our assistance lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Needing a wee bit of advice people.
I'm 32 years old and have had many, many bj's in my life but no woman has ever been able to make me cum. It's gotten to the point where I'm actually starting to think that it's in my head now which is stopping me. I've had some unbelievable bj's over the years but sadly never had a happy ending
Are you waiting for us girls to take pity & offer our assistance lol "
I have same problem care to assist me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Needing a wee bit of advice people.
I'm 32 years old and have had many, many bj's in my life but no woman has ever been able to make me cum. It's gotten to the point where I'm actually starting to think that it's in my head now which is stopping me. I've had some unbelievable bj's over the years but sadly never had a happy ending
Are you waiting for us girls to take pity & offer our assistance lol
I have same problem care to assist me "
I wasn't offering assistance just asking if this was the purpose of the post or a challenge to us girls  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Purely looking for people's thoughts, many have tried and failed so not looking for any challengers. Genuinely want to sort it, even considered speaking to my doctor about it lol |
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"Needing a wee bit of advice people.
I'm 32 years old and have had many, many bj's in my life but no woman has ever been able to make me cum. It's gotten to the point where I'm actually starting to think that it's in my head now which is stopping me. I've had some unbelievable bj's over the years but sadly never had a happy ending
Are you waiting for us girls to take pity & offer our assistance lol "
you made me giggle with your reply....lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Needing a wee bit of advice people.
I'm 32 years old and have had many, many bj's in my life but no woman has ever been able to make me cum. It's gotten to the point where I'm actually starting to think that it's in my head now which is stopping me. I've had some unbelievable bj's over the years but sadly never had a happy ending "
Stop wanking for a week or 2 then when you get a bj theres a good chance ull be able to cum  |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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No disrespect to the OP, but I think the biggest sexual problem us guys have, is our heads! Get them sorted, and we'd be fine.
However, a patient, caring, and considerate lady can make a big difference.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blow Jobs are overrated especially if you read some of the veris on here, sucks like a dyson or a pro and all that shite, no they dont, whatever a pro sucks like.
In my vast experience ive only had a couple of mind blowing bjs and in all instances the girls in question used both hands to stimulate other parts of my genital region and did things with their tongue. Some girls that have sucked my knob would have as well had 1 hand tied behind their back.
Its a skill that every girl claims to have but in reality few actually do. I much prefer the feeling of my cock in the honey pot. Ive only ever had 1 good bj off here, I was half pissed morning after but still shot my load, the rest off here have been wifey bjs, going through notions and average to why bother. |
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"Needing a wee bit of advice people.
I'm 32 years old and have had many, many bj's in my life but no woman has ever been able to make me cum. It's gotten to the point where I'm actually starting to think that it's in my head now which is stopping me. I've had some unbelievable bj's over the years but sadly never had a happy ending "
Also remember some guys can take ages to cum, sucking for a long time can become a bit boring after a while. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Needing a wee bit of advice people.
I'm 32 years old and have had many, many bj's in my life but no woman has ever been able to make me cum. It's gotten to the point where I'm actually starting to think that it's in my head now which is stopping me. I've had some unbelievable bj's over the years but sadly never had a happy ending Also remember some guys can take ages to cum, sucking for a long time can become a bit boring after a while. "
yea better off shopping for pinapples |
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"Needing a wee bit of advice people.
I'm 32 years old and have had many, many bj's in my life but no woman has ever been able to make me cum. It's gotten to the point where I'm actually starting to think that it's in my head now which is stopping me. I've had some unbelievable bj's over the years but sadly never had a happy ending Also remember some guys can take ages to cum, sucking for a long time can become a bit boring after a while.
yea better off shopping for pinapples "
No shoes is much more fun lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Needing a wee bit of advice people.
I'm 32 years old and have had many, many bj's in my life but no woman has ever been able to make me cum. It's gotten to the point where I'm actually starting to think that it's in my head now which is stopping me. I've had some unbelievable bj's over the years but sadly never had a happy ending Also remember some guys can take ages to cum, sucking for a long time can become a bit boring after a while.
yea better off shopping for pinapples No shoes is much more fun lol "
yea shoes,lol  |
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Here's my take on this.
Generally (although not all the time), when a gent climaxes, it is at the end of a penetrative sex session when some force and friction has been applied. Unless you are being sucked off by someone who really is like a Dyson, this rarely happens during oral sex, it tends to be a more delicate, less intense act, therefore, likely making it harder to climax.
As I said, this won't be the case for all.
I have found that I have preferred bjs and found them to be 'more effective, if you like, after intercourse, as I am already super turned on and more likely to climax.
But there's no set rule. Hopefully you'll get this resolved and can enjoy many, many more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Needing a wee bit of advice people.
I'm 32 years old and have had many, many bj's in my life but no woman has ever been able to make me cum. It's gotten to the point where I'm actually starting to think that it's in my head now which is stopping me. I've had some unbelievable bj's over the years but sadly never had a happy ending Also remember some guys can take ages to cum, sucking for a long time can become a bit boring after a while. "
I don't agree with that it doesn't become boring for me and I don't just suck constantly. A little variety keeps it interesting.
My ex had that problem until he met me. You need a good woman to relax you and tell you it doesn't matter if you cum just enjoy the feelings instead. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Needing a wee bit of advice people.
I'm 32 years old and have had many, many bj's in my life but no woman has ever been able to make me cum. It's gotten to the point where I'm actually starting to think that it's in my head now which is stopping me. I've had some unbelievable bj's over the years but sadly never had a happy ending "
first off I feel you may not be alone in this matter. And as others have said. Once your brain gets involved. In something. That's bothering. You sexually. It can be a slippery. Slope ( lol)
Try. Just to relax my opinion. Is do you we have to cum evertime. We get a blowjob personally. I like to see it as my starter. For the main meal (oral giving back) then desert full Intercourse. And then mix it all up again. My opinion. You don't always. Have to cum during. Bjs
And FYI LADIES. If we don't cum doesn't mean we don't fancy. You ffs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Needing a wee bit of advice people.
I'm 32 years old and have had many, many bj's in my life but no woman has ever been able to make me cum. It's gotten to the point where I'm actually starting to think that it's in my head now which is stopping me. I've had some unbelievable bj's over the years but sadly never had a happy ending first off I feel you may not be alone in this matter. And as others have said. Once your brain gets involved. In something. That's bothering. You sexually. It can be a slippery. Slope ( lol)
Try. Just to relax my opinion. Is do you we have to cum evertime. We get a blowjob personally. I like to see it as my starter. For the main meal (oral giving back) then desert full Intercourse. And then mix it all up again. My opinion. You don't always. Have to cum during. Bjs
And FYI LADIES. If we don't cum doesn't mean we don't fancy. You ffs "
Omg...I'm agreeing with Jack!!! Meds please!!! Spot on though Cap'n. No pressure...more fun... |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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No disrespect to any lady here or elsewhere, but imho, I think the critical difference is between ladies who do it because they reckon it's part of the deal, and therefore they should, and ladies who really enjoy it themselves.
The latter category don't do it just to please the guy, but they get enjoyment themselves. And it's not just the part itself that they attend to, but the whole genitalia area. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No disrespect to any lady here or elsewhere, but imho, I think the critical difference is between ladies who do it because they reckon it's part of the deal, and therefore they should, and ladies who really enjoy it themselves.
The latter category don't do it just to please the guy, but they get enjoyment themselves. And it's not just the part itself that they attend to, but the whole genitalia area. "
Pah!!! Where you gonna find a woman like that Bothy?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Needing a wee bit of advice people.
I'm 32 years old and have had many, many bj's in my life but no woman has ever been able to make me cum. It's gotten to the point where I'm actually starting to think that it's in my head now which is stopping me. I've had some unbelievable bj's over the years but sadly never had a happy ending first off I feel you may not be alone in this matter. And as others have said. Once your brain gets involved. In something. That's bothering. You sexually. It can be a slippery. Slope ( lol)
Try. Just to relax my opinion. Is do you we have to cum evertime. We get a blowjob personally. I like to see it as my starter. For the main meal (oral giving back) then desert full Intercourse. And then mix it all up again. My opinion. You don't always. Have to cum during. Bjs
And FYI LADIES. If we don't cum doesn't mean we don't fancy. You ffs "
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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someone going through the motions of giving a BJ is never going to be mind blowing.
If you have it in your head, you won't cum, then chances are you won't.
I love giving BJs have actually had a few guys who aren't that fussed/don't cum with them really enjoying it. Also had a few guys who just don't like them (was one of the major things between me and ex husband, he hated them, I love giving them)
Its not all just sucky-sucky tho - hands have to be used too, as well as different tongue motions etc. Current BF loves them - a special treat is teasing him for the length of a whole movie... and if he's really been good he gets to eat choc cake while I do it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Needing a wee bit of advice people.
I'm 32 years old and have had many, many bj's in my life but no woman has ever been able to make me cum. It's gotten to the point where I'm actually starting to think that it's in my head now which is stopping me. I've had some unbelievable bj's over the years but sadly never had a happy ending "
Ok. You have told us your problem. What advice do you want? How to improve your technique, their technique? We can't help unless you tell us what advice you want. Just like a bj. Communication is the key. We aren't mind readers! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No disrespect to any lady here or elsewhere, but imho, I think the critical difference is between ladies who do it because they reckon it's part of the deal, and therefore they should, and ladies who really enjoy it themselves.
The latter category don't do it just to please the guy, but they get enjoyment themselves. And it's not just the part itself that they attend to, but the whole genitalia area. "
Couldnt agree more, when my lady is doin her thing there is no doubt she is loving what she's doing, makes all the difference. If I felt she was doing it just for me or worse, she got 'bored sucking',(thankfully she does way more than suck) it would impact on my pleasure. she loves it, I love it ....win- win  |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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"No disrespect to any lady here or elsewhere, but imho, I think the critical difference is between ladies who do it because they reckon it's part of the deal, and therefore they should, and ladies who really enjoy it themselves.
The latter category don't do it just to please the guy, but they get enjoyment themselves. And it's not just the part itself that they attend to, but the whole genitalia area.
Couldnt agree more, when my lady is doin her thing there is no doubt she is loving what she's doing, makes all the difference. If I felt she was doing it just for me or worse, she got 'bored sucking',(thankfully she does way more than suck) it would impact on my pleasure. she loves it, I love it ....win- win "
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"Needing a wee bit of advice people.
I'm 32 years old and have had many, many bj's in my life but no woman has ever been able to make me cum. It's gotten to the point where I'm actually starting to think that it's in my head now which is stopping me. I've had some unbelievable bj's over the years but sadly never had a happy ending Also remember some guys can take ages to cum, sucking for a long time can become a bit boring after a while.
I don't agree with that it doesn't become boring for me and I don't just suck constantly. A little variety keeps it interesting.
My ex had that problem until he met me. You need a good woman to relax you and tell you it doesn't matter if you cum just enjoy the feelings instead. X"
Needs relaxed here lol |
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