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over a year ago
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Hi folks this may sound silly but , when meeting and introducing ourselves to another couple , we tend to explain what were looking for etc etc . Is this off putting ? Were new to this and not sure if it comes across rude/desperate etc  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi folks this may sound silly but , when meeting and introducing ourselves to another couple , we tend to explain what were looking for etc etc . Is this off putting ? Were new to this and not sure if it comes across rude/desperate etc ."
It's not rude at all, you're simply laying out your cards explaining what you're looking for. If people get offended (some do on this website *sigh*) then that's up to them to come to terms with.
Personally, no it's not rude or desperate. If I was in the same position I would explain what I'm looking for also. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I wouldn't want any1 to think we were just "in for the kill" so to speak . I am quite a nervous person anyway and find it a wee bit hard to approach and break the ice. I know I shouldn't be really . I end up gabbing away endlessly x |
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"Hi folks this may sound silly but , when meeting and introducing ourselves to another couple , we tend to explain what were looking for etc etc . Is this off putting ? Were new to this and not sure if it comes across rude/desperate etc ."
not at all and you have a good profile
read some profiles here and its demand this, demand that,
nice honest direct talking lets everyone know what to expect |
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