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Has the Site changed so much?
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"can we scrap the PC shite tae lol" Sounds good Positivity seems the way ahead, I read Atoms page too Concerns are justified, there is no need to attack someone by pm for trying to make a suggestion. | |||
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only my 2p worth.
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" people thinking its a free for all. little or no effort required to get your leg over. confusion between swinging and dating. jealousy and down right self perceived superiority.. people start to believe their own hype............... usually the first day of any downfall when that happens "i def agree with these points _iew having to explain to people messaging that just coz they say hi does not mean i will shag them in the 15 mins they reckon it takes to get to a car park somewhere!  | |||
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Suggestions? Lighten up, its supposed to be a place for fun, dial down the bitchy, the cliques and the arrogance. Make a proper effort to get along with folks, even if you don't find them attractive or interesting. Remember that you were new once too, and put yourself in the newbie shoes. Be a bit more tolerant.
Finally...Have FUN and enjoy the bloody place! | |||
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"Of course the site has changed. How can it not when you have a large turnover of members? Everything changes tho, sometimes for the better, sometimes not. That's life!" I agree...the site is ever changing....people are coming and going....groups come n go....you get different vibes....some good some bad.... | |||
just my thoughts auds xx  | |||
"some stand out because they are polite and really funny" ooooo, I'm blushing lol
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"having been on since 0ctober 2008, I have noticed a definite change, cliques have been established, and somewhere along the line, the fun has slid out the Fab door, I have been to a couple of the socials, and met some brilliant people, however some of the banter, could come across as intimidating, to some I have been a figure to poke fun at, and due to that I have left and returned a couple of times, I have met someone here before, and had a thoroughly enjoyable time, however I do not expect to get my leg over with anyone who dains to meet me, or within 15 minutes of a chat, life dont work like that. Bickering can put potential new members off, so I hope 2011 see's a wind of change, otherwise I will be heading out the door of Fab and not coming back. I like to think of myself as a non-pushy type of guy, and don't see myself as gods gift to the women here." i have too agree with everything you said mate,could have come from me aswell,jm | |||
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The bitching with never stop, the backstabbing will never stop and the only way forward is for everyone to stop rising to the attention seekers. Ignore the remarks made in the forums, rise above them, if there is someone acting like an idiot in chat, block them and if people concentrated more on themselves maybe just maybe fab can be fun again for everyone.
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"my previous post was in the context of swinging in general/the site and not the Scottish scene. I posted the same reply in the Lounge. regarding Scotland Chat... nearly 2 years since I was a regular chat room user, the few times I have been in, people are welcoming and pleasant. Seemed a bit flat but to be honest I made little effort and if you don't make the effort, you CAN'T EXPECT others too. regarding Scotland Forum.. I choose not to post very much and stick with the other ones. The reason being it is usually the 'kiss, shag or avoid' or the 'name the 5 people you would shag/stuck in lift with'... and I find these types to be part of the issue.. someone is going to take offence and it will kick off. I avoid these like the plague. It is Xmas and maybe a time for people to start relationships/friendships again, forgive wrongs done and apologise for doing wrongs.... if I have wronged anyone.. I am sorry x Merry Christmas xxx " Nae chance of a shag then???? | |||
"my previous post was in the context of swinging in general/the site and not the Scottish scene. I posted the same reply in the Lounge. regarding Scotland Chat... nearly 2 years since I was a regular chat room user, the few times I have been in, people are welcoming and pleasant. Seemed a bit flat but to be honest I made little effort and if you don't make the effort, you CAN'T EXPECT others too. regarding Scotland Forum.. I choose not to post very much and stick with the other ones. The reason being it is usually the 'kiss, shag or avoid' or the 'name the 5 people you would shag/stuck in lift with'... and I find these types to be part of the issue.. someone is going to take offence and it will kick off. I avoid these like the plague. It is Xmas and maybe a time for people to start relationships/friendships again, forgive wrongs done and apologise for doing wrongs.... if I have wronged anyone.. I am sorry x Merry Christmas xxx " thought there would have been more peeps admitting to deliberatly setting out to ridicule posters,but then again it takes a real person to admit to it. | |||
" thought there would have been more peeps admitting to deliberatly setting out to ridicule posters,but then again it takes a real person to admit to it. "I think we all do it from time to time. Sometimes I guess its mis-guided banter, sometimes frustration (pfffft, yet another thread on timewasters or why people cant get meets) and other times its people been too sensitive...asking for comments but when they get a negative one, throwing a strop. I guess 99% of dont set out to piss people off but sometimes it happens. Ill forgive those that have pissed me off if others forgive me 
S. xx | |||
" thought there would have been more peeps admitting to deliberatly setting out to ridicule posters,but then again it takes a real person to admit to it.
I think we all do it from time to time. Sometimes I guess its mis-guided banter, sometimes frustration (pfffft, yet another thread on timewasters or why people cant get meets) and other times its people been too sensitive...asking for comments but when they get a negative one, throwing a strop.
I guess 99% of dont set out to piss people off but sometimes it happens. Ill forgive those that have pissed me off if others forgive me
S. xx"we are not talking about pissing people off,its deliberately setting out to ridicule someone and it happens more or less on every thread and even by moderators just to let all there friends get a wee chuckle but as ive said its rife through all the threads on fab. | |||
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"I witnessed first hand at the recent social whereby a young gentleman got a slap on the face due to him attending the social with one female and daring to chat to another!!!!!
"Obviously there will be 2 sides to any story but if the above is accurate as to the sole reason for anyone lifting their hands to someone else... the offender should be banned from socials. if it was a guy who struck a female all hell would have been let loose. clearly someone who is delusional with self importance. | |||
"I witnessed first hand at the recent social whereby a young gentleman got a slap on the face due to him attending the social with one female and daring to chat to another!!!!!
Obviously there will be 2 sides to any story but if the above is accurate as to the sole reason for anyone lifting their hands to someone else... the offender should be banned from socials.
if it was a guy who struck a female all hell would have been let loose.
clearly someone who is delusional with self importance.
"Totally agree with everything you said there _iew......socials are meant to be fun and a way of meeting old friends and making new ones. legs xxx | |||
"I witnessed first hand at the recent social whereby a young gentleman got a slap on the face due to him attending the social with one female and daring to chat to another!!!!!
Obviously there will be 2 sides to any story but if the above is accurate as to the sole reason for anyone lifting their hands to someone else... the offender should be banned from socials.
if it was a guy who struck a female all hell would have been let loose.
clearly someone who is delusional with self importance.
"I agree with you here View and for me I think that all story's have three sides to a story their side your side and in the middle the truth. I also fell that if anyone lifts their hands wether male or female they should be banned from the socials. Colin and I were talking the other day about socials and if these are the sort of things that is going on at them between a bunch of like minded people and are adults I don't know if I want to go to another one again. So from what I can see the fun from the fourms, chat and socials has gone I hope not as this is for social reasons and for fun where is the social side of things where people get together to have a laugh and an evening out with friends. I am now going to sit back and see what people are going to say about this but you see I don't care I am to long in the tooth to worry about what people say about me. So you all go ahead and say what you want I just feel that we should all get on and have fun if you don't like someone move on but block first then you won't have any more dealings with them. As you go through life you find things as silly as bitching and the like is less importaint and having fun is the best you can hope for As always this is my own thoughts. Michelle xxxxxx | |||
"I witnessed first hand at the recent social whereby a young gentleman got a slap on the face due to him attending the social with one female and daring to chat to another!!!!!
Obviously there will be 2 sides to any story but if the above is accurate as to the sole reason for anyone lifting their hands to someone else... the offender should be banned from socials.
if it was a guy who struck a female all hell would have been let loose.
clearly someone who is delusional with self importance.
I agree with you here View and for me I think that all story's have three sides to a story their side your side and in the middle the truth. I also fell that if anyone lifts their hands wether male or female they should be banned from the socials. Colin and I were talking the other day about socials and if these are the sort of things that is going on at them between a bunch of like minded people and are adults I don't know if I want to go to another one again. So from what I can see the fun from the fourms, chat and socials has gone I hope not as this is for social reasons and for fun where is the social side of things where people get together to have a laugh and an evening out with friends.
I am now going to sit back and see what people are going to say about this but you see I don't care I am to long in the tooth to worry about what people say about me. So you all go ahead and say what you want I just feel that we should all get on and have fun if you don't like someone move on but block first then you won't have any more dealings with them. As you go through life you find things as silly as bitching and the like is less importaint and having fun is the best you can hope for
As always this is my own thoughts.
Michelle xxxxxx "Here Here Chelle well put i know where your coming from, thats one reason i only post when i feel i have something to say, and i dont care if people have a pop at me as i expect it the way the site has become. | |||
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