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Admiring from a distance
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I do, but I can never ever say. Someone in my work. Sometimes I want to tell, get it out and in the open but I fear getting hurt. So I will continue to just look from a distance (in an unpervy way) lol |
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over a year ago
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Yup,one I know and one I don't. I don't really send out many emails anyway basically due to the high amount of emails fems get from guys at it is. I only send ones to those I already chat to so I think the two I like won't be hearing from me anytime soon ha!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same. Old story we never say as we don't want rejection. There was someone years ago. Never said a word now it's to late. Just regret never letting them know just how much they helped lighting up my life. So take the change it's better than doing nothing life is to dam short. |
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"There's a few people on fab I'd love to meet but I'm not even close to their league
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I've often thought this too but been proved wrong many times .
Go on take the chance and don't live with regrets   |
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"There's a few people on fab I'd love to meet but I'm not even close to their league
I've often thought this too but been proved wrong many times .
Go on take the chance and don't live with regrets "
Definitely... What's the worst that could happen?
K x |
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Had someone id liked for ages but wasnt in a position too take it any further and thought they were defo out my league but messaged him other night and ended up going for drinks with him and meeting him again this weekend.
So should just go for it |
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"There's a few people on fab I'd love to meet but I'm not even close to their league
I've often thought this too but been proved wrong many times .
Go on take the chance and don't live with regrets "
They live too far away anyway so total nonstarters lol |
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"Had someone id liked for ages but wasnt in a position too take it any further and thought they were defo out my league but messaged him other night and ended up going for drinks with him and meeting him again this weekend.
So should just go for it "
Brilliant !!! Good for you hope it goes well |
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"Had someone id liked for ages but wasnt in a position too take it any further and thought they were defo out my league but messaged him other night and ended up going for drinks with him and meeting him again this weekend.
So should just go for it Brilliant !!! Good for you hope it goes well "
Well was about time i got myself back out there. Been too quiet and one track focused too long. 
Sure we will cross paths soon xx |
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"Had someone id liked for ages but wasnt in a position too take it any further and thought they were defo out my league but messaged him other night and ended up going for drinks with him and meeting him again this weekend.
So should just go for it Brilliant !!! Good for you hope it goes well
Well was about time i got myself back out there. Been too quiet and one track focused too long.
Sure we will cross paths soon xx"
great xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a few people on fab I'd love to meet but I'm not even close to their league
thats not something I believe. "
Snap! Can't view yourself in any lesser light than we see each other, especially on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you have that one person who you admire but for one reason or another don't make a move on them but instead choose to admire from a distance ?
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Nope  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the vanilla world there are one or two young ladies but for one reason or another I will not make a move because they are too close to home ie, My best mates eldest daughter, or a girl I had a crush on at school has re-entered my world as a client.
On here........yes but due to age restrictions on their part I'm fecked.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah there's one guy in particular that I like to admire. Couldn't possibly tell him how I feel. Mainly because I lose the ability to speak around him.... Haha. |
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"There's a few people on fab I'd love to meet but I'm not even close to their league
thats not something I believe.
Snap! Can't view yourself in any lesser light than we see each other, especially on fab "
Lol, well I look at them and then look at me and nope, wouldn't happen |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's a few people on fab I'd love to meet but I'm not even close to their league
thats not something I believe.
Snap! Can't view yourself in any lesser light than we see each other, especially on fab
Lol, well I look at them and then look at me and nope, wouldn't happen "
There is an attraction in your personality .....
Anythingelse comes part of who you are x
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"There's a few people on fab I'd love to meet but I'm not even close to their league
thats not something I believe.
Snap! Can't view yourself in any lesser light than we see each other, especially on fab
Lol, well I look at them and then look at me and nope, wouldn't happen
There is an attraction in your personality .....
Anythingelse comes part of who you are x
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spot on |
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Yeah there's one or two on here I would say I rather fancy. Fab has an ability to knock confidence out you but when either ignored or blocked for no reason etc. For that reason I generally sit back and wait for it to come to me, which isn't often I'm afraid.  |
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I've got far far to many all here on fab. Although I am quite shy it's more I just don't have the time or due to distance and I would have to use public transport that keeps me from contacting trying to arrange something. Hopefully one day though xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The one that got away" who is now one of my best friends leaves me thinking "what if" most days. But there's no way I'd jeopardise our friendship by attempting to take things further.
There's one on here too, we do chat now and again about random stuff but I can't see it going any further to be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As some have said what's the worst thing that could possibly happen?
Just go for it you never know you might just gain a new friend if nothing else "
Exactly, totally agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As some have said what's the worst thing that could possibly happen?
Just go for it you never know you might just gain a new friend if nothing else "
Or you could say something, be rejected, or worse, ignored, with only the additional neurosis of knowing there's one more person in the world who wants nothing to do with you?
On a brighter note, it's Friday!   |
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"As some have said what's the worst thing that could possibly happen?
Just go for it you never know you might just gain a new friend if nothing else
Or you could say something, be rejected, or worse, ignored, with only the additional neurosis of knowing there's one more person in the world who wants nothing to do with you?
On a brighter note, it's Friday! "
well surly taking the chance is worth it you just never know what the outcome might be |
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By *illnatMan
over a year ago
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"As some have said what's the worst thing that could possibly happen?
Just go for it you never know you might just gain a new friend if nothing else
Exactly, totally agree "
Same here. What's the worst that could happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The worst thing that can happen on here is you get ignored.
If there is someone in here you fancy then go for it.
As for distance.......Scotland is not a big nation and anywhere can be accessed within a day if it's the right person
Who knows what it might lead to
Go for it is my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Great Advice ..
Its a strange one ...There are probably vast amounts of people on here that are maybe too shy too ask ..and if they had too ask ..they migt well say AYE DEFINATELY ...
Two profiles wanting too meet each other ..but too afraid too ask ..kinna bizarre .
However on that note ..im just too shy in that way ..
sighssss
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By *awk3y3Man
over a year ago
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Ear worm for today now is going to be brought to you by Bjorn and his ABBA crew ...sing along if you know it
If you change your mind, I'm the first in line
Honey I'm still free
Take a chance on me
If you need me, let me know, gonna be around
If you've got no place to go, if you're feeling down
If you're all alone when the pretty birds have flown
Honey I'm still free
Take a chance on me !!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok so I messaged them and fessed up............the world hadn't ended either........
So I encourage others to do the same no matter what the outcome ........... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A nice soft cream cake: so you'll have no fuss removing them wallies for a nibble..  !"
Put the tequila away darlin'....wee lie doon? That's it...flat out on the mezzanine. Marco?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you have that one person who you admire but for one reason or another don't make a move on them but instead choose to admire from a distance ?
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2becomes1, hoping to meet at a social rather than mailing.
Seem to be getting my mails deleted or attracting time wasters this time round on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's a few people on fab I'd love to meet but I'm not even close to their league
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I think it is up to the person in question if your in their league or not.
Go on.. drop them a message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok so I messaged them and fessed up............the world hadn't ended either........
So I encourage others to do the same no matter what the outcome ........... "
Well everyone be brave I was and we are currently chatting away...............you know who you are ........  |
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"Ok so I messaged them and fessed up............the world hadn't ended either........
So I encourage others to do the same no matter what the outcome ...........
Well everyone be brave I was and we are currently chatting away...............you know who you are ........ "
brilliant |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If u don't make the move u won't get any wer in life. Be bold and don't hold back. True what is the worse that can happen. Most guys get a kb. So you are not the only ones. Doing my job I hav to be be brave and take chances . Just to get that uniqu image. Does not always work but if u don't try then what's the point. |
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No issues making my interest known normally .Some have worked well, others have got knock backs but comes with the territory .
Currently though just in phase of admiring from the side lines for time being x |
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"My inbox is full off the back of this thread! Haha"
Lol wish i had that luck but maybe I'm still too much of a unknown.
(this is a unsubtle hint to message me if you like me, I'm totally not a nutter.)  |
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First you have to tell her ,,,,, then tell her your a tv ,,,, then watch her walk away !!!! Been there got the t shirt |
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If u don't ask u don't get and beauty is in the eye of the beholder, plus it's all to do with chemistry, attraction and that vital spark that u need for any partnership to work plus if ur no fast ur last xx |
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