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Found it so easy to meet guys...
But where are all the girls looking for that first ffm or ff...cant just be me that is struggling to find a girl to play with.
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"Found it so easy to meet guys...
But where are all the girls looking for that first ffm or ff...cant just be me that is struggling to find a girl to play with.
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Perhaps they all kissed a girl and liked it so are not curious anymore  |
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I'm bisexual rather than bi-curious, always found very few bisexual women looking to meet other women.
I've never met a woman alone but would be keen to. |
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"I only meet bi women, I'm not looking to be anyone's experiment"
While I've not met a woman alone yet I completely agree. I don't want to put on a show for your partner, or for us to share him, which I find many bi-curious women are on here.
And for some it's merely something to add on their profile because they think men will find it a turn on.
I just want some good old fashioned girly fun! |
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"I only meet bi women, I'm not looking to be anyone's experiment"
Did you experiment first tho to find out if you were defo bi ? A gen question as beeing a tad bi curious  |
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"I only meet bi women, I'm not looking to be anyone's experiment
Did you experiment first tho to find out if you were defo bi ? A gen question as beeing a tad bi curious "
yea long before fab though |
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"I only meet bi women, I'm not looking to be anyone's experiment
Did you experiment first tho to find out if you were defo bi ? A gen question as beeing a tad bi curious yea long before fab though"
Ok ...but my feeling is for some is that fab can be the place to experiment if you cant in your normal life
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Ok ...but my feeling is for some is that fab can be the place to experiment if you cant in your normal life
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I agree with this but on here I've found and heard the words "you have to pretend your bi to fit in" I also chatted away to a couple, she was curious n once we'd kinda agreed we would all meet I got told that she wouldn't touch me below the waist.
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"I only meet bi women, I'm not looking to be anyone's experiment
Did you experiment first tho to find out if you were defo bi ? A gen question as beeing a tad bi curious yea long before fab though
Ok ...but my feeling is for some is that fab can be the place to experiment if you cant in your normal life
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yep, totally understand that, but what happens if say you and me met, decided to go ahead, and then you don't like it ? That's why some don't want to meet bi curious, you usually know if you want a woman or not  |
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Ok ...but my feeling is for some is that fab can be the place to experiment if you cant in your normal life
I agree with this but on here I've found and heard the words "you have to pretend your bi to fit in" I also chatted away to a couple, she was curious n once we'd kinda agreed we would all meet I got told that she wouldn't touch me below the waist.
K x"
totally k |
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"I only meet bi women, I'm not looking to be anyone's experiment
Did you experiment first tho to find out if you were defo bi ? A gen question as beeing a tad bi curious yea long before fab though
Ok ...but my feeling is for some is that fab can be the place to experiment if you cant in your normal life
yep, totally understand that, but what happens if say you and me met, decided to go ahead, and then you don't like it ? That's why some don't want to meet bi curious, you usually know if you want a woman or not "
I wouldnt meet anyone fem or male if it wasnt wat i wanted but by saying bi curious means because you actually havnt met a fem yet ..i just wouldnt like to think anyone thot id want it as an experiment ..its something i just havnt made the move to fulfill yet
Only speaking for my myself tho |
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"I only meet bi women, I'm not looking to be anyone's experiment
Did you experiment first tho to find out if you were defo bi ? A gen question as beeing a tad bi curious yea long before fab though
Ok ...but my feeling is for some is that fab can be the place to experiment if you cant in your normal life
yep, totally understand that, but what happens if say you and me met, decided to go ahead, and then you don't like it ? That's why some don't want to meet bi curious, you usually know if you want a woman or not
I wouldnt meet anyone fem or male if it wasnt wat i wanted but by saying bi curious means because you actually havnt met a fem yet ..i just wouldnt like to think anyone thot id want it as an experiment ..its something i just havnt made the move to fulfill yet
Only speaking for my myself tho"
ok, would it be easier then to find another fem that's not experimented maybe,. Just a thought |
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I the fem have knows I was by way before fab ... I hate the whole play for the boys scenario .... I want it to feel natural ....always said I'd meet alone with fems but never happened.... even had a profile on my own but still was always the man wanting to play too. |
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"I only meet bi women, I'm not looking to be anyone's experiment
Did you experiment first tho to find out if you were defo bi ? A gen question as beeing a tad bi curious yea long before fab though
Ok ...but my feeling is for some is that fab can be the place to experiment if you cant in your normal life
yep, totally understand that, but what happens if say you and me met, decided to go ahead, and then you don't like it ? That's why some don't want to meet bi curious, you usually know if you want a woman or not
I wouldnt meet anyone fem or male if it wasnt wat i wanted but by saying bi curious means because you actually havnt met a fem yet ..i just wouldnt like to think anyone thot id want it as an experiment ..its something i just havnt made the move to fulfill yet
Only speaking for my myself tho ok, would it be easier then to find another fem that's not experimented maybe,. Just a thought"
Yes maybe the best option |
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"I the fem have knows I was by way before fab ... I hate the whole play for the boys scenario .... I want it to feel natural ....always said I'd meet alone with fems but never happened.... even had a profile on my own but still was always the man wanting to play too."
Yeah I struggle to find single females, even ones in couples I always seem to find myself chatting to the male, making me wonder if there even is a female pmsl |
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"I only meet bi women, I'm not looking to be anyone's experiment
While I've not met a woman alone yet I completely agree. I don't want to put on a show for your partner, or for us to share him, which I find many bi-curious women are on here.
And for some it's merely something to add on their profile because they think men will find it a turn on.
I just want some good old fashioned girly fun!"
When we have mff we prefer bi women so there's fun for everyone  |
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Me I could spend hours with a woman exploring I love it !! I've met some girls who have been bi curious and yes it's been a first for them but hey we all have fantasies and tbh the girls I've met have been more than happy to experiment ,I think if you spend time chatting getting to know and a social first it's allows you to see if your going to BOTH have a good time then it's your decision to to go ahead and play , as for experimenting I still am ,I'm bisexual no question about that lol I spend more time with women ..I catch myself looking at women more than men ,but I'm def not done experimenting (this weekend oooft few firsts for me ) I guess it's about what you want and what makes you tick and meeting and getting to know women who want the same ,I totally agree with ma lady K above I wouldn't be playing with someone if it was one sided just wouldn't happen , I need a woman who get excite me to , did I mention I love boobs xxx  |
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"Me I could spend hours with a woman exploring I love it !! I've met some girls who have been bi curious and yes it's been a first for them but hey we all have fantasies and tbh the girls I've met have been more than happy to experiment ,I think if you spend time chatting getting to know and a social first it's allows you to see if your going to BOTH have a good time then it's your decision to to go ahead and play , as for experimenting I still am ,I'm bisexual no question about that lol I spend more time with women ..I catch myself looking at women more than men ,but I'm def not done experimenting (this weekend oooft few firsts for me ) I guess it's about what you want and what makes you tick and meeting and getting to know women who want the same ,I totally agree with ma lady K above I wouldn't be playing with someone if it was one sided just wouldn't happen , I need a woman who get excite me to , did I mention I love boobs xxx "
Sometimes when you are curious you are more experimental not all but done... |
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"Me I could spend hours with a woman exploring I love it !! I've met some girls who have been bi curious and yes it's been a first for them but hey we all have fantasies and tbh the girls I've met have been more than happy to experiment ,I think if you spend time chatting getting to know and a social first it's allows you to see if your going to BOTH have a good time then it's your decision to to go ahead and play , as for experimenting I still am ,I'm bisexual no question about that lol I spend more time with women ..I catch myself looking at women more than men ,but I'm def not done experimenting (this weekend oooft few firsts for me ) I guess it's about what you want and what makes you tick and meeting and getting to know women who want the same ,I totally agree with ma lady K above I wouldn't be playing with someone if it was one sided just wouldn't happen , I need a woman who get excite me to , did I mention I love boobs xxx
Sometimes when you are curious you are more experimental not all but done... "
Ohh I love experimenting  |
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"Me I could spend hours with a woman exploring I love it !! I've met some girls who have been bi curious and yes it's been a first for them but hey we all have fantasies and tbh the girls I've met have been more than happy to experiment ,I think if you spend time chatting getting to know and a social first it's allows you to see if your going to BOTH have a good time then it's your decision to to go ahead and play , as for experimenting I still am ,I'm bisexual no question about that lol I spend more time with women ..I catch myself looking at women more than men ,but I'm def not done experimenting (this weekend oooft few firsts for me ) I guess it's about what you want and what makes you tick and meeting and getting to know women who want the same ,I totally agree with ma lady K above I wouldn't be playing with someone if it was one sided just wouldn't happen , I need a woman who get excite me to , did I mention I love boobs xxx
Sometimes when you are curious you are more experimental not all but done...
Ohh I love experimenting "
Why does this not surprise me |
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I'm bi curious but don't advertise the fact.
I used to have this on my profile but was inundated with guys harassing (yes harassing) me to join them with their fb for an ffm or couples badgering (yes badgering) for me to get it on with their partner while they watched!
I must say I've never had a woman message me but I'm a go with the flow kinda gal and if it happens it happens.
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"Me I could spend hours with a woman exploring I love it !! I've met some girls who have been bi curious and yes it's been a first for them but hey we all have fantasies and tbh the girls I've met have been more than happy to experiment ,I think if you spend time chatting getting to know and a social first it's allows you to see if your going to BOTH have a good time then it's your decision to to go ahead and play , as for experimenting I still am ,I'm bisexual no question about that lol I spend more time with women ..I catch myself looking at women more than men ,but I'm def not done experimenting (this weekend oooft few firsts for me ) I guess it's about what you want and what makes you tick and meeting and getting to know women who want the same ,I totally agree with ma lady K above I wouldn't be playing with someone if it was one sided just wouldn't happen , I need a woman who get excite me to , did I mention I love boobs xxx
Sometimes when you are curious you are more experimental not all but done...
Ohh I love experimenting
Why does this not surprise me "
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"Me I could spend hours with a woman exploring I love it !! I've met some girls who have been bi curious and yes it's been a first for them but hey we all have fantasies and tbh the girls I've met have been more than happy to experiment ,I think if you spend time chatting getting to know and a social first it's allows you to see if your going to BOTH have a good time then it's your decision to to go ahead and play , as for experimenting I still am ,I'm bisexual no question about that lol I spend more time with women ..I catch myself looking at women more than men ,but I'm def not done experimenting (this weekend oooft few firsts for me ) I guess it's about what you want and what makes you tick and meeting and getting to know women who want the same ,I totally agree with ma lady K above I wouldn't be playing with someone if it was one sided just wouldn't happen , I need a woman who get excite me to , did I mention I love boobs xxx
Sometimes when you are curious you are more experimental not all but done...
Ohh I love experimenting
Why does this not surprise me
Cheeky . "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm bi curious but don't advertise the fact.
I used to have this on my profile but was inundated with guys harassing (yes harassing) me to join them with their fb for an ffm or couples badgering (yes badgering) for me to get it on with their partner while they watched!
I must say I've never had a woman message me but I'm a go with the flow kinda gal and if it happens it happens.
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I've got filters on and I've clearly stated on my profile that I only meet women and the woman from couples ,if they take the time to read then they can see that ..but most don't hunni or try and chance thier luck so they are quickly told to jog on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm bi curious but don't advertise the fact.
I used to have this on my profile but was inundated with guys harassing (yes harassing) me to join them with their fb for an ffm or couples badgering (yes badgering) for me to get it on with their partner while they watched!
I must say I've never had a woman message me but I'm a go with the flow kinda gal and if it happens it happens.
I've got filters on and I've clearly stated on my profile that I only meet women and the woman from couples ,if they take the time to read then they can see that ..but most don't hunni or try and chance thier luck so they are quickly told to jog on "
I must be looking at the wrong women pmsl |
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"I'm bi curious but don't advertise the fact.
I used to have this on my profile but was inundated with guys harassing (yes harassing) me to join them with their fb for an ffm or couples badgering (yes badgering) for me to get it on with their partner while they watched!
I must say I've never had a woman message me but I'm a go with the flow kinda gal and if it happens it happens.
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That wasn't John it was me! I shoulda made that clear!
K x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Me I could spend hours with a woman exploring I love it !! I've met some girls who have been bi curious and yes it's been a first for them but hey we all have fantasies and tbh the girls I've met have been more than happy to experiment ,I think if you spend time chatting getting to know and a social first it's allows you to see if your going to BOTH have a good time then it's your decision to to go ahead and play , as for experimenting I still am ,I'm bisexual no question about that lol I spend more time with women ..I catch myself looking at women more than men ,but I'm def not done experimenting (this weekend oooft few firsts for me ) I guess it's about what you want and what makes you tick and meeting and getting to know women who want the same ,I totally agree with ma lady K above I wouldn't be playing with someone if it was one sided just wouldn't happen , I need a woman who get excite me to , did I mention I love boobs xxx
Sometimes when you are curious you are more experimental not all but done... "
No longer curious about my tastes but experimental about my boundaries and open minded to new experiences.
And I'm definitely a boobs woman |
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"Me I could spend hours with a woman exploring I love it !! I've met some girls who have been bi curious and yes it's been a first for them but hey we all have fantasies and tbh the girls I've met have been more than happy to experiment ,I think if you spend time chatting getting to know and a social first it's allows you to see if your going to BOTH have a good time then it's your decision to to go ahead and play , as for experimenting I still am ,I'm bisexual no question about that lol I spend more time with women ..I catch myself looking at women more than men ,but I'm def not done experimenting (this weekend oooft few firsts for me ) I guess it's about what you want and what makes you tick and meeting and getting to know women who want the same ,I totally agree with ma lady K above I wouldn't be playing with someone if it was one sided just wouldn't happen , I need a woman who get excite me to , did I mention I love boobs xxx
Sometimes when you are curious you are more experimental not all but done...
No longer curious about my tastes but experimental about my boundaries and open minded to new experiences.
And I'm definitely a boobs woman "
Mmm me to and yes totally get that it's always good to try new things xx |
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"I'm bi curious but don't advertise the fact.
I used to have this on my profile but was inundated with guys harassing (yes harassing) me to join them with their fb for an ffm or couples badgering (yes badgering) for me to get it on with their partner while they watched!
I must say I've never had a woman message me but I'm a go with the flow kinda gal and if it happens it happens.
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why not message them if that's what your looking for. |
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"Found it so easy to meet guys...
But where are all the girls looking for that first ffm or ff...cant just be me that is struggling to find a girl to play with.
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Ok, going to try to make sense in English so bare with me.
I agree with the points made by Karen and Lil. And I will try to add my bit.
First I don't find it easy to find a guy on here!
I know what am looking for in a guy and I know what am looking for out of Fab.
Secondly, yes I am bisexual. And I know what am looking for in a woman and it is not easy either to find what am looking for.
Luckily some genuine gems on here both male and female .
I find on here because you are a bisexual female it is expected that you will go for anyone with boobs/pussy!! Well... Am not!
I like to know who is attached to the pussy and the cock.
I have been a bi-curious girls 'guide', better than 'experiment' lol but we had so many things in common and a similar mind. She's no longer on fab for years now but we are friends still.
I have been with a bi-curious girl and a male partner. Couple of experiences. And trust me they were trying to put on a show for the male 
Her reaction each time I touch her was a real turn off. 
And those experiences make me even more attentive when it comes to playing with women.
Girl-girl play with the right person is great time.
Voila |
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"Found it so easy to meet guys...
But where are all the girls looking for that first ffm or ff...cant just be me that is struggling to find a girl to play with.
Ok, going to try to make sense in English so bare with me.
I agree with the points made by Karen and Lil. And I will try to add my bit.
First I don't find it easy to find a guy on here!
I know what am looking for in a guy and I know what am looking for out of Fab.
Secondly, yes I am bisexual. And I know what am looking for in a woman and it is not easy either to find what am looking for.
Luckily some genuine gems on here both male and female .
I find on here because you are a bisexual female it is expected that you will go for anyone with boobs/pussy!! Well... Am not!
I like to know who is attached to the pussy and the cock.
I have been a bi-curious girls 'guide', better than 'experiment' lol but we had so many things in common and a similar mind. She's no longer on fab for years now but we are friends still.
I have been with a bi-curious girl and a male partner. Couple of experiences. And trust me they were trying to put on a show for the male
Her reaction each time I touch her was a real turn off.
And those experiences make me even more attentive when it comes to playing with women.
Girl-girl play with the right person is great time.
Voila "
Max you always make sense and what a way with words girl love it |
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"Found it so easy to meet guys...
But where are all the girls looking for that first ffm or ff...cant just be me that is struggling to find a girl to play with.
Ok, going to try to make sense in English so bare with me.
I agree with the points made by Karen and Lil. And I will try to add my bit.
First I don't find it easy to find a guy on here!
I know what am looking for in a guy and I know what am looking for out of Fab.
Secondly, yes I am bisexual. And I know what am looking for in a woman and it is not easy either to find what am looking for.
Luckily some genuine gems on here both male and female .
I find on here because you are a bisexual female it is expected that you will go for anyone with boobs/pussy!! Well... Am not!
I like to know who is attached to the pussy and the cock.
I have been a bi-curious girls 'guide', better than 'experiment' lol but we had so many things in common and a similar mind. She's no longer on fab for years now but we are friends still.
I have been with a bi-curious girl and a male partner. Couple of experiences. And trust me they were trying to put on a show for the male
Her reaction each time I touch her was a real turn off.
And those experiences make me even more attentive when it comes to playing with women.
Girl-girl play with the right person is great time.
Voila "
Many words of wisdom here sis xxx |
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"Found it so easy to meet guys...
But where are all the girls looking for that first ffm or ff...cant just be me that is struggling to find a girl to play with.
Ok, going to try to make sense in English so bare with me.
I agree with the points made by Karen and Lil. And I will try to add my bit.
First I don't find it easy to find a guy on here!
I know what am looking for in a guy and I know what am looking for out of Fab.
Secondly, yes I am bisexual. And I know what am looking for in a woman and it is not easy either to find what am looking for.
Luckily some genuine gems on here both male and female .
I find on here because you are a bisexual female it is expected that you will go for anyone with boobs/pussy!! Well... Am not!
I like to know who is attached to the pussy and the cock.
I have been a bi-curious girls 'guide', better than 'experiment' lol but we had so many things in common and a similar mind. She's no longer on fab for years now but we are friends still.
I have been with a bi-curious girl and a male partner. Couple of experiences. And trust me they were trying to put on a show for the male
Her reaction each time I touch her was a real turn off.
And those experiences make me even more attentive when it comes to playing with women.
Girl-girl play with the right person is great time.
Voila "
Very well said hunni x |
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"I'm bi curious but don't advertise the fact.
I used to have this on my profile but was inundated with guys harassing (yes harassing) me to join them with their fb for an ffm or couples badgering (yes badgering) for me to get it on with their partner while they watched!
I must say I've never had a woman message me but I'm a go with the flow kinda gal and if it happens it happens.
That wasn't John it was me! I shoulda made that clear!
K x"
You guys never badger me enough |
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"I'm bi curious but don't advertise the fact.
I used to have this on my profile but was inundated with guys harassing (yes harassing) me to join them with their fb for an ffm or couples badgering (yes badgering) for me to get it on with their partner while they watched!
I must say I've never had a woman message me but I'm a go with the flow kinda gal and if it happens it happens.
why not message them if that's what your looking for."
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"I'm bi curious but don't advertise the fact.
I used to have this on my profile but was inundated with guys harassing (yes harassing) me to join them with their fb for an ffm or couples badgering (yes badgering) for me to get it on with their partner while they watched!
I must say I've never had a woman message me but I'm a go with the flow kinda gal and if it happens it happens.
That wasn't John it was me! I shoulda made that clear!
K x
You guys never badger me enough "
Oh god what you trying to do to me woman! My tummy did a flip flop there
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I am Bi and find it hard to meet a single bi girl on here mainly cause I feel that the ones I like are out of my league lol plus I am shy more so with girls but once I got started I would be ok.
I have tried to play with bi curious girls but I get a bit scared to start to have fun in case they feel like I am pushy which I am not, I always like to befriend her first I feel its better that way it helps with trust and sometimes fun happens which is always nice.......Maybe I should grow some balls and message girls I like hmmmm nah that ain't gonna happen overnight lol  |
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"I am Bi and find it hard to meet a single bi girl on here mainly cause I feel that the ones I like are out of my league lol plus I am shy more so with girls but once I got started I would be ok.
I have tried to play with bi curious girls but I get a bit scared to start to have fun in case they feel like I am pushy which I am not, I always like to befriend her first I feel its better that way it helps with trust and sometimes fun happens which is always nice.......Maybe I should grow some balls and message girls I like hmmmm nah that ain't gonna happen overnight lol "
that's a shame you feel your out their league. I'm sure your not..plenty nice gals on here , it's hard making that first step, but hopefully when you do it pays off |
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Ok... a bit hesitant to express this but bear with me ladies...
When I was first on Fab I was in a couples relationship... The first couple we met the lady was Bi... and in playing she played with me... it was amazing. Since then on the odd occasion I have had fem fun in a couples scenario but it is never something I want or seek, it is something that has just happened
spontaneously and when it does it's very enjoyable.
I also have a friend that instigated it fairly recently... just us... and I'm afraid it wasn't for me... so I am wondering if this helps with a "bi-curious" definition... i.e someone who can play under certain circumstances... or does it only confuse things more lolol  |
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"I am Bi and find it hard to meet a single bi girl on here mainly cause I feel that the ones I like are out of my league lol plus I am shy more so with girls but once I got started I would be ok.
I have tried to play with bi curious girls but I get a bit scared to start to have fun in case they feel like I am pushy which I am not, I always like to befriend her first I feel its better that way it helps with trust and sometimes fun happens which is always nice.......Maybe I should grow some balls and message girls I like hmmmm nah that ain't gonna happen overnight lol "
You are not out of anyone's league Emma.
What's the worse that can happen if you ask? They say no! So what?! But they could they yes
Just stay and be yourself, you are lovely as you are xx |
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"Ok... a bit hesitant to express this but bear with me ladies...
When I was first on Fab I was in a couples relationship... The first couple we met the lady was Bi... and in playing she played with me... it was amazing. Since then on the odd occasion I have had fem fun in a couples scenario but it is never something I want or seek, it is something that has just happened
spontaneously and when it does it's very enjoyable.
I also have a friend that instigated it fairly recently... just us... and I'm afraid it wasn't for me... so I am wondering if this helps with a "bi-curious" definition... i.e someone who can play under certain circumstances... or does it only confuse things more lolol "
To be honest Rouge, it's just a label!!
Everyone will have a different definition of what bisexual or bi curious are to them.
As long as you explain the way you feel to whoever you are playing with, my personal opinion is its all fine.
As long as everyone knows the boundaries.
Am not too keen on labels and fitting people into a box |
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"Ok... a bit hesitant to express this but bear with me ladies...
When I was first on Fab I was in a couples relationship... The first couple we met the lady was Bi... and in playing she played with me... it was amazing. Since then on the odd occasion I have had fem fun in a couples scenario but it is never something I want or seek, it is something that has just happened
spontaneously and when it does it's very enjoyable.
I also have a friend that instigated it fairly recently... just us... and I'm afraid it wasn't for me... so I am wondering if this helps with a "bi-curious" definition... i.e someone who can play under certain circumstances... or does it only confuse things more lolol
To be honest Rouge, it's just a label!!
Everyone will have a different definition of what bisexual or bi curious are to them.
As long as you explain the way you feel to whoever you are playing with, my personal opinion is its all fine.
As long as everyone knows the boundaries.
Am not too keen on labels and fitting people into a box "
As previously said Petit Pois... you have a wonderful gift with words and simplifying things... the scales are balanced as always. Rouge xXx |
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"Ok... a bit hesitant to express this but bear with me ladies...
When I was first on Fab I was in a couples relationship... The first couple we met the lady was Bi... and in playing she played with me... it was amazing. Since then on the odd occasion I have had fem fun in a couples scenario but it is never something I want or seek, it is something that has just happened
spontaneously and when it does it's very enjoyable.
I also have a friend that instigated it fairly recently... just us... and I'm afraid it wasn't for me... so I am wondering if this helps with a "bi-curious" definition... i.e someone who can play under certain circumstances... or does it only confuse things more lolol
To be honest Rouge, it's just a label!!
Everyone will have a different definition of what bisexual or bi curious are to them.
As long as you explain the way you feel to whoever you are playing with, my personal opinion is its all fine.
As long as everyone knows the boundaries.
Am not too keen on labels and fitting people into a box
As previously said Petit Pois... you have a wonderful gift with words and simplifying things... the scales are balanced as always. Rouge xXx "
Rouge xxx |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"Ok... a bit hesitant to express this but bear with me ladies...
When I was first on Fab I was in a couples relationship... The first couple we met the lady was Bi... and in playing she played with me... it was amazing. Since then on the odd occasion I have had fem fun in a couples scenario but it is never something I want or seek, it is something that has just happened
spontaneously and when it does it's very enjoyable.
I also have a friend that instigated it fairly recently... just us... and I'm afraid it wasn't for me... so I am wondering if this helps with a "bi-curious" definition... i.e someone who can play under certain circumstances... or does it only confuse things more lolol "
I've read through this post with great interest as my profile states bi-curious and I agree with your post. I have played with numerous women in couple situations and loved every time but have not actively seeked to meet women on my own hence I have not changed it to bi! To me it's just another fab label I am not adverse to meeting women on my own just the opportunity hasn't arisen, I'm sure I would love that just as much and maybe then I will change it if and when I do.
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"Ok... a bit hesitant to express this but bear with me ladies...
When I was first on Fab I was in a couples relationship... The first couple we met the lady was Bi... and in playing she played with me... it was amazing. Since then on the odd occasion I have had fem fun in a couples scenario but it is never something I want or seek, it is something that has just happened
spontaneously and when it does it's very enjoyable.
I also have a friend that instigated it fairly recently... just us... and I'm afraid it wasn't for me... so I am wondering if this helps with a "bi-curious" definition... i.e someone who can play under certain circumstances... or does it only confuse things more lolol
I've read through this post with great interest as my profile states bi-curious and I agree with your post. I have played with numerous women in couple situations and loved every time but have not actively seeked to meet women on my own hence I have not changed it to bi! To me it's just another fab label I am not adverse to meeting women on my own just the opportunity hasn't arisen, I'm sure I would love that just as much and maybe then I will change it if and when I do.
X"
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"I am Bi and find it hard to meet a single bi girl on here mainly cause I feel that the ones I like are out of my league lol plus I am shy more so with girls but once I got started I would be ok.
I have tried to play with bi curious girls but I get a bit scared to start to have fun in case they feel like I am pushy which I am not, I always like to befriend her first I feel its better that way it helps with trust and sometimes fun happens which is always nice.......Maybe I should grow some balls and message girls I like hmmmm nah that ain't gonna happen overnight lol
You are not out of anyone's league Emma.
What's the worse that can happen if you ask? They say no! So what?! But they could they yes
Just stay and be yourself, you are lovely as you are xx "
Thank you Max you are lovely you are its tough but yeah I should message and I may start doing so soon when I get the courage life's too short you got to live it and its something I enjoy xxxx |
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"I am Bi and find it hard to meet a single bi girl on here mainly cause I feel that the ones I like are out of my league lol plus I am shy more so with girls but once I got started I would be ok.
I have tried to play with bi curious girls but I get a bit scared to start to have fun in case they feel like I am pushy which I am not, I always like to befriend her first I feel its better that way it helps with trust and sometimes fun happens which is always nice.......Maybe I should grow some balls and message girls I like hmmmm nah that ain't gonna happen overnight lol
You are not out of anyone's league Emma.
What's the worse that can happen if you ask? They say no! So what?! But they could they yes
Just stay and be yourself, you are lovely as you are xx
Thank you Max you are lovely you are its tough but yeah I should message and I may start doing so soon when I get the courage life's too short you got to live it and its something I enjoy xxxx"
So very true Emmz - gofurrrrrrrrrit ya sexgodessoftheeast xxxx Yer TELT!!! CxXx  |
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"I am Bi and find it hard to meet a single bi girl on here mainly cause I feel that the ones I like are out of my league lol plus I am shy more so with girls but once I got started I would be ok.
I have tried to play with bi curious girls but I get a bit scared to start to have fun in case they feel like I am pushy which I am not, I always like to befriend her first I feel its better that way it helps with trust and sometimes fun happens which is always nice.......Maybe I should grow some balls and message girls I like hmmmm nah that ain't gonna happen overnight lol
You are not out of anyone's league Emma.
What's the worse that can happen if you ask? They say no! So what?! But they could they yes
Just stay and be yourself, you are lovely as you are xx
Thank you Max you are lovely you are its tough but yeah I should message and I may start doing so soon when I get the courage life's too short you got to live it and its something I enjoy xxxx
So very true Emmz - gofurrrrrrrrrit ya sexgodessoftheeast xxxx Yer TELT!!! CxXx "
Ok ok am telt lol will try to sending a first message is difficult then keeping interest can be tough will give it a go though  ya too magorgeousexgoddessofthewest xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm bi curious but don't advertise the fact.
I used to have this on my profile but was inundated with guys harassing (yes harassing) me to join them with their fb for an ffm or couples badgering (yes badgering) for me to get it on with their partner while they watched!
I must say I've never had a woman message me but I'm a go with the flow kinda gal and if it happens it happens.
That wasn't John it was me! I shoulda made that clear!
K x
You guys never badger me enough
Oh god what you trying to do to me woman! My tummy did a flip flop there
K x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I only meet bi women, I'm not looking to be anyone's experiment
Did you experiment first tho to find out if you were defo bi ? A gen question as beeing a tad bi curious yea long before fab though
I agree
Ok ...but my feeling is for some is that fab can be the place to experiment if you cant in your normal life
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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I don't class myself as bi or curious. I'd say I am a sexual tourist.
Long before my days on fab I like many had experimented a little and was left with a fantasy that made me want more.
I met a lady around 9 years ago. She was similar to me in newness to things but we talked lots and then tried it.I have to say the reality did not live up to the fantasy.
In time I then tried 3somes and took it from there.
Now I would happily play one on one with a woman if the connection was there but I'm still very much a novice and therefore wouldn't appeal to many.
I think in general it is harder to find ff fun on here for most people because its a numbers game.
There are other places to look though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say I am bi-curious! love watching female on female porn...complete turn on but when I joined a couple not long after I first joined fab...the reality wasn't as good as the fantasy...I enjoyed doing her and could have done it all day but her touching me was another story! If she had more experience it might have been better! Opportunity hasn't really come round again x |
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By *un4two16Couple
over a year ago
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This post really interests/ terrifies me (caz)
Until a few weeks ago I had never been with a girl, never kissed one etc.
Our profile still shows as straight and that's because I enjoyed the fem play i.e. I enjoyed me doing the doing but her touch just didn't work for me.
I would love to meet a bi lady but would need to be honest with her and say I don't have much experience.
I'm not looking for an experiment but someone to assist my development would be good, how else do people learn?
I'm sorry if we have messaged any of you and asked for any of the above
So straight, bi, or curious it doesn't really make much difference to us as long as there is attraction and respect.
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By *iz 1969Woman
over a year ago
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The girly journey I think based only on my own experience starts with the thought then the actual realization with actually meeting a fem,we all start on this wonderful road somewhere if its a road that stops after the first time well at least its been a life experience.
Agree completely with the no guys scenario for me the only way to explore and enjoy fem on fem is together or with a group of like minded fems.
Respect to all fems whatever there sexuality is we are all fems.
Kisses , smiles and girly love to you all
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By *un4two16Couple
over a year ago
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"The girly journey I think based only on my own experience starts with the thought then the actual realization with actually meeting a fem,we all start on this wonderful road somewhere if its a road that stops after the first time well at least its been a life experience.
Agree completely with the no guys scenario for me the only way to explore and enjoy fem on fem is together or with a group of like minded fems.
Respect to all fems whatever there sexuality is we are all fems.
Kisses , smiles and girly love to you all
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm down as bi curious, this thread has been an interesting read, I'm looking to meet females alone, I would also like to meet with my other half, preferably on my own first.
I think I would like to get to know the woman first see if we get on and can have a laugh but I've struggled to chat to some woman on here, I'll send a message and get one word replies so I then just stop messaging as they dobt seem interested.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a meet posted most this week for today and haven't had a single female message me."
Think some woman expect to be the ones messaged, I've found that I've had meets up and nothing,
I like messaging ppl first sometimes |
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"I've had a meet posted most this week for today and haven't had a single female message me.
Think some woman expect to be the ones messaged, I've found that I've had meets up and nothing,
I like messaging ppl first sometimes "
I've messaged a few, but either get deleted or the chat doesn't last long |
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"I've had a meet posted most this week for today and haven't had a single female message me.
Think some woman expect to be the ones messaged, I've found that I've had meets up and nothing,
I like messaging ppl first sometimes
I've messaged a few, but either get deleted or the chat doesn't last long"
Yeah you get one word answers and they just don't seem that interested, it happens suppose it takes time to find the truly fun ppl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey girls I have been meeting girls only for a while now and yes I am very flirtatious on here I do love the banter and a little fun with it , but when meeting ff I always chat loads and do a social first for me there has to be a connection there I know what I like and want and the other girl will be the same the only way anything would happen is if that sparks there , I have met some cracking girls and most of who I keep in contact with xx girls remember the ladies night dinner and cocktails in Jan that's going to be a great chance to get to know other fab ladies xx |
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"I've had a meet posted most this week for today and haven't had a single female message me.
Think some woman expect to be the ones messaged, I've found that I've had meets up and nothing,
I like messaging ppl first sometimes
I've messaged a few, but either get deleted or the chat doesn't last long
Yeah you get one word answers and they just don't seem that interested, it happens suppose it takes time to find the truly fun ppl "
Starting to think finding another female on here is something of a myth pmsl |
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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago
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"I've had a meet posted most this week for today and haven't had a single female message me.
Think some woman expect to be the ones messaged, I've found that I've had meets up and nothing,
I like messaging ppl first sometimes
I've messaged a few, but either get deleted or the chat doesn't last long
Yeah you get one word answers and they just don't seem that interested, it happens suppose it takes time to find the truly fun ppl
Starting to think finding another female on here is something of a myth pmsl"
Why don't you ladies get together??? |
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"I've had a meet posted most this week for today and haven't had a single female message me.
Think some woman expect to be the ones messaged, I've found that I've had meets up and nothing,
I like messaging ppl first sometimes
I've messaged a few, but either get deleted or the chat doesn't last long
Yeah you get one word answers and they just don't seem that interested, it happens suppose it takes time to find the truly fun ppl
Starting to think finding another female on here is something of a myth pmsl
Why don't you ladies get together???"
I like your thinking hunni x |
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"I've had a meet posted most this week for today and haven't had a single female message me.
Think some woman expect to be the ones messaged, I've found that I've had meets up and nothing,
I like messaging ppl first sometimes
I've messaged a few, but either get deleted or the chat doesn't last long
Yeah you get one word answers and they just don't seem that interested, it happens suppose it takes time to find the truly fun ppl
Starting to think finding another female on here is something of a myth pmsl
Why don't you ladies get together???"
Great idea I totally never though of that I was thinking more ffff cocktails ect what do you think Mrs |
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"I've had a meet posted most this week for today and haven't had a single female message me.
Think some woman expect to be the ones messaged, I've found that I've had meets up and nothing,
I like messaging ppl first sometimes
I've messaged a few, but either get deleted or the chat doesn't last long
Yeah you get one word answers and they just don't seem that interested, it happens suppose it takes time to find the truly fun ppl
Starting to think finding another female on here is something of a myth pmsl
Why don't you ladies get together???
Great idea I totally never though of that I was thinking more ffff cocktails ect what do you think Mrs "
Or maybe we have already planned that |
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"I've had a meet posted most this week for today and haven't had a single female message me.
Think some woman expect to be the ones messaged, I've found that I've had meets up and nothing,
I like messaging ppl first sometimes
I've messaged a few, but either get deleted or the chat doesn't last long
Yeah you get one word answers and they just don't seem that interested, it happens suppose it takes time to find the truly fun ppl
Starting to think finding another female on here is something of a myth pmsl
Why don't you ladies get together???
Great idea I totally never though of that I was thinking more ffff cocktails ect what do you think Mrs "
Well the 17th is well and truly in my calendar!! |
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"I've had a meet posted most this week for today and haven't had a single female message me.
Think some woman expect to be the ones messaged, I've found that I've had meets up and nothing,
I like messaging ppl first sometimes
I've messaged a few, but either get deleted or the chat doesn't last long
Yeah you get one word answers and they just don't seem that interested, it happens suppose it takes time to find the truly fun ppl
Starting to think finding another female on here is something of a myth pmsl
Why don't you ladies get together???
Great idea I totally never though of that I was thinking more ffff cocktails ect what do you think Mrs
Well the 17th is well and truly in my calendar!! "
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Calm yourself pmsl
Lol I think he is all flustered poor guy honestly us girls are quicker than you think "
Think??? I know he is pmsl!!! Poor soul |
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"Do you blame me ?????
Doesn't take much to get you flustered
Flustered not so much
More throbbing
God help your first meet after your fit pmsl
Lol. Will be interesting
Volunteering? "
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By *atmanhMan
over a year ago
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"Do you blame me ?????
Doesn't take much to get you flustered
Flustered not so much
More throbbing
God help your first meet after your fit pmsl
Lol. Will be interesting
Volunteering?
You propositioning me in public?? Pmsl"
Would never be so crass |
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"Found it so easy to meet guys...
But where are all the girls looking for that first ffm or ff...cant just be me that is struggling to find a girl to play with.
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