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So last Friday a woman on here decided to get in touch and we then spent a good bit of time chatting over the weekend and into Monday
We didn't have any disputes or heated debate just random chat and some good banter via the forums. Now though I'm unfriended and also blocked  lol
Some of the women on here need to be careful they don't get hurt by knocking themselves of that pedestal they put themselves on
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over a year ago
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"So last Friday a woman on here decided to get in touch and we then spent a good bit of time chatting over the weekend and into Monday
We didn't have any disputes or heated debate just random chat and some good banter via the forums. Now though I'm unfriended and also blocked lol
Some of the women on here need to be careful they don't get hurt by knocking themselves of that pedestal they put themselves on
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just because somebody talks to u .don't just assume anything .grow a thick skin .she may have changed her search thing and that would block anybody out with what she's looking for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe she changed her mind about liking you
Blocked you so she didn't need the whole...but why senario?
Dunno why your bothered...move on and get over it?
It's a virtual world |
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Going to be the bitch of the thread but I speak my mind.
It's not always the woman's fault. Bit easy to blame the other person!
You have been going on a few times about not being over your ex recently on the forum.
Don't you think this could be the cause. And has turned her off?
In any case. It is her prerogative. She didn't lead you on. Shrug your shoulders, roll your eyes  and move on.
Good luck OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some good advice up there OP from both male and female. Oldie, Max, NMD, Bunkie and Mature in particular. When chatting to someone and in the lead up to meeting they just might suddenly say something that makes you think... "Hing on... NAW!!" You won't ever know what because as Oldie rightly said she perhaps didn't want a tirade of "but why" messages... not saying that's the case but we all do things here to make our lives simpler... as everyone has said... put it down to Fabexperience and move on.
Good luck
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I'm with Max on this one. But if there's time for conversation there's time to end the conversation. For example this is a conversation I had with a very nice chap where there was a little misunderstanding that ended up with me getting blocked. Read it and see my mistakes. Mistakes anyone can make.
He opens with the very nice gambit on sexual tastes and preferences
"U like Pervy older men"
I explain that we are not short of offers from older gentlemen who are sexual excited.
"We get enough messages from them. We are blind to age. It's not a thing for us"
He then replies with a very direct message about the dress code for a sexual meeting he is proposing.
"I want to fuck her dressed as school girl"
Now it has to be said I'm confused. I thought he was his wife at this point as he is talking of being dressed in girls clothing so I ask her (him) what her (his) husband thinks about her (his) sexual wishes to be dress as a schoolgirl.
"You want to fuck my girlfriend as you are dressed as a schooolgirl? What's your husband think about that?"
"No I want her dressed as school girl I'm hubby"
So now I'm getting it! He wants his WIFE to dress as a schoolgirl and to do sexy things. Oh he is a kinky hot guy I need to think of something his wife will think is kinky too. I suggest a dressing up game too-
"Your wife dressed as a schoolgirl. Kinky. We could all dress as schoolboys and piss in her mouth"
Unfortunately he dosnt seem to like my offer of us pissing in his wife's mouth very much and asks for simpler sexual fair-
"Can I fuck ur girl"
-ur!!! This guy is so street he is so cool with his 'ur'. Now o can't answer for jizza so I tell him he might have to cool it as we need to get her on board. But I use his street launguage and drop the k&w from 'know' and say-
"I dont no if u can"
He enquiries into my reasoning for him to cool his jets.
"Why"
Well not wanting to beat around the bush I give him my initial thoughts on what jizza might think of his approach to our exciting forthcoming adventure. But I keep it 'street'
"Coz u r weird"
I say. AND THEN HE BLOCKED ME!!!!! I was shocked!!!! We could have talked about it. I'd been drinking water thinking about pissing in his wife's mouth wearing a school boys uniform wanking off all morning in anticipation. Gutted! But sometimes. You just have to accept it's not going to work.
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"I'm with Max on this one. But if there's time for conversation there's time to end the conversation. For example this is a conversation I had with a very nice chap where there was a little misunderstanding that ended up with me getting blocked. Read it and see my mistakes. Mistakes anyone can make.
He opens with the very nice gambit on sexual tastes and preferences
"U like Pervy older men"
I explain that we are not short of offers from older gentlemen who are sexual excited.
"We get enough messages from them. We are blind to age. It's not a thing for us"
He then replies with a very direct message about the dress code for a sexual meeting he is proposing.
"I want to fuck her dressed as school girl"
Now it has to be said I'm confused. I thought he was his wife at this point as he is talking of being dressed in girls clothing so I ask her (him) what her (his) husband thinks about her (his) sexual wishes to be dress as a schoolgirl.
"You want to fuck my girlfriend as you are dressed as a schooolgirl? What's your husband think about that?"
"No I want her dressed as school girl I'm hubby"
So now I'm getting it! He wants his WIFE to dress as a schoolgirl and to do sexy things. Oh he is a kinky hot guy I need to think of something his wife will think is kinky too. I suggest a dressing up game too-
"Your wife dressed as a schoolgirl. Kinky. We could all dress as schoolboys and piss in her mouth"
Unfortunately he dosnt seem to like my offer of us pissing in his wife's mouth very much and asks for simpler sexual fair-
"Can I fuck ur girl"
-ur!!! This guy is so street he is so cool with his 'ur'. Now o can't answer for jizza so I tell him he might have to cool it as we need to get her on board. But I use his street launguage and drop the k&w from 'know' and say-
"I dont no if u can"
He enquiries into my reasoning for him to cool his jets.
"Why"
Well not wanting to beat around the bush I give him my initial thoughts on what jizza might think of his approach to our exciting forthcoming adventure. But I keep it 'street'
"Coz u r weird"
I say. AND THEN HE BLOCKED ME!!!!! I was shocked!!!! We could have talked about it. I'd been drinking water thinking about pissing in his wife's mouth wearing a school boys uniform wanking off all morning in anticipation. Gutted! But sometimes. You just have to accept it's not going to work.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm with Max on this one. But if there's time for conversation there's time to end the conversation. For example this is a conversation I had with a very nice chap where there was a little misunderstanding that ended up with me getting blocked. Read it and see my mistakes. Mistakes anyone can make.
He opens with the very nice gambit on sexual tastes and preferences
"U like Pervy older men"
I explain that we are not short of offers from older gentlemen who are sexual excited.
"We get enough messages from them. We are blind to age. It's not a thing for us"
He then replies with a very direct message about the dress code for a sexual meeting he is proposing.
"I want to fuck her dressed as school girl"
Now it has to be said I'm confused. I thought he was his wife at this point as he is talking of being dressed in girls clothing so I ask her (him) what her (his) husband thinks about her (his) sexual wishes to be dress as a schoolgirl.
"You want to fuck my girlfriend as you are dressed as a schooolgirl? What's your husband think about that?"
"No I want her dressed as school girl I'm hubby"
So now I'm getting it! He wants his WIFE to dress as a schoolgirl and to do sexy things. Oh he is a kinky hot guy I need to think of something his wife will think is kinky too. I suggest a dressing up game too-
"Your wife dressed as a schoolgirl. Kinky. We could all dress as schoolboys and piss in her mouth"
Unfortunately he dosnt seem to like my offer of us pissing in his wife's mouth very much and asks for simpler sexual fair-
"Can I fuck ur girl"
-ur!!! This guy is so street he is so cool with his 'ur'. Now o can't answer for jizza so I tell him he might have to cool it as we need to get her on board. But I use his street launguage and drop the k&w from 'know' and say-
"I dont no if u can"
He enquiries into my reasoning for him to cool his jets.
"Why"
Well not wanting to beat around the bush I give him my initial thoughts on what jizza might think of his approach to our exciting forthcoming adventure. But I keep it 'street'
"Coz u r weird"
I say. AND THEN HE BLOCKED ME!!!!! I was shocked!!!! We could have talked about it. I'd been drinking water thinking about pissing in his wife's mouth wearing a school boys uniform wanking off all morning in anticipation. Gutted! But sometimes. You just have to accept it's not going to work.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just take it as her loss.
I've been blocked for no reason by cpls and single fems and I don't bother.
My view is, its definitely their loss and the people who know me, I'm sure will concur that its their loss
lol, I hope they will
Don't worry about it and just move on and enjoy the laughs and banter on here
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By (user no longer on site)
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100% agree horsey. We all have our types and I think people use the block as a filter for future searches so guys they dont like the look of dont pop back up! |
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Sometimes we've been known to block some people without them having the need to message us first ie status updates being offensive or political or as this site goes the hypocritical updates...... or fugly pics being reuploaded one too many times
I tend to reply to single guys with basic chit chat until they take the hint and block us
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By (user no longer on site)
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There is always a reason for being blocked..it may just be you are not aware of the reason.
It's not to be so don't dwell.
It's not going to have a major impact on your life |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some of the women on here need to be careful they don't get hurt by knocking themselves of that pedestal they put themselves on
Feckin Brilliant ..lolol 
OH ..Dont waste your time on someone who isnt willing to waste their time on you .
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
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I don't have a problem with blocking and I think some people are too sensitive about it but if you've been chatting to someone for a bit then it's not really too much to expect them to send a quick message saying 'sorry I don't think we're compatible' and then blocking. The problem, as ever, is that we don't know what was said to cause the block. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I'm the same block button is a last resort and only used for abusive messages . Not had to use it yet but came close on a few occasions x"
I'm obviously a woman but agree some women on here are so up themselves they would block for next to no reason . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been blocked twice in a week, one for not able to meet and we give them a nice message to say we couldn't meet for a while.
The other because we don't give out face pic's which clearly says on our profile |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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I generally do not block nobody has ever been what I would class as abusive, if anything the couples have been more pushy than the single men. If anyone wants to block us for whatever reason they can crack on we will not loose any sleep over it X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I block nutters,people I've met socially and don't want anything more,drama queens ,rude offensive people that mail and in general people I don't like the look of  |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"I block nutters,people I've met socially and don't want anything more,drama queens ,rude offensive people that mail and in general people I don't like the look of "
Lollll that's some list I'm surprised I'm not on it somewhere  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I block nutters,people I've met socially and don't want anything more,drama queens ,rude offensive people that mail and in general people I don't like the look of
Lollll that's some list I'm surprised I'm not on it somewhere x"
nah not at all,your lovely |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"I block nutters,people I've met socially and don't want anything more,drama queens ,rude offensive people that mail and in general people I don't like the look of
Lollll that's some list I'm surprised I'm not on it somewhere x nah not at all,your lovely "
Hahaha why thank you |
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I block moany faced bastards, those who are hilariously specific in their demands like, Oh you're looking for a woman with three tits who likes bareback mountain climbing with the goats are you? Or must have a 12 pack, a 2ft cock and and be the exact colour of a bar of dairy milk, while you're pics suggest your 5 a day is doughnuts. Fuck off.
I also block those who incessantly post parties with a "small charge" sorry girls I wouldn't ride you into battle. Also if you've got 200 plus veries from such encounters surely it's like playing aids wheel of fortune.
Yes I see the irony in my first reason so feel free to block away, we're hardly likely to talk let alone meet.
Peace out motherbitches |
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I got blocked by a woman who met my fb once 9 months before I did. Was confused but not too arsed. Was only looking her up to see who he'd been meeting with prior to arranging the nets type thing then I was blocked after I verified him.
Later found out from someone else she knows I'd apparently stolen her new bf off her!!! Lol fb thinks she's crazy too but there you go.
Lots of very random reasons to block...even made up ones!!!
I don't block unless I'm getting serious hassle. Got called a fat time wasting slag last week because I refused to drop everything at a moments notice to meet a guy I'd only just been speaking to. So he then messaged everyone on my veri list asking them about me, the meets I'd had with them etc!!! Psycho. So glad I didn't meet him after all! I'd have been found in Sandwich bags up and down the m9 |
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I've not been blocked so far - must be saying and doing something right
Although arranging some meets can be tricky especially if I accidentally leave the 'M' ticked and I get random messages from blokes wanting to know if they can shoot down my throat....
I don't block anyone per se, if they're polite I'm polite back.
It's easy to deal with, really
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"I block moany faced bastards, those who are hilariously specific in their demands like, Oh you're looking for a woman with three tits who likes bareback mountain climbing with the goats are you? Or must have a 12 pack, a 2ft cock and and be the exact colour of a bar of dairy milk, while you're pics suggest your 5 a day is doughnuts. Fuck off.
I also block those who incessantly post parties with a "small charge" sorry girls I wouldn't ride you into battle. Also if you've got 200 plus veries from such encounters surely it's like playing aids wheel of fortune.
Yes I see the irony in my first reason so feel free to block away, we're hardly likely to talk let alone meet.
Peace out motherbitches "
Ah hahahahaha!!!! Brilliant |
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"I block moany faced bastards, those who are hilariously specific in their demands like, Oh you're looking for a woman with three tits who likes bareback mountain climbing with the goats are you? Or must have a 12 pack, a 2ft cock and and be the exact colour of a bar of dairy milk, while you're pics suggest your 5 a day is doughnuts. Fuck off.
I also block those who incessantly post parties with a "small charge" sorry girls I wouldn't ride you into battle. Also if you've got 200 plus veries from such encounters surely it's like playing aids wheel of fortune.
Yes I see the irony in my first reason so feel free to block away, we're hardly likely to talk let alone meet.
Peace out motherbitches "
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"I block moany faced bastards, those who are hilariously specific in their demands like, Oh you're looking for a woman with three tits who likes bareback mountain climbing with the goats are you? Or must have a 12 pack, a 2ft cock and and be the exact colour of a bar of dairy milk, while you're pics suggest your 5 a day is doughnuts. Fuck off.
I also block those who incessantly post parties with a "small charge" sorry girls I wouldn't ride you into battle. Also if you've got 200 plus veries from such encounters surely it's like playing aids wheel of fortune.
Yes I see the irony in my first reason so feel free to block away, we're hardly likely to talk let alone meet.
Peace out motherbitches "
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By (user no longer on site)
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What annoys us is couples blocking you after chat and then exchanging pics. Bit of chat, all very nice then you exchange pics and they block you.
Only happened twice to us and you always expect that you're not everyone's type but pretty ignorant to block just because you don't fancy the person. There are some goal oriented emotional pygmies around though. They were real couples too but to be fair not Brad and Angelina so no great loss |
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