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all I seem to get told is your not my type
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All I seem to get told is I'm not there type I always reply with ok thanks for replying good luck but I've never actually asked why I'm not there type in my opening message 1 always send 3 or 4 face pics never a cock pic just wundering ladies could any of please give me some tips or maybe explain why I'm virtually nobody's type if u havnt seen me mail me and I will send face pics if u wish thanks for takeing time to read this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you checking that you're what the profiles are looking for?
What does your original opening message say?
Not every key fits every lock, be patient and find the one that fits! |
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Well I generally just say or hello then ask how they ate and ask if they fancy chatting I can't say much more to profiles without public pics and if they hav public pics I usually say they look gorgeous or lovely or sexy depending on the pics they hav public |
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I'm always polite whether real life or here I'm not gona put anything pushy or rude or sleezy in an opening message I just don't know what else to say in an opening message I know it's hard as so many single males here I'm quite shy in person b4 I start chatting with sum1 starting to wunder if I'm just to polite for here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it's about attraction 1st
And by the sound of it alot of other ladies are the same
Hang in there OP
Someone will fancy you just have to find the right chick
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry OP, you're not my type either. Your boobs aren't nice enough 
Don't let it get to you. Onwards an upwards "
Don't worry OP he told me the same thing 
I'm quite pedantic and I can be put off by spelling, I know I shouldn't but I do.  |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"Sorry OP, you're not my type either. Your boobs aren't nice enough
Don't let it get to you. Onwards an upwards
Don't worry OP he told me the same thing
I'm quite pedantic and I can be put off by spelling, I know I shouldn't but I do. "
Errrr.....hang on a second.....your boobs are excellent 
(Other boobs are available)
(All boobs are excellent)
(Management reserves the right to 'cop a feel' of any boobs put in front of it)
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"Sorry OP, you're not my type either. Your boobs aren't nice enough
Don't let it get to you. Onwards an upwards
Don't worry OP he told me the same thing
I'm quite pedantic and I can be put off by spelling, I know I shouldn't but I do.
Errrr.....hang on a second.....your boobs are excellent
(Other boobs are available)
(All boobs are excellent)
(Management reserves the right to 'cop a feel' of any boobs put in front of it then run before face gets slapped )
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Sorted |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
Falkirk |
"Sorry OP, you're not my type either. Your boobs aren't nice enough
Don't let it get to you. Onwards an upwards
Don't worry OP he told me the same thing
I'm quite pedantic and I can be put off by spelling, I know I shouldn't but I do.
Errrr.....hang on a second.....your boobs are excellent
(Other boobs are available)
(All boobs are excellent)
(Management reserves the right to 'cop a feel' of any boobs put in front of it then run before face gets slapped )
Sorted "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been told that chat is important too OP. In fact I was chatting to someone very recently for quite a while before I realised she had no idea what I looked like.
At that point I did send a face pic and it was well received. 
Also on the flip side of this if I get messages back and the chat is really poor then I will lose interest regardless of looks. This is why I never send a face pic with my first message to anyone. |
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"I've been told that chat is important too OP. In fact I was chatting to someone very recently for quite a while before I realised she had no idea what I looked like.
At that point I did send a face pic and it was well received.
Also on the flip side of this if I get messages back and the chat is really poor then I will lose interest regardless of looks. This is why I never send a face pic with my first message to anyone."
That's fair enough but I always do as most profiles ask for this anyway and my personal opinion is ladies get so many messages if I was them I prom would delete any messages without face pic as if there not attracted to u they would be waiting there time chatting and I don't want to waiste anybodies time |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"Too much hair....
Not my type
Hehe can't u handle a real man hehe I'm jokeing hehe don't u like running ur fingers threw a hairy chest"
Gawd no....
It's verging on a full blown phobia for me lol |
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"Too much hair....
Not my type
Hehe can't u handle a real man hehe I'm jokeing hehe don't u like running ur fingers threw a hairy chest
Gawd no....
It's verging on a full blown phobia for me lol"
Hehe oh well bring the wax then lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know this might sound odd but the fact you send 3 or 4 face pics would make me say youre not my type. I realise this might just be me being weird but I dont understand why guys send more than one?!? |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
Falkirk |
"Too much hair....
Not my type
Hehe can't u handle a real man hehe I'm jokeing hehe don't u like running ur fingers threw a hairy chest
Gawd no....
It's verging on a full blown phobia for me lol"
That's why if we ever met I've already promised 4 sweatshirts on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Right fella il give you my 2p. We all know couples and single women get a fair whack of emails and do struggle to keep on top of them. Even the most genuine of folk can get to the point of saying no thanks to nice guys or just not replying at all whilst trying to fight through the inbox. The ones who don't reply to emails sent because they have taken part of a forum game are just knobs so if that's something you experience block and move on.
Try a different approach, spend time in the chat rooms. You get out of the site what you put in, the personality and good banter side of a guy is important for fems and couples when selecting who to play with. I personally don't use them but it is a good place to start.
My approach is mostly different as I don't use the chat, I rarely send the first message (actually did today and got reminded as to why I don't ). I just let me poor banter show on the forums and have made some good friendships purely from that. I personally don't like the idea of sending emails out that will just add to the pile already in the girls inbox so my view is that if I get an email from someone it means they might be more interested in speaking to me |
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"I know this might sound odd but the fact you send 3 or 4 face pics would make me say youre not my type. I realise this might just be me being weird but I dont understand why guys send more than one?!? "
You can take ten face pics of me and i can look quite different in each one, stubble, smooth, different light etc. Nothing beats face to face.....But you have to get there first. |
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"Right fella il give you my 2p. We all know couples and single women get a fair whack of emails and do struggle to keep on top of them. Even the most genuine of folk can get to the point of saying no thanks to nice guys or just not replying at all whilst trying to fight through the inbox. The ones who don't reply to emails sent because they have taken part of a forum game are just knobs so if that's something you experience block and move on.
Try a different approach, spend time in the chat rooms. You get out of the site what you put in, the personality and good banter side of a guy is important for fems and couples when selecting who to play with. I personally don't use them but it is a good place to start.
My approach is mostly different as I don't use the chat, I rarely send the first message (actually did today and got reminded as to why I don't ). I just let me poor banter show on the forums and have made some good friendships purely from that. I personally don't like the idea of sending emails out that will just add to the pile already in the girls inbox so my view is that if I get an email from someone it means they might be more interested in speaking to me "
Yeah I comment in forum and go in chatroom don't get me wrong I'm not desperate to meet people I just simply put this post out for maybe some advice really maybe some sugestion and I've had a few thanks and I've chuckled at a few comments so for me it's been worthwhile I've been on site 18 months ish now and up until recently only really been chatting and happy doing that had my 1st meet few weeks ago with a very lovely lady which I couldn't of asked for a better 1st meet so as I say this was just for a little advice or opinions thanks for takeing the time to write ur essay and for that I seem to hav replied with 1 lol thanks again |
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"Well I generally just say or hello then ask how they ate and ask if they fancy chatting I can't say much more to profiles without public pics and if they hav public pics I usually say they look gorgeous or lovely or sexy depending on the pics they hav public "
You are saying the same boring generic rubbish that all the other fellas say. Unless you are mega good looking the message will just be deleted. |
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"I know this might sound odd but the fact you send 3 or 4 face pics would make me say youre not my type. I realise this might just be me being weird but I dont understand why guys send more than one?!?
You can take ten face pics of me and i can look quite different in each one, stubble, smooth, different light etc. Nothing beats face to face.....But you have to get there first."
Yeah I get that but Id maybe just send the one that represents you as you are now and is in the best light x |
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"Well I generally just say or hello then ask how they ate and ask if they fancy chatting I can't say much more to profiles without public pics and if they hav public pics I usually say they look gorgeous or lovely or sexy depending on the pics they hav public
You are saying the same boring generic rubbish that all the other fellas say. Unless you are mega good looking the message will just be deleted. "
Yeah I kindof know I am but I really don't know what to put in an opening mail and I don't know what to put on my profile lol |
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"I know this might sound odd but the fact you send 3 or 4 face pics would make me say youre not my type. I realise this might just be me being weird but I dont understand why guys send more than one?!?
You can take ten face pics of me and i can look quite different in each one, stubble, smooth, different light etc. Nothing beats face to face.....But you have to get there first.
Yeah I get that but Id maybe just send the one that represents you as you are now and is in the best light x"
Yup I think that's what I will do thank you I just assumed a few dif face pics in difrent looks might be better but I guess not thanks again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One day you'll send a message to someone who will be the one to start your fab adventure! Keep the faith! "
Or you might get lucky and someone hot will send you a hot message.  |
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"One day you'll send a message to someone who will be the one to start your fab adventure! Keep the faith! "
I've had a meet which was great lovely nice lady very sexy and a really nice person as I've said b4 I'm far from desperate this was only really for advice |
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"One day you'll send a message to someone who will be the one to start your fab adventure! Keep the faith!
I've had a meet which was great lovely nice lady very sexy and a really nice person as I've said b4 I'm far from desperate this was only really for advice"
A wee profile update might be in order x |
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"Well I generally just say or hello then ask how they ate and ask if they fancy chatting I can't say much more to profiles without public pics and if they hav public pics I usually say they look gorgeous or lovely or sexy depending on the pics they hav public
You are saying the same boring generic rubbish that all the other fellas say. Unless you are mega good looking the message will just be deleted.
Yeah I kindof know I am but I really don't know what to put in an opening mail and I don't know what to put on my profile lol"
Well if you don't know no one else knows what to put for you. |
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"One day you'll send a message to someone who will be the one to start your fab adventure! Keep the faith!
I've had a meet which was great lovely nice lady very sexy and a really nice person as I've said b4 I'm far from desperate this was only really for advice
A wee profile update might be in order x"
Ok thanks will do |
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ohh and just for the record your no my type either 
