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What advice would you give a newbie single female?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So a very good friend of mine has just joined fabswingers and I wondered what advice people would give her about profiles, meets a general do’s n don’ts.
She is new to swinging and newly single but We’ve took her to Cjs twice now (before she joined the site) so isn’t altogether a deer in the headlights lol
Musicmaid x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We would say don’t believe that all single guys are bad, they are not, avoid the countless amounts of pushy couples, there are many.
And if it looks like bullshit and smells like bullshit, then it’s probably bullshit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't meet guys who are pushy, sending the same copy and paste message every two or three days, big turn off. Tell her to be safe but most importantly, have fun by herself  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We would say don’t believe that all single guys are bad, they are not, avoid the countless amounts of pushy couples, there are many.
And if it looks like bullshit and smells like bullshit, then it’s probably bullshit."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We would say don’t believe that all single guys are bad, they are not, avoid the countless amounts of pushy couples, there are many.
And if it looks like bullshit and smells like bullshit, then it’s probably bullshit."
Good advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Block EVERYONE from messaging first to give her time to peruse site in peace and find her feet then lift blocks as she goes  "
Agreed Bunkie
n tell her not to put pictures on public display until she knows how fab works as there will be people on fab whom know her through another capacity, work, family etc... that she might not want to be known.
Wish her all the best and have a fantastic, hassle free time on fab
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I would say to find out what she is looking for and what she is hoping to get out of the site.
To trust her gut feelings/instincts.
To do a social in a public place first.
to do her own things! People will have an opinion either way.
And finally to have fun, she's on here for her own experience  |
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Take things at her own pace.
Get to know people before meeting.
Join in with socials as they are a great way to get to know people with no expectations.
Enjoy your time here when It gets too much hide your profile rather than delering and take a break so much easier than having to start again.
Enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We would say don’t believe that all single guys are bad, they are not, avoid the countless amounts of pushy couples, there are many.
And if it looks like bullshit and smells like bullshit, then it’s probably bullshit.
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"Block EVERYONE from messaging first to give her time to peruse site in peace and find her feet then lift blocks as she goes "
This! Otherwise she’ll be going for the delete button pretty quickly
K x |
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Don't feel you need to reply to every message you will be exhausted
Use your gut
Don't settle. ..if he don't float your boat that is ok.
Socials are great fun.
Also couples can be a safer option and lovely wives like me loan out their husbands to spread the love...lol |
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For a new f it would be join up then hide your profile and take time to find feet, so not harassed straight of the bat. Do things including profile in own time and when ready open it up and do things your way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't be too cynical or defensive with folk is always good advice - sometimes the written word can be misinterpreted. Also I personally would seek out folk with a few verifications. It has always been a deal breaker for me - from day one, due to the excessive number of fakes and timewasters in fab.
And don't take it too seriously! |
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"Become acquainted with reverse image searching!
And this is what?  "
shows you if pic appears elsewhere on the net......unfortunatly it dosnt tell you anything more than that contrary to popular belief |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Become acquainted with reverse image searching!
And this is what? shows you if pic appears elsewhere on the net......unfortunatly it dosnt tell you anything more than that contrary to popular belief"
Which can and has come in very handy for those numpties using stolen photos. Handy to know if that guy you're considering arranging a meet with is using photos of Tom Hardy's body, or the woman you're speaking to has stolen some Americans Instagram pictures |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Block EVERYONE from messaging first to give her time to peruse site in peace and find her feet then lift blocks as she goes "
^^^ This! And then filters! I only lasted a week when I first joined, couldn't hit the delete button quick enough  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Block EVERYONE from messaging first to give her time to peruse site in peace and find her feet then lift blocks as she goes "
funny I suggested this to be standard for newbies in the site suggestions. |
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Ignore every single message she receives in the first few days. They are the dregs of fab who no one will meet. They prey on fresh meat cos they are so desperate. Use fab mainly for keeping in touch with people from clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ignore every single message she receives in the first few days. They are the dregs of fab who no one will meet. They prey on fresh meat cos they are so desperate. Use fab mainly for keeping in touch with people from clubs."
exactly, if the good ones on fab are anything like myself i see a newbie and keep scrolling as i know there isnt going to be any point as she's either going to be scared off or ignore all the messages. |
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"Become acquainted with reverse image searching!
And this is what? shows you if pic appears elsewhere on the net......unfortunatly it dosnt tell you anything more than that contrary to popular belief"
Thanks Kola |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So a very good friend of mine has just joined fabswingers and I wondered what advice people would give her about profiles, meets a general do’s n don’ts.
She is new to swinging and newly single but We’ve took her to Cjs twice now (before she joined the site) so isn’t altogether a deer in the headlights lol
Musicmaid x"
Three bits of advice
1. good bend at the knees and bad girls bend at the waist
2. She should message me
3. All single men are the worst, and she should ingore all the shite they spout |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So a very good friend of mine has just joined fabswingers and I wondered what advice people would give her about profiles, meets a general do’s n don’ts.
She is new to swinging and newly single but We’ve took her to Cjs twice now (before she joined the site) so isn’t altogether a deer in the headlights lol
Musicmaid x
Three bits of advice
1. good bend at the knees and bad girls bend at the waist
2. She should message me
3. All single men are the worst, and she should ingore all the shite they spout "
Jeez!! Including yours lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So a very good friend of mine has just joined fabswingers and I wondered what advice people would give her about profiles, meets a general do’s n don’ts.
She is new to swinging and newly single but We’ve took her to Cjs twice now (before she joined the site) so isn’t altogether a deer in the headlights lol
Musicmaid x
Three bits of advice
1. good bend at the knees and bad girls bend at the waist
2. She should message me
3. All single men are the worst, and she should ingore all the shite they spout
Jeez!! Including yours lol x"
Haha I would call mine exhibit A! |
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