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over a year ago
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"Are there many (or any) fem dommes on here who like to meet and use men?
Having trouble finding one"
Haha if you find one pass her this way, I like to switch  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Join fet
Go to kink socials munches ect get to know scene more long ball game
Short ball game
Hire pro domme for session for both simples"
Fets site is poorly designed for mobile.. I find alt better  |
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I would echo what some have said, get out on the scene and get to know folks. Everybody was a nervous newbie at one point. Join fet and make friends through group convos etc. Don't get your hopes up that you go to a munch and you'll end up getting some kinky action, you might not even get it in a club.
The kink scene is very social, for the most part, people don't play publicly with people they don't know, never mind privately.
Just think of it as a new social group/bunch of friends where some of you might have the same interests-or not but you'll still make friends with people. |
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"Are there many (or any) fem dommes on here who like to meet and use men?
Having trouble finding one She is a Switch Loves to Dom a Guy "
The offer was placed on the table finding a single female to do it will be harder the a couple finding a single female. We are on fet honest opinion is it is shite although it is free so cant really complain. good luck with it.  |
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"I would echo what some have said, get out on the scene and get to know folks. Everybody was a nervous newbie at one point. Join fet and make friends through group convos etc. Don't get your hopes up that you go to a munch and you'll end up getting some kinky action, you might not even get it in a club.
Agreed more genuine people on scene and happier to meet socially first
To many on here like the idea and fantasy and won't meet for drink
Place is wild
The kink scene is very social, for the most part, people don't play publicly with people they don't know, never mind privately.
Just think of it as a new social group/bunch of friends where some of you might have the same interests-or not but you'll still make friends with people."
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"I would echo what some have said, get out on the scene and get to know folks. Everybody was a nervous newbie at one point. Join fet and make friends through group convos etc. Don't get your hopes up that you go to a munch and you'll end up getting some kinky action, you might not even get it in a club.
Agreed more genuine people on scene and happier to meet socially first
To many on here like the idea and fantasy and won't meet for drink
Place is wild
The kink scene is very social, for the most part, people don't play publicly with people they don't know, never mind privately.
Just think of it as a new social group/bunch of friends where some of you might have the same interests-or not but you'll still make friends with people."
If someone isn't willing to meet up at a munch, it kinda puts up a red flag for a lot of people. As I say, everyone is a nervous new person at one point so you just need to take that leap, I guarantee you won't regret it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"all dom couples and female have no single men on profiles no hope"
For what you are looking for and the messages you send I’d suggest finding a pro domme and paying for your specific kinks or try a bdsm club in the hope that you find someone willing as most people on this (a swingers site) will refuse you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get the feeling quite a lot of guys who want a female Domme don't realise the different types of dommes out there.
Most of the ones I know, their sexual kick is just using a man with no 'normal sexual fun' their only sexual gratification is using the guy, giving him pain or close to pain threshold etc....
I think as the guy you'd need to understand what you want and then find that specific Domme female. No offence intended but if I seen a guy on this or a similar sending a reply saying 'they want a female Domme', I'd just shake my head n think, someone's gonna pass him a test paper n checklist to see if he would pass, which I doubt he would pass.
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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"I get the feeling quite a lot of guys who want a female Domme don't realise the different types of dommes out there.
Most of the ones I know, their sexual kick is just using a man with no 'normal sexual fun' their only sexual gratification is using the guy, giving him pain or close to pain threshold etc....
I think as the guy you'd need to understand what you want and then find that specific Domme female. No offence intended but if I seen a guy on this or a similar sending a reply saying 'they want a female Domme', I'd just shake my head n think, someone's gonna pass him a test paper n checklist to see if he would pass, which I doubt he would pass.
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I have an image of guys in the schoolroom at CJs trying to pass the test for a Domme!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get the feeling quite a lot of guys who want a female Domme don't realise the different types of dommes out there.
Most of the ones I know, their sexual kick is just using a man with no 'normal sexual fun' their only sexual gratification is using the guy, giving him pain or close to pain threshold etc....
I think as the guy you'd need to understand what you want and then find that specific Domme female. No offence intended but if I seen a guy on this or a similar sending a reply saying 'they want a female Domme', I'd just shake my head n think, someone's gonna pass him a test paper n checklist to see if he would pass, which I doubt he would pass.
I have an image of guys in the schoolroom at CJs trying to pass the test for a Domme!
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Pmsllll. Aye and if they fail they get stamped on loooolloool  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've got a fascination with female worship and think that's about as far as my submissive side goes.
There's one girl on here who's into it but draws the line when it comes to being vocal and taking on a dominant role.the search continues lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely on the look out for some domme fun. Never joined fet but did spend about 5 years posting like a crazy man on Informed Consent and going to clubs like HoP (Perth), Obedience School (Aberdeen), Hells Bells (Aberdeen), Stunners (Edinburgh), DV8 (Edinburgh), Violate and Rebound in Glasgow and going to munches in Aberdeen, Dundee, Glasgow, Paisley and Kilmarnock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely on the look out for some domme fun. Never joined fet but did spend about 5 years posting like a crazy man on Informed Consent and going to clubs like HoP (Perth), Obedience School (Aberdeen), Hells Bells (Aberdeen), Stunners (Edinburgh), DV8 (Edinburgh), Violate and Rebound in Glasgow and going to munches in Aberdeen, Dundee, Glasgow, Paisley and Kilmarnock."
So many good little clubs. I remember HoP and DV8 with great fondness (RIP footman john).. different times..
Mistress Amelia x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely on the look out for some domme fun. Never joined fet but did spend about 5 years posting like a crazy man on Informed Consent and going to clubs like HoP (Perth), Obedience School (Aberdeen), Hells Bells (Aberdeen), Stunners (Edinburgh), DV8 (Edinburgh), Violate and Rebound in Glasgow and going to munches in Aberdeen, Dundee, Glasgow, Paisley and Kilmarnock.
So many good little clubs. I remember HoP and DV8 with great fondness (RIP footman john).. different times..
Mistress Amelia x "
Used to do a 200 mile round trip from Aberdeen to HoP and back again most months until the Sunday Mail ruined things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A good, safe and sane *male Dom is equally hard to find! So much so I still keep my connection with my ex Dom 100s of miles away.
Ordinarily I prefer to Domme men but it gets tiring if you do it all the time. There's a lot of greedy 'subs' out there who also don't know the true meaning of it.
I'm on an equal exolorative footing with my main lover and it's just blissful. My no2 is fairly vanilla, but it's intense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Boys boys boys you can find Dommes out there. Lots of Dommes I know like to be chased, to be wanted and desires. The chances of you finding your one true Queen by posting a message on a forum and expecting them to message you is very slim indeed.
Loads of good advice on here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe try a fetish site where the Dommes are more likely to be. "
Deffo, cant take anyone seriously as a sub from fab, too many guys just wanting to chat n get off on the fantasy n not actually go through with it!, better to be seen and show your willingness.....oh n see u tonight lovely  |
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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago
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"Maybe try a fetish site where the Dommes are more likely to be.
Deffo, cant take anyone seriously as a sub from fab, too many guys just wanting to chat n get off on the fantasy n not actually go through with it!, better to be seen and show your willingness.....oh n see u tonight lovely "
I'm willing anytime |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe try a fetish site where the Dommes are more likely to be.
Deffo, cant take anyone seriously as a sub from fab, too many guys just wanting to chat n get off on the fantasy n not actually go through with it!, better to be seen and show your willingness.....oh n see u tonight lovely "
Agree with you ..too many guys say they're into Dom but their profiles indicate they only want to fuck someone. They're using it as a gateway to meet someone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe try a fetish site where the Dommes are more likely to be.
Deffo, cant take anyone seriously as a sub from fab, too many guys just wanting to chat n get off on the fantasy n not actually go through with it!, better to be seen and show your willingness.....oh n see u tonight lovely
Agree with you ..too many guys say they're into Dom but their profiles indicate they only want to fuck someone. They're using it as a gateway to meet someone"
Oh yes then act shocked when i say eh im not fucking you lol! And never was gonna lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe try a fetish site where the Dommes are more likely to be.
Deffo, cant take anyone seriously as a sub from fab, too many guys just wanting to chat n get off on the fantasy n not actually go through with it!, better to be seen and show your willingness.....oh n see u tonight lovely
Agree with you ..too many guys say they're into Dom but their profiles indicate they only want to fuck someone. They're using it as a gateway to meet someone
Oh yes then act shocked when i say eh im not fucking you lol! And never was gonna lol"
I’m wondering if I should stop by work before coming to cjs tonight and pack a thing or 2 maybe a case lol |
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