you see alot of things about the age difference between men and women
for example i read one profile that said she was looking for older , she being 31 and her upper age limit was 43 now to me that is a normal age gap and not that strange. to me 12 or 15 years is normal so the question is what would you say is a odd age gap between couples |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"you see alot of things about the age difference between men and women
for example i read one profile that said she was looking for older , she being 31 and her upper age limit was 43 now to me that is a normal age gap and not that strange. to me 12 or 15 years is normal so the question is what would you say is a odd age gap between couples "
I dont think there is an odd age gap if your both compatible then age is just a number |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
What about the old dear on This Morning the other week? She's in her 80s and her toyboy is 30 odds. Keeping KY in business mind you.
10yrs either way seems reasonable. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"What about the old dear on This Morning the other week? She's in her 80s and her toyboy is 30 odds. Keeping KY in business mind you.
10yrs either way seems reasonable."
Haha she cracked me up. The "age is just a number" thing works up to a point, but I do wonder what else a couple like that would possibly have in common. If its just sex, then yeah age probably doesn't matter if everything functions. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Age is a number "
Age is not just a number. It includes physical ability and life experience. Generational differences and socio-cultural alignment. Maturity and confidence. It's naive to think these things don't matter in the long run. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Age is a number
Age is not just a number. It includes physical ability and life experience. Generational differences and socio-cultural alignment. Maturity and confidence. It's naive to think these things don't matter in the long run. "
my eldest married a gay twenty years older
The age is just a number |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Men find age gaps to be not a problem but women are different .
You see profiles all the time on here from men In their 50's looking for women and their age start at 18 most women In their 50's would never dream of meeting guys that age
As for relationships they do say you cant help who you fall in love with which is true but you do have a choice if you act on it or not ! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Men find age gaps to be not a problem but women are different .
You see profiles all the time on here from men In their 50's looking for women and their age start at 18 most women In their 50's would never dream of meeting guys that age
As for relationships they do say you cant help who you fall in love with which is true but you do have a choice if you act on it or not !"
I doubt many on here, Male or female, are searching for a relationship. This site is more for mutual satisfaction so in this case the age shouldn't matter. Some younger women look to an older man and expect a man with experience who can open their eyes to new experiences. While woman may look at the younger male as someone with the energy and desire to satisfy that older men may have lost. Others want someone closer to their age for the comfort side and more mature approach to the Swinging side. But at the end of the day we all like different things and that's why variety is the spice of life. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Men find age gaps to be not a problem but women are different .
You see profiles all the time on here from men In their 50's looking for women and their age start at 18 most women In their 50's would never dream of meeting guys that age
As for relationships they do say you cant help who you fall in love with which is true but you do have a choice if you act on it or not !I doubt many on here, Male or female, are searching for a relationship. This site is more for mutual satisfaction so in this case the age shouldn't matter. Some younger women look to an older man and expect a man with experience who can open their eyes to new experiences. While woman may look at the younger male as someone with the energy and desire to satisfy that older men may have lost. Others want someone closer to their age for the comfort side and more mature approach to the Swinging side. But at the end of the day we all like different things and that's why variety is the spice of life."
I agree |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I doubt many on here, Male or female, are searching for a relationship."
I always find it interesting when people divorce the emotional/relational aspect of finding a compatible partner from the physical acts. If "any holes a goal" is the objective then, yes, age is just a number. If compatability and meaning beyond mere sex is important, then age becomes key*
*imho |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I doubt many on here, Male or female, are searching for a relationship.
I always find it interesting when people divorce the emotional/relational aspect of finding a compatible partner from the physical acts. If "any holes a goal" is the objective then, yes, age is just a number. If compatability and meaning beyond mere sex is important, then age becomes key*
*imho"
I never claimed "Any holes a goal" but this is not a dating site in the traditional sense. Yes some will find partners on here but it's not the primary reason for being on a swinging site. I may be unusual, for a male, in that I need to have some attraction to any female I play with, weather that is physical , mental or emotional will vary from person to person. But I don't primarily think I will find a partner on here. If I did then all good but it's not the raison D'etra |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
"I doubt many on here, Male or female, are searching for a relationship.
I always find it interesting when people divorce the emotional/relational aspect of finding a compatible partner from the physical acts. If "any holes a goal" is the objective then, yes, age is just a number. If compatability and meaning beyond mere sex is important, then age becomes key*
*imho
I never claimed "Any holes a goal" but this is not a dating site in the traditional sense. Yes some will find partners on here but it's not the primary reason for being on a swinging site. I may be unusual, for a male, in that I need to have some attraction to any female I play with, weather that is physical , mental or emotional will vary from person to person. But I don't primarily think I will find a partner on here. If I did then all good but it's not the raison D'etra"
I think a lot of swingers feel the social side is as important as the sexual side of swinging. It's not about finding a relationship, it's about finding like minded people who you enjoy spending time with & can have conversations with about all sorts of things, hence a lot prefer meeting people who are in a similar age bracket. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I doubt many on here, Male or female, are searching for a relationship.
I always find it interesting when people divorce the emotional/relational aspect of finding a compatible partner from the physical acts. If "any holes a goal" is the objective then, yes, age is just a number. If compatability and meaning beyond mere sex is important, then age becomes key*
*imho"
I can obviously only speak as a single woman on this. The dynamic for couples will I imagine be very different, however I think the difficulty on here is that some people associate feelings /emotional connections with drama.
I also sadly, still think that a lot of men on here think single women on here are great for fun but not relationship material. And maybe even vice versa at times too.
Intamacy, chemistry and passion are important aspects for really satisfying sex. I think some people forget that and the sex while it might still be exciting becomes functional.
Novelty wears off and us singles then start seeking something more |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
It’s not just about physical age it’s about maturity. Some guys behave like idiots regardless of age and some younger guys are much more mature and know how to have a conversation and treat a woman.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago
middle earth |
"It’s not just about physical age it’s about maturity.
"
I completely agree, we have been with people 35 years older than us and people our age, we don't really see an issue playing with a large age gap, just as long as everyone is respectful and attractive we have no issues. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
For me, they need to be closer to my age than my sons so currently youngest would be 26 & upperly they need to be closer to mine than my mother's so 46. However I prefer the upper gap to be less than that. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I'm 30 n my partner is 49. I've always been attracted to older women, mature, curvy, yes I love the saggy bits and every single lump and bump.. my ultimate fantasy is a 40s mf couple where hubby wants me to abuse her.. but do it romantically. Deep sensual Kissing, caressing, undress her as she stands facing the wall and caress her legs ass lickin kissing her making her cum many many times... That's just the first roleplay scenarios of mine..
Love to bathe a woman, dry her up, get her in bed, massage her all over leading to a deep hard fucking session |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It’s not just about physical age it’s about maturity. Some guys behave like idiots regardless of age and some younger guys are much more mature and know how to have a conversation and treat a woman.
"
...and vice versa. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Age is a number
Age is not just a number. It includes physical ability and life experience. Generational differences and socio-cultural alignment. Maturity and confidence. It's naive to think these things don't matter in the long run.
my eldest married a gay twenty years older
The age is just a number "
I don't see what relevance your eldest's sexuality has in the discussion, Snoopy. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Age is a number
Age is not just a number. It includes physical ability and life experience. Generational differences and socio-cultural alignment. Maturity and confidence. It's naive to think these things don't matter in the long run. "
I think the old dear was meaning age is just a number if you want a shag. It’s more complicated if you want a relationship. She just wanted her Nat King.
God love her. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I have always preferred vastly older people to ei 15 years plus. For example My "celebrity crush" was Philip Schofield and nigella Lawson for the longest.
Key to success In my humble opinion is acknowledging that the is going to be generational diffrences and having common ground. A willingness to learn from each other also helps. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I used to always go for older men,
Two significant relationships were 17 and 18 years older, more recently though I've gone for yonger men or those closer to me in age, my older wiser self would tell the naive younger self that older doesn't necessarily mean mature and reliable!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Hmm we honestly don't see our age gap..
Maturity wise we are on par..
Education wise on par..
Life experience.. if anything i have been through more than he has, however obviously he's been around longer and seen more.
Our taste in music is different but that happens with people the same age.
Health wise.. I'm more likely to end up in a wheel chair before he does due to my health condition.
We both have children the same age so going through the same experiences of parenting.
I go to him for advice on certain things he has more experience with and vice versa.
This may seem a bit defensive, however I really don't see how or why age has to come into it.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Depends on what I’m looking for.
Couples especially cuckold couples I’m looking around late 30’s upwards due to the maturity required in sustaining said relationship
For my more Dom fetish playing I do not differentiate in age as long as they are mature enough to understand it’s only a game
Not here for relationship I’ve been there and certainly not going back. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
