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It's "fab" straight 
As said some women have on their profile won't meet bi guys, which is their preference; even if I don't understand the thinking behind it, so those guys are probably trying to avoid the automatic shoot down from those women. Also maybe the guy is really early into his curiosity and not even sure he is bi. |
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"What is it with straight guys messaging about meet other guys. At least put bi curious on your profile "
Like wise what is it about bi or gay messaging single straight guys when there’s a sister site specifically for them? |
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What is it with folk obsessing over labels. If he wants to play hide the boabie with you, does it really matter what label he attaches to himself?
Perhaps he uses his label as a filter. My profile states I'm straight yet the amount of messages I receive from guys becomes tedious. I'd imagine changing it to bisexual or bicurious would turn my inbox into a complete sausage-fest. |
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I'm sick of str8 guys messaging. When I point out that they're str8 in their profile almost always I get a reply saying no I'm bi but don't want to put it or I filled it out wrongly by accident.
Yeah yeah yeah. |
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"It's "fab" straight
As said some women have on their profile won't meet bi guys, which is their preference; even if I don't understand the thinking behind it, so those guys are probably trying to avoid the automatic shoot down from those women. Also maybe the guy is really early into his curiosity and not even sure he is bi."
what is it you dont understand ? They dont want to be with guys who like dick it's not rocket science.
No need to try and force folk to agree with your concept of what sexual orientation is or claim its bi-ism it's simple they dont like sex with boaboe hunters in much the same way they dont want an encounter with an octopus |
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"what is it you dont understand ? They dont want to be with guys who like dick it's not rocket science.
No need to try and force folk to agree with your concept of what sexual orientation is or claim its bi-ism it's simple they dont like sex with boaboe hunters in much the same way they dont want an encounter with an octopus"
Wasn't claiming any bi-ism or trying to force a concept of sexuality on anyone. Orientation is a wide and wonderful spectrum.
All I was saying is I don't get the thinking behind it, not that I don't understand that they don't want to meet bi guys.
Do find the comparing bi guys to octopus;even though I'm sure you were being facetious, offensive.
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"what is it you dont understand ? They dont want to be with guys who like dick it's not rocket science.
No need to try and force folk to agree with your concept of what sexual orientation is or claim its bi-ism it's simple they dont like sex with boaboe hunters in much the same way they dont want an encounter with an octopus
Wasn't claiming any bi-ism or trying to force a concept of sexuality on anyone. Orientation is a wide and wonderful spectrum.
All I was saying is I don't get the thinking behind it, not that I don't understand that they don't want to meet bi guys.
Do find the comparing bi guys to octopus;even though I'm sure you were being facetious, offensive.
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why do you find it offensive?
To my mind that's the biggest problem rather than acceptance folk get offended with little to no reasoning behind it |
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"what is it you dont understand ? They dont want to be with guys who like dick it's not rocket science.
No need to try and force folk to agree with your concept of what sexual orientation is or claim its bi-ism it's simple they dont like sex with boaboe hunters in much the same way they dont want an encounter with an octopus
Wasn't claiming any bi-ism or trying to force a concept of sexuality on anyone. Orientation is a wide and wonderful spectrum.
All I was saying is I don't get the thinking behind it, not that I don't understand that they don't want to meet bi guys.
Do find the comparing bi guys to octopus;even though I'm sure you were being facetious, offensive.
why do you find it offensive?
To my mind that's the biggest problem rather than acceptance folk get offended with little to no reasoning behind it "
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The view from my window is exactly as someone said already.... Straight guy messages, I reply along the lines of "Im not sure im your type, your profile says your straight" and almost every one says its because they dont want to put off the ladies who state "wont meet bi guys" (there is the occasional one or three that just dont read and think I'm female, which I kinda like  ) x x x
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Also just something to mull over for the ladies who "dont meet bi guys"... At least the ones that state bi are being honest and open with you from the start and trust me many, many of you are banging secretly bi guys and trust me again... the ones that are "straight" and contact me are also frequently the ones that want to go bareback! x |
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They are obviously not straight are they, I have lost count of the messages, winks and Fabbed pictures from males with straight on their profile.
Since I relocated back south too had a tonne of local ‘straight’ male profiles looking at mine, they can’t all be checking the competition out. I find Essex is full of a lot of closet cases for some reason, in contrast to other places I lived. |
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So what if he is straight but is being adventurous and wants to try it once but doesn’t want to change anything to bi-curious if he’s only dipping his toe in, especially if he’s only planning on it being a one off?
I get the comments about being bi/bi-curious yet meeting man/cd/ts but not wanting to put it on their profile that’s just shit |
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"What is it with straight guys messaging about meet other guys. At least put bi curious on your profile "
Normally it's the other way round on dating sites. Gay men having fake female profiles to flirt with straight men?  |
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"What is it with straight guys messaging about meet other guys. At least put bi curious on your profile
Normally it's the other way round on dating sites. Gay men having fake female profiles to flirt with straight men? "
bugger I thought that was a guy messageing me on tinder, she/he obviously knew to much about the off side rule |
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Yes test the "woman" asking them questions only men or well educated women would know... I'm into mountaineering and mountain biking so when guys chat to me about that, they may think i am a man. But i have 3 brothers and my best friends are men |
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