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Cross wires...really??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok this has really annoyed me. Guys moan all the time about having to do all the work etc on fab. But when you show enthusiasm and interest they get like “ oh I’m only looking for sex think we have cross wires”! Wtf!!! I’m on a couple profile to begin with and make it clear I’m only looking for sex! So how is showing that your keen a sign you’re after more??  can’t bloody win with some folk |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The bloke clearly thinks you have come on too strong and doesn’t want to meet ... that is his right just as it would be yours if the shoe were on the other foot. "
It’s not about that it’s about when you don’t show much interest guys moan when you do show an interest “some guys” not all which is my point get their egos in the way |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Alot are all talk and no action.
Very very true. Some guys just like their egos inflated a little and wank material
Don't give them any "
Yeah true I need to stop being so generous with my pics and vids  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What’s for you, won’t pass you and all that... Don’t think it’s a Man/Woman thing, the individual is one to avoid by the sounds of it, count yourself lucky  "
How did you reach that conclusion from the available info? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s my opinion, not a conclusion... If the communication is that bad, then it clearly isn’t a good match?? Do you not think? "
Perhaps but I wasn’t chatting to him any different to other guys and they’ve never had their wires crossed... |
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"It’s my opinion, not a conclusion... If the communication is that bad, then it clearly isn’t a good match?? Do you not think?
Perhaps but I wasn’t chatting to him any different to other guys and they’ve never had their wires crossed... "
Hence why I said, best avoided.. I’m pretty sure some lucky guy would appreciate your attention  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s my opinion, not a conclusion... If the communication is that bad, then it clearly isn’t a good match?? Do you not think?
Perhaps but I wasn’t chatting to him any different to other guys and they’ve never had their wires crossed...
Hence why I said, best avoided.. I’m pretty sure some lucky guy would appreciate your attention "
Agreed  why thank you very much  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes people just aren't compatible. It doesn't mean either of you are bad people because your personalities don't match. Some people don't get innuendo, some people need things laid out for them while others are deliciously dry and witty. Just like face-to-face conversations, some people can be hard work! |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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"Update: soooo the plot thickens... he said because I asked for a social that’s why he thought I wanted more... "
I always ask for a social. How else are you going to know there’s a connection. If they can’t respect your request for a social meet, will they respect any boundaries you have? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The bloke clearly thinks you have come on too strong and doesn’t want to meet ... that is his right just as it would be yours if the shoe were on the other foot.
It’s not about that it’s about when you don’t show much interest guys moan when you do show an interest “some guys” not all which is my point get their egos in the way"
Just life I guess. Plenty females also make out they’re interested then aren’t when the time comes. Swingers and roundabouts of life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Alot are all talk and no action.this 
Snopes you're agreeing that guys are all talk and no action? "
There are a lot that are all talk though that person was right in saying that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Alot are all talk and no action.this
Snopes you're agreeing that guys are all talk and no action?
did you read the original post "
Several times, which didn't answer my question.. I'm assuming the men you have met are all talk and no action either? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Update: soooo the plot thickens... he said because I asked for a social that’s why he thought I wanted more... "
Is he an old hand or a newbie? When I joined I thought a social meant going to clubs which was off-putting. Took me a bit to realise clubs, coffee or a nice dinner are all lumped into the term. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd say dinner was more a date?
Yeah defo when I say social it could be a quick chat or a coffee
I'm getting classy in my dotage "
Well it’s more about being discreet for me really. Plus don’t think my man would like me going to dinner with a guy. Not really a swinging type of social more of a tinder I would say. But each to their own |
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"I'd say dinner was more a date?
Yeah defo when I say social it could be a quick chat or a coffee
I'm getting classy in my dotage
Well it’s more about being discreet for me really. Plus don’t think my man would like me going to dinner with a guy. Not really a swinging type of social more of a tinder I would say. But each to their own "
Absolutely nothing wrong with asking for a social, after all you have to think of your own safety first. If someone is not willing to at least meet for a coffee first then they are not worth your time. |
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I think you dodged bullet myself. I think what you asked for was completely reasonable. I suspect he would have let you down when it came to it. Perhaps he’s gods gift and any woman would be lucky to have him.... but I doubt it 
I hope you find plenty more guys who will make you happy x |
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In the current climate a social meeting is the minimum requirement you should look for prior to meeting another individual.
In simple terms;
You do not know me. I do not know you.
You do not know anyone who does know me. I do not know anyone who knows you.
Other than a short spell of messages we havd never had a in person conversation
You have never been in the same space as me. I have never been in the same space as you.
Why on Earth would I want to invite a perfect stranger into my life?
Why on Earth would you want to invite a perfect stranger into your life?
Beggars belief the risks people take to meeting another person without any form of safety net!
He is an idiot! As is any person who does not look after ther own safety first....
Block and move on!
Let Darwin and evolution do it's work for you.....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In the current climate a social meeting is the minimum requirement you should look for prior to meeting another individual.
In simple terms;
You do not know me. I do not know you.
You do not know anyone who does know me. I do not know anyone who knows you.
Other than a short spell of messages we havd never had a in person conversation
You have never been in the same space as me. I have never been in the same space as you.
Why on Earth would I want to invite a perfect stranger into my life?
Why on Earth would you want to invite a perfect stranger into your life?
Beggars belief the risks people take to meeting another person without any form of safety net!
He is an idiot! As is any person who does not look after ther own safety first....
Block and move on!
Let Darwin and evolution do it's work for you..... "
My thoughts exactly |
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