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By *oxyFucker OP Man 36 weeks ago
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If you're a single guy in PDI I'd forget secrets.
€50 get in then they want another €10 go into the play area that's only for couples and women so you'll be separated by a set of bars unless you pay the extra 10 Euro and just stuck with the guys.
Make sure you keep your ticket issued when you get in...mine I thought was just a receipt but when I failed to find it I was told I couldn't get a locker to stop and play. I had to show them my phone payment...I mean seriously I'd only just walked through the door past the "security" guys so I was hardly likely just gate crashed the place. IMO in comparison with Eden, the secret swingers club is just a business who don't do customer care |
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By *oxyFucker OP Man 36 weeks ago
.. a sexual playground |
"Single guys have never been able to get into the couples area mate.
All that has changed is the price has gone up. Which I think everyone agrees is a total rip off.
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Yeah I'm having to rethink about Eden, it's €30 with 2 drinks thrown in and no stupid segregation...Jesus, we're grown men and there are rules. I appreciate it they want keep the couples separate but I'm sure many couples can stand their ground and tell a guy "NO" without much hassle...might try that funfirall tonight but I'll ask what's what before I part with the wonga lol |
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Please don’t take this the wrong way mate, I feel your pain. Being a single guy attending cubs in PDI can be tough and also expensive. A bit of research ahead of time was enough to alert me to the fact that this club is not for me. I personally don’t like that approach and don’t want to be treated like that, however fully respect that it works for others, particularly some couples. So I keep researching and find the places that are a better fit. Even then it’s hit and miss. Eden is a lovely inclusive club but as always with clubs you need the stars to line up for those epic nights we love. Good luck,, and hope you have a great time. |
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"Single guys have never been able to get into the couples area mate.
All that has changed is the price has gone up. Which I think everyone agrees is a total rip off.
Yeah I'm having to rethink about Eden, it's €30 with 2 drinks thrown in and no stupid segregation...Jesus, we're grown men and there are rules. I appreciate it they want keep the couples separate but I'm sure many couples can stand their ground and tell a guy "NO" without much hassle...might try that funfirall tonight but I'll ask what's what before I part with the wonga lol"
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By *oxyFucker OP Man 36 weeks ago
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"Please don’t take this the wrong way mate, I feel your pain. Being a single guy attending cubs in PDI can be tough and also expensive. A bit of research ahead of time was enough to alert me to the fact that this club is not for me. I personally don’t like that approach and don’t want to be treated like that, however fully respect that it works for others, particularly some couples. So I keep researching and find the places that are a better fit. Even then it’s hit and miss. Eden is a lovely inclusive club but as always with clubs you need the stars to line up for those epic nights we love. Good luck,, and hope you have a great time. "
Thank you....that's a good post and reply |
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We’re going to try Eden tomorrow. Hopefully it’s a good bet on ‘hotwives/gentlemen’s night’.
Let’s see……
We did Secrets yesterday. It’s very much aimed at couples. We of course was fun for us. At one point we wanted to find a guy and so ended up near the barred bit where they congregate one side. Us the other…… actually this interaction for us was fun. And next time we are just going to go round and play in that dark area.
We feel for the single guys tho. It also appears to have put a lot off as they have been in short supply so far.
We will keep looking. 
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We have spent the last 5 days in PDI and we did try a few different clubs .
So we tried Eden, the club itself was very nice and we wanted to have a look round. However we were not allowed to clothed . We were just shown a side bit just off the bar where a few guys were waiting in towels . A bit disappointed so we just drank our drink and left.
We then tried secrets . I think this place suited our taste. We like the dark/glory holes and lockable rooms . Down side is the guys obviously paying much more were at some points rude and follow you around to the point I had to tell a few off for groping Mrs as she walked passed.
On another night we tried Peaches and Cream. I was not sure what to make of this place. I mean yeah the bar is nice but it just had a big orgy style bed and 2 poor glory holes. Again was not really much in the way of play areas if you’re not looking to play in front of all in the bar.
All being said we ended up at secrets pretty much every night. Invited people into a room and had so much fun. Obviously it’s each to their own and preference. But secrets was the best in our opinion. But like they say opinions are like ass holes - we all have them
Other down side - I don’t think any guys are out to give pleasure - for the most part they would pop a Jonny on give 2 or 3 thrusts and then walk out . Found it weird . I guess everyone is out for there own kicks but daammmmmnn lol |
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By *tepkyMan 36 weeks ago
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This is an interesting read, i am travelling alone to PDI 21st -24th November and i was going to try my first club but it has put me off visiting a club……..
Just out of interest do couples meet in the bars in PDI as i think a need a different way to meet people!! |
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"This is an interesting read, i am travelling alone to PDI 21st -24th November and i was going to try my first club but it has put me off visiting a club……..
Just out of interest do couples meet in the bars in PDI as i think a need a different way to meet people!!"
You should definitely try Clubs. They are great fun. Just pick the right ones. |
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By *tepkyMan 36 weeks ago
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"This is an interesting read, i am travelling alone to PDI 21st -24th November and i was going to try my first club but it has put me off visiting a club……..
Just out of interest do couples meet in the bars in PDI as i think a need a different way to meet people!!
You should definitely try Clubs. They are great fun. Just pick the right ones. "
Which are the right ones for solo men? |
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You should definitely try Clubs. They are great fun. Just pick the right ones. "
Completely agree. I've been travelling here as a single male for a few years and I've had some great nights in clubs.
I don't go to Secret, for the reasons mentioned above, but it is probably a good club for couples. Eden, Fun4All and Peaches can all be good for single males (as was 2x2 before it closed), as long as you treat people with respect and don't presume that you'll 'get lucky'. It is worth checking which are the correct nights for each club as some have couples only nights, bi nights, etc.
Good luck, and have fun! |
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By *I TwoCouple 36 weeks ago
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"If you're a single guy in PDI I'd forget secrets.
€50 get in then they want another €10 go into the play area that's only for couples and women so you'll be separated by a set of bars unless you pay the extra 10 Euro and just stuck with the guys.
Make sure you keep your ticket issued when you get in...mine I thought was just a receipt but when I failed to find it I was told I couldn't get a locker to stop and play. I had to show them my phone payment...I mean seriously I'd only just walked through the door past the "security" guys so I was hardly likely just gate crashed the place. IMO in comparison with Eden, the secret swingers club is just a business who don't do customer care"
You seem confused
The entry ticket gets you your drink(s)
The €10 is for the locker and you get €5 back when you return the key.
You can only get into the couples area if accompanied by a couple and go to a private room |
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By *ral lover01Man 36 weeks ago
Altrincham & Portsmouth, north West, South East |
As a regular to PDI, in May this year a Saturday night for single guy is €70, €50 on a week night.
Two drinks and a locker charge of €10 (€5 refundable when return key).
Lots of other good good clubs to go to however cupids ends up being the place to be often at the end of the night.
Cupids can be a savage place for single guys. You have to put the ground in, chat to people at the bar, dance on the dance floor otherwise just standing around in the singles section, you may not achieve anything, you may get lucky if couples wonder past.
October being very busy, there are generally enough single ladies around to accompany a single guy.
Pay for their entry (as a couple). It's cheaper than a single male price and they get in for free... Win... Win lol.
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By *offusCouple 36 weeks ago
Ireland |
"We have spent the last 5 days in PDI and we did try a few different clubs .
So we tried Eden, the club itself was very nice and we wanted to have a look round. However we were not allowed to clothed . We were just shown a side bit just off the bar where a few guys were waiting in towels . A bit disappointed so we just drank our drink and left.
We then tried secrets . I think this place suited our taste. We like the dark/glory holes and lockable rooms . Down side is the guys obviously paying much more were at some points rude and follow you around to the point I had to tell a few off for groping Mrs as she walked passed.
On another night we tried Peaches and Cream. I was not sure what to make of this place. I mean yeah the bar is nice but it just had a big orgy style bed and 2 poor glory holes. Again was not really much in the way of play areas if you’re not looking to play in front of all in the bar.
All being said we ended up at secrets pretty much every night. Invited people into a room and had so much fun. Obviously it’s each to their own and preference. But secrets was the best in our opinion. But like they say opinions are like ass holes - we all have them
Other down side - I don’t think any guys are out to give pleasure - for the most part they would pop a Jonny on give 2 or 3 thrusts and then walk out . Found it weird . I guess everyone is out for there own kicks but daammmmmnn lol "
Arriving on the 15th. Very interesting comments in this thread. Was it bad with pushy guys can’t be dealing with that headache, don’t like been touched it’s nice to be asked, better to go early before clubs get packed. We are all there to enjoy 😊 and hopefully that turns out to be the case. |
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We haven’t enjoyed secrets as much as other clubs either anytime we’ve been.
Haven’t heard of paying extra to get in the couples area. Also worth noting the 10 for locker, you only get 5 back if you pay cash.
Play rooms through the back are very very dark, always wipe the bed down before you sit on it as they’re rarely cleaned after play.
Peaches and cream is one of our top pics, the staff are great in there |
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I’m sure it’s a great club but as far as tours go we were not given one. We were pointed down a corridor beside the bar where guys were sat in towels and told if we wanted to go down there we go to locker rooms and change. Again tho that’s not a slight on the place just not our thing. Didn’t want to get undressed just to look around |
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*Eden* I’m sure it’s a great club but as far as tours go we were not given one. We were pointed down a corridor beside the bar where guys were sat in towels and told if we wanted to go down there we go to locker rooms and change. Again tho that’s not a slight on the place just not our thing. Didn’t want to get undressed just to look around |
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Tbh I feel your pain. But ive genuinely had so much fun in their!
70 euros 2 drinks and basically be respectful... and hard at all times lol.
10 euros deposit extra for a locker. Sometimes pre drinks you need to mix and mingle and see where the crowd is going. Its a dear gig but do Eden and try tantra fun4all and ellys for drinks too.
If its your first time in pdi youll get the just of how secrets works. |
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"If you're a single guy in PDI I'd forget secrets.
€50 get in then they want another €10 go into the play area that's only for couples and women so you'll be separated by a set of bars unless you pay the extra 10 Euro and just stuck with the guys.
Make sure you keep your ticket issued when you get in...mine I thought was just a receipt but when I failed to find it I was told I couldn't get a locker to stop and play. I had to show them my phone payment...I mean seriously I'd only just walked through the door past the "security" guys so I was hardly likely just gate crashed the place. IMO in comparison with Eden, the secret swingers club is just a business who don't do customer care
You seem confused
The entry ticket gets you your drink(s)
The €10 is for the locker and you get €5 back when you return the key.
You can only get into the couples area if accompanied by a couple and go to a private room"
I believe NI is right.
There’s segregation for a reason because lots of couples want to swing with other couples, and we know the stigma of door wankers and the wanking dead. If you’re then having to be alert in the open areas, then it takes the edge off.
The mixed area does get frequented by couples/women, as there are couples that want single men. Of course that doesn’t mean every single man but it’s up to them to say yes or no, in the same way couples can say yes or no to other couples.
Personally I like this about secret as it’s clear about where you want to go for fun.
We’d be disappointed if there was a charge to allow males into a couples area. The €10 for a locker and €5 back sounds correct. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Business 101, price reflects demand. If a guy is willing to pay €70 on a Friday/Saturday, with a high likelihood he'll be stuck at the Bar and nowhere near any play, then why not charge it? The number of single guys going to PDI has actually made it easy to charge them more.
Eden remains best value for guys but with Moonlight Dreams closed, is very isolated out in Nilo. Route69 closing has also been a big loss for guys. Ely's for a drink later anyone? |
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Just out of interest, how much are single men paying to enter comparable clubs in the UK?
€70 - £61, €50 - £43.50 and includes two drinks. Which if you have a spirit/mixer or cocktail is €8-€10.
So in my head for the busiest club on the island with a couple of cocktails, paying £26.50 during the week and £43.50 for the entrance seems reasonable. Especially as I’m sure you can also mix this with a trip to Majestic, which is very swanky.
But as others have said, you can head to Eden, Fun4All and Peaches, which the costs are considerably lower. Personally, I would also endorse these clubs. All great places. Just keep an eye on fab for the days and places to be.
As the idiom goes; you pay your money and take your choice. |
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We love secrets. The fun on the dance floor. The tease at the bars. For us we get to flirt and have a little fun at the bars feeling safe that we can walk away. And we can invite a guy into the couples area if we want to. Single guys hook up with a girl outside and pay for her to get in. |
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Fun4all has always been our go to club on a night out…and have introduced many single guys to the club scene in PDI via Fun4all…
Think current entry fee for a single guy there is 30 euros including a drink…
Can highly recommend…of course with any club, if ratio is too many guys re couple then you will be turned away at the door… but an hour later..might be ok.. |
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We're a couple who like couples and single guys,so we really liked Secrets because we knew where to go in the place for what we were looking for.
We also liked that in each area there were distinct like minded people. We loved the dark nooks and crannies and the lockable rooms. Or if we wanted to be exhibitionists there were open areas. Tons of variety and options for fun. BDSM room, stockade, glory hole, huge jacuzzi and huge bar and dance area all there to encourage a great sexy time.
We played with single guys each time at Secrets and loved it and will go back there this December looking for single guys and/or couples. I wouldn't let the above reviews dissuade single guys.
We honestly didn't like Peaches. It didn't feel like a club, it was just a bar with a huge bed right in the open with a bunch of people piled on it. Not our style at all. No privacy at all and no real variety of rooms, mostly a wide open bar. To each their own of course, I'm sure they do well.
We will try Eden this December.
Finally for those who complain about the prices, I'm sorry but if you are flying all that way for fun and then you want to cheap out, that is really not sexy at all. Just my opinion. This may be an unpopular opinion but we talked to several couples there who felt the same way.
In a sense, you get what you pay for. Not literally sometimes but I think you have a good chance. |
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By *den_GCWoman 36 weeks ago
San Fernando, Gran Canaria |
"*Eden* I’m sure it’s a great club but as far as tours go we were not given one. We were pointed down a corridor beside the bar where guys were sat in towels and told if we wanted to go down there we go to locker rooms and change. Again tho that’s not a slight on the place just not our thing. Didn’t want to get undressed just to look around "
Everyone who is new is offered a guided tour by a staff member, maybe you didn't want the tour, maybe you wanted to sit and have a drink and yes, if you wanted to go into the back you DO need to dress down
BUT you could have also said at the bar you wanted to go and have a look and a staff member would have taken you around and given you the tour then you can decide what you want to do
It's not rocket science, we offer a tour so we DON'T have to keep an eye on people who wander around the dress down areas clothed, but if you said you didn't want the tour and wanted to sit and drink, that's up to you 🤷🏼♀️
A guided tour is ALWAYS offered to new guests, it's part of the club |
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We agree about most of what has been said.
We love Secrets, even though it CAN be a bit dark in the playrooms, but we can usually feel our way around for clothing, socks and shoes at the end. 😅😘 It is cool, great dance and flirt vibe in the bar and is pretty classy for Cita.
We like the definition between singles and couples side. We use both and have had a great time in both.
We didn't know that as a couple, we could take a single guy into the couple's side. We will test this out next weekend. 
As far as cost goes for single guys, yes... it is a bit more. These clubs rely on charging more to the guys unfortunately. But it is still pretty good value, compared to Cap D'Agde for single guys and many clubs in London and the European cities.
And you don't have to spend a small fortune on lingerie, kink wear, extra luggage for make up and toys and a wardrobe that would sink most boats. 
You get what you pay for...  |
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"*Eden* I’m sure it’s a great club but as far as tours go we were not given one. We were pointed down a corridor beside the bar where guys were sat in towels and told if we wanted to go down there we go to locker rooms and change. Again tho that’s not a slight on the place just not our thing. Didn’t want to get undressed just to look around
Everyone who is new is offered a guided tour by a staff member, maybe you didn't want the tour, maybe you wanted to sit and have a drink and yes, if you wanted to go into the back you DO need to dress down
BUT you could have also said at the bar you wanted to go and have a look and a staff member would have taken you around and given you the tour then you can decide what you want to do
It's not rocket science, we offer a tour so we DON'T have to keep an eye on people who wander around the dress down areas clothed, but if you said you didn't want the tour and wanted to sit and drink, that's up to you 🤷🏼♀️
A guided tour is ALWAYS offered to new guests, it's part of the club"
The guy on the door took us down and litrally showed us the corner bit and said if we wanted to have a look we would need to go to the locker rooms and dress down. We then sat at the bar. Saturday night I believe.you Infact served us. We sat next to a black guy in a towel. It’s not a problem and we were not looking for rocket science but we were not offered a tour like you say . We obviously would have liked to see what was down the corridor but like I say we were told we would need to dress down. |
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"*Eden* I’m sure it’s a great club but as far as tours go we were not given one. We were pointed down a corridor beside the bar where guys were sat in towels and told if we wanted to go down there we go to locker rooms and change. Again tho that’s not a slight on the place just not our thing. Didn’t want to get undressed just to look around
Everyone who is new is offered a guided tour by a staff member, maybe you didn't want the tour, maybe you wanted to sit and have a drink and yes, if you wanted to go into the back you DO need to dress down
BUT you could have also said at the bar you wanted to go and have a look and a staff member would have taken you around and given you the tour then you can decide what you want to do
It's not rocket science, we offer a tour so we DON'T have to keep an eye on people who wander around the dress down areas clothed, but if you said you didn't want the tour and wanted to sit and drink, that's up to you 🤷🏼♀️
A guided tour is ALWAYS offered to new guests, it's part of the club"
Can definitely vouch on this one. We’ve always seen first timers given a tour. Usually as an introduction to show where everything is and typically with clothes on, as you’ve just came into the place. Thereafter, the code is to dress down and personally I think this is a good idea, as it creates the distinction between dressed up, chill and drink in the social area. Then dress down and get into the zone for a bit of fun in the play area. |
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"We're a couple who like couples and single guys,so we really liked Secrets because we knew where to go in the place for what we were looking for.
We also liked that in each area there were distinct like minded people. We loved the dark nooks and crannies and the lockable rooms. Or if we wanted to be exhibitionists there were open areas. Tons of variety and options for fun. BDSM room, stockade, glory hole, huge jacuzzi and huge bar and dance area all there to encourage a great sexy time.
We played with single guys each time at Secrets and loved it and will go back there this December looking for single guys and/or couples. I wouldn't let the above reviews dissuade single guys.
We honestly didn't like Peaches. It didn't feel like a club, it was just a bar with a huge bed right in the open with a bunch of people piled on it. Not our style at all. No privacy at all and no real variety of rooms, mostly a wide open bar. To each their own of course, I'm sure they do well.
We will try Eden this December.
Finally for those who complain about the prices, I'm sorry but if you are flying all that way for fun and then you want to cheap out, that is really not sexy at all. Just my opinion. This may be an unpopular opinion but we talked to several couples there who felt the same way.
In a sense, you get what you pay for. Not literally sometimes but I think you have a good chance."
A post that makes sense.
To be honest, if a single male is allowed into the couples area with another couple and into the private rooms, it does create a bit of a risk that they don’t leave once finished.
But from what I’ve seen, the couples that like to swing with couples and single men, like the layout in Secret as there’s a clear distinction and I’ve often seen the mixers go between both sections.
What Eden does very well is they have distinct nights, so there’s always a night that caters for someone.
We like couples, so Monday is always a night in Eden, as is Wednesday in Fun4All. |
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By *den_GCWoman 36 weeks ago
San Fernando, Gran Canaria |
"We were not given a tour either just spoken too quite rudely."
Yet, you have a veri from a solo male who had a great night with you at the club 
Anyway everyone who is coming to PDI, go wherever you want, do whatever you want, enjoy everywhere on the island, that's what it's here for |
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"We have spent the last 5 days in PDI and we did try a few different clubs .
So we tried Eden, the club itself was very nice and we wanted to have a look round. However we were not allowed to clothed . We were just shown a side bit just off the bar where a few guys were waiting in towels . A bit disappointed so we just drank our drink and left.
We then tried secrets . I think this place suited our taste. We like the dark/glory holes and lockable rooms . Down side is the guys obviously paying much more were at some points rude and follow you around to the point I had to tell a few off for groping Mrs as she walked passed.
On another night we tried Peaches and Cream. I was not sure what to make of this place. I mean yeah the bar is nice but it just had a big orgy style bed and 2 poor glory holes. Again was not really much in the way of play areas if you’re not looking to play in front of all in the bar.
All being said we ended up at secrets pretty much every night. Invited people into a room and had so much fun. Obviously it’s each to their own and preference. But secrets was the best in our opinion. But like they say opinions are like ass holes - we all have them
Other down side - I don’t think any guys are out to give pleasure - for the most part they would pop a Jonny on give 2 or 3 thrusts and then walk out . Found it weird . I guess everyone is out for there own kicks but daammmmmnn lol "
Thanks for this. We're heading out next week and it's our first time so this information is very useful.
Looking forward to our trip |
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By *uboCouple 36 weeks ago
East kilbride |
"We were not given a tour either just spoken too quite rudely.
Yet, you have a veri from a solo male who had a great night with you at the club
Anyway everyone who is coming to PDI, go wherever you want, do whatever you want, enjoy everywhere on the island, that's what it's here for "
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By *I TwoCouple 36 weeks ago
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"We were not given a tour either just spoken too quite rudely.
Yet, you have a veri from a solo male who had a great night with you at the club
Anyway everyone who is coming to PDI, go wherever you want, do whatever you want, enjoy everywhere on the island, that's what it's here for
Nothing much gets by Miss Marple "
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"We're a couple who like couples and single guys,so we really liked Secrets because we knew where to go in the place for what we were looking for.
We also liked that in each area there were distinct like minded people. We loved the dark nooks and crannies and the lockable rooms. Or if we wanted to be exhibitionists there were open areas. Tons of variety and options for fun. BDSM room, stockade, glory hole, huge jacuzzi and huge bar and dance area all there to encourage a great sexy time.
We played with single guys each time at Secrets and loved it and will go back there this December looking for single guys and/or couples. I wouldn't let the above reviews dissuade single guys.
We honestly didn't like Peaches. It didn't feel like a club, it was just a bar with a huge bed right in the open with a bunch of people piled on it. Not our style at all. No privacy at all and no real variety of rooms, mostly a wide open bar. To each their own of course, I'm sure they do well.
We will try Eden this December.
Finally for those who complain about the prices, I'm sorry but if you are flying all that way for fun and then you want to cheap out, that is really not sexy at all. Just my opinion. This may be an unpopular opinion but we talked to several couples there who felt the same way.
In a sense, you get what you pay for. Not literally sometimes but I think you have a good chance."
Single guys are out focus but now you are selling us on secrets. |
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People clearly have not done their homework, then come on and rant!
Each club has a different dynamic and theme nights. ALL the information is in the Forums 100 times over, it's up to you to know a when to go and where to go for what you are looking for.
Eden does provide a walk around for newbies! No you cannot pass the arches clothed. It has play areas, hot tub, showers, cross. Not sure what you expect to find in any of the clubs, most have websites, YouTube social media videos of walk arounds.
Secrets is fine as is any of the clubs on the island. The prices, terms and conditions are all available if you look. Takes less time to search than type out a response on here.
Over on the 6th and heading straight for food then Eden, and yes order our drinks, strip off, and go play. Thats exactly why we go. Chats over rated. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"We were not given a tour either just spoken too quite rudely."
A very non specific comment. Who spoke to you rudely and how? Eden, to the best of our knowledge, always offer a tour. Was it possibly busy when you arrived? I would surmise that fully clothed couples, walking around whilst people were playing, wouldn't be welcomed by many.
Give it another go!! |
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By *anbrCouple 36 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
Been going to GC for 10 years but just made our first trip to Eden back in April. We were made to feel welcome and had a full tour round the club and all facilities pointed out to us. As we stay very close to Cita, we tend to socialise within a
very small radius of the centre.
Over the years we have tried Secrets three or four times and never felt comfortable there so it is never on our radar.
When Moonlight Dreams first opened we made the effort to visit and we have to say the concept of wooden sheds as play rooms was quite a novelty! We'll be interested to hear if they've gone during the refurbishment! |
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Moonlight Dreams is closed. 2x2 is closed. Rumours are that 2x2 may reopen this year, under a different guise. I guess we’ll see.
As Eden and many have said, go and visit every club/bar, there is definitely one there for you.
One thing I will say about Eden, that no other club does, is that they’ll call you a taxi if you ask. So they are customer centric in their approach.
The post has definitely highlighted some acquired tastes in swinging, summarising we would say:
If you want a nightclub vibe latin style (as you are in a different country), loud music, party central, with plenty of filth to the back of the club; couples to the left with a choice of rooms and open areas; and mixed to the right. Secret would be the place to go.
If you want a nightclub with a more chilled, relaxed approach. Music on in the background but a club where you can sit, socialise and actually have a conversation, with plenty of choice to play in the back. Nights with different themes to cater for different audiences. Then Eden would be the place to go.
If you want something in between the two clubs, then Fun4All would be a good choice.
Peaches & Cream. Again somewhere in between a secret and Fun4All.
All the club’s decor is very swanky and all of them give you some distinct options. For us, we like all of them. We’re typically one for the party, so we do gravitate to Secret. But after we’ve burnt out during the weekend. There’s nothing more enjoyable than a couples night at Eden where we’re still in the lifestyle but can recharge in ambient surroundings and get our hearing back. |
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By *oeAnneCouple 36 weeks ago
Belfast |
"Its being renovated and open 3rd week ish of October "
That's good to hear. They did work on it last year so we were surprised to hear that it was closed. Great club and well worth a visit, as is Eden next door.
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We got scammed in there last night by one of the barmaids. We gave her 20 euros for a locker, she didnt give us any change and then only gave us 5 euros back at the end of the night. Really disappointing as we have been going there for years. |
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We have enjoyed our GC trip.
We like couples and single guys. And that is what we looked for this trip.
EDEN.
Friday night. Gentlemen’s night.
It’s was good. There were a nice number of guys in ratio to the couples.
And the rooms are well set up for some fun group play.
We got ‘the tour’. It was comprehensive and friendly. The club is pretty modern. The drinks good value. It’s a Club like we have in the UK. You chat. You mingle. Play can be private or more open. Thanks to Catherine and the team.
SECRETS.
We went twice.
For couples it is pretty well set up. Good value. The Club is very smart. The couples only play area is very nice. One of our trips was with friends and so we enjoyed this area a lot.
The other time was to seek a few single guys. They have their ‘own area’. Which we ventured into. But it was pretty quiet and there were a suprising number of other couple there. So there wasn’t really the supply.
It’s expensive for guys in there and so for us it’s not a place we would do if that’s what we wanted.
We also did a little of Fun4All and Comeback. Nice places. Socialising venues. Great people watching and flirting!!
We will look forward to more places.
Everyone enjoy yourselves. Life is short. Go live it. |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"We got scammed in there last night by one of the barmaids. We gave her 20 euros for a locker, she didnt give us any change and then only gave us 5 euros back at the end of the night. Really disappointing as we have been going there for years. "
If you haven't been overcharged, short changed, or had your drink spiked, then you've never been to Secret(s) |
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"We were not given a tour either just spoken too quite rudely.
Yet, you have a veri from a solo male who had a great night with you at the club
Anyway everyone who is coming to PDI, go wherever you want, do whatever you want, enjoy everywhere on the island, that's what it's here for "
We’re surprised to hear anything other than positive comments about Eden as we’ve enjoyed it every time we’ve been and we’ve found the staff to be head and shoulders above most clubs we've been to for friendliness.
Certainly, the first time we went we were shown around and the rules were explained quite clearly.
We always make a point of trying to go their Couples Only night every time we’re in PDI (and will be again in a couple of weeks when we’re back) xx |
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By *G113Couple 35 weeks ago
Northumberland |
"Single guys have never been able to get into the couples area mate.
All that has changed is the price has gone up. Which I think everyone agrees is a total rip off.
Yeah I'm having to rethink about Eden, it's €30 with 2 drinks thrown in and no stupid segregation...Jesus, we're grown men and there are rules. I appreciate it they want keep the couples separate but I'm sure many couples can stand their ground and tell a guy "NO" without much hassle...might try that funfirall tonight but I'll ask what's what before I part with the wonga lol"
Stupid segregation? It gets a bit boring trying to play and you’re telling the 30th single guy “No” as he thrusts his cock in your direction.
Some nights we like a couples only night - secrets caters for both scenarios. |
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We love secrets only had a problem once with losing key to locker, and it then took ages for them to open it. In the other hand we didn’t use are drinks vouchers one night and can’t be used on another night. But with a kill them with kindness the door man let us use them. Can’t wait to be in there on Friday and Saturday |
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We think Secrets is set up very well.
We did have a big issue one night a while back but we’ve been there quite a few times since and it’s all been good so can only put that one time down to bad security staff on the night (letting their male friends in to the couples only area that were pissed and obnoxious/bordering on bullying).
We haven’t experienced that again.
All other nights have been great and we love the ability to play, or even just be surrounded by other couples and have the choice if the mood takes Mrs _woformorefun, to play with the single guys at the cage/segregation area.
We get that it must be a lot harder for the single guys though but it’s all pros and cons as someone said earlier.
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By *oxyFucker OP Man 5 weeks ago
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I thought I'd review the comments and give my final thoughts on Secrets as a single guy.
First they need to explain the separate costs and what it gets you
- €50 entrance with a free drink. You are restricted to the main bar area to socialise
- To play in the "mixed" area you need a locker which is charged at an additional €10 with €5 refunded with your key on leaving
- There is a private couples area only which you can get invited to but again it's an extra €10 and by invitation only by a couple.
- You need to keep the receipt they give you on entry as even though the bar is just through the doors, you will not get your free drink and a locker if you lose or mislay it.
For the most part this club is suited to couples who want to play private with other couples, as the guys cannot gain access to the couples area without invitation and additional payment as mentioned above. It's more suited for the music and dance and not chilled like Eden or FunForAll where you can just talk and mix fully clothed if you like.
In secrets when I visited I was just stuck with other guys on "our" side of the fence and none of the couples came this side to mingle.
I'm an older guy so Secrets just wasn't single male friendly IMO and I had to have an argument first because no one told me I had to keep the receipt given by the "doormen"...why I had to prove I just paid to even get through the door is beyond me as I'd have to get past the bouncers first and they confirmed I paid but still I had to show my banking app to prove it and they really didn't want to know or even check...just ignored me and said I'd have to pay for the so called free drink
I will definitely not go back there unless a couple invited me beforehand...
BTW for the single guys who like me was the first time in PDI, try Elly's bar in the Cica centre as a lot of couple go there before heading to their chosen club later on |
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