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PDI next week - bars and clubs welcoming for newbies
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By (user no longer on site) OP 20 weeks ago
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Hi all we are at Gold, PDI next week. I’ve been a swinger many years and wife has no issue with it however last time we went there was a glint of a hope that she was up for visiting a bar or club. We went to the Tipsy Hammock but was just a nice bar. She isn’t going to initiate anything and I know this may be more hope on my side but are there any bars or clubs that would be ideal to take her to where we might make friends? We are not late people so a bar etc open from early would be better. All thoughts welcome. There from Saturday for a week. Thanks |
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By *I TwoCouple 20 weeks ago
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We'd second Eden,it may be a bit daunting for her entering the club but its really chilled and friendly inside and no pressure to dress sexy or strip off unless you want to go to the play area. There's Also lockable rooms if the two of you want some alone time but with others nearby or there's the jacuzzi which is fun.
PlanB and Comeback are nice enough but you probably need to be proactive and speak to other couples or arrange a meet beforehand. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 20 weeks ago
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Thanks both - I suspect both are a challenge in different ways. I suspect a club will be a step too far at this stage and 10pm is actually a bit late for us. Comeback is a real possibility but I can’t see her being proactive and I wouldn’t without her blessing. If anyone is going to be in comeback and might be happy to come say hi or at Gold that might work better. Not sure how much she is up for this but she’s had fun many years ago so… |
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"Thanks both - I suspect both are a challenge in different ways. I suspect a club will be a step too far at this stage and 10pm is actually a bit late for us. Comeback is a real possibility but I can’t see her being proactive and I wouldn’t without her blessing. If anyone is going to be in comeback and might be happy to come say hi or at Gold that might work better. Not sure how much she is up for this but she’s had fun many years ago so…"
If ten o`clock is a bit late for you, then you are limiting your options quite considerably, as most people don`t even start going out to the bars until about 9.30/10ish. It might transpire that GOLD is your best bet, because although not a Swingers hotel, per se, a lot of swingers do stay there. Easy enough to strike up a conversation around the pool. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 20 weeks ago
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Yes I think that’s great advice. I don’t mind later but wife doesn’t and I also think going to a club would be a big step. At the moment don’t even know if she’s still attracted by the idea. I think ideal is that people come and say hi at Gold |
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