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Nervous complete beginners, Tenerife, early Feb
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We are complete inexperienced beginners, without much of an idea what we want, and only recently started talking about anything like this.
We're going on holiday to Costa Adeje at the beginning of Feb, and we might check out Mystique.
Firstly, when is best to go? We arrive and leave on a Sunday, so although the weekend may be the best nights, the last night may not be the time to try it. Will the midweek be too quiet for beginners though? We're both fairly sure we don't want to be bombarded by single males either.
Amy other tips for a first time? We're most likely to just want to see what's going on, and at the most pay with each other.
If anyone is around at the same time feel free to say hi, although I won't guarantee any meets beyond the club. |
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I am shore a weekday is just fine for the first time visit. Just hop in and have a drink. Jose will show you arround and make you feel comfortable. There are always couples and never more single men then couples  |
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"Thanks for your offer Steve, but I think it's more couples or ladies we'd be looking for.
I hope you have a good holiday (assuming it's for holiday) though. "
. Thank you so much very nice I am sure fab is for you guys take care |
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"I am shore a weekday is just fine for the first time visit. Just hop in and have a drink. Jose will show you arround and make you feel comfortable. There are always couples and never more single men then couples "
Thanks, I think popping in for a drink will be a good way to start. |
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"I am shore a weekday is just fine for the first time visit. Just hop in and have a drink. Jose will show you arround and make you feel comfortable. There are always couples and never more single men then couples
Thanks, I think popping in for a drink will be a good way to start. "
Most importantly is you feel comfortable and there is no pressure or obligations |
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Thanks all for the advice here and in private messages. Feeling a little less nervous, but not yet ready to commit to any meets. We may be in touch once we've warmed up in the sun, or may see you in the club! |
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So, we plucked up the courage to pop in last night, but we were informed at 10:30 when we arrived that we were the first, so we decided to go for a drink elsewhere first.
When we went back after midnight there was still nobody there, so decided to give it a miss. We may well try again on Friday when I presume it will be busier!
We appreciated the honesty of they guy on the door, as he could have easy taken our money! |
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over a year ago
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"So, we plucked up the courage to pop in last night, but we were informed at 10:30 when we arrived that we were the first, so we decided to go for a drink elsewhere first.
When we went back after midnight there was still nobody there, so decided to give it a miss. We may well try again on Friday when I presume it will be busier!
We appreciated the honesty of they guy on the door, as he could have easy taken our money! "
A very good morning to you, hope you are enjoying your break in Tenerife. I'm here till mid March and if you fancy a wee meet, for a chat, coffee, beer, or whatever, give me a shout, cheers, Eck x x |
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A very good morning to you, hope you are enjoying your break in Tenerife. I'm here till mid March and if you fancy a wee meet, for a chat, coffee, beer, or whatever, give me a shout, cheers, Eck x x"
Thanks Eck. We're not looking for single men. I hope you're enjoying the sun |
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"So, we plucked up the courage to pop in last night, but we were informed at 10:30 when we arrived that we were the first, so we decided to go for a drink elsewhere first.
When we went back after midnight there was still nobody there, so decided to give it a miss. We may well try again on Friday when I presume it will be busier!
We appreciated the honesty of they guy on the door, as he could have easy taken our money! "
Sorry to hear that, we have some quiet day's  Weekend's busy as usual X Nora |
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Sorry to hear that, we have some quiet day's Weekend's busy as usual X Nora"
No problem. We are glad to be told rather than him taking our money and letting us sit on our own. We may well see you Friday. |
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By *eeeckMan
over a year ago
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A very good morning to you, hope you are enjoying your break in Tenerife. I'm here till mid March and if you fancy a wee meet, for a chat, coffee, beer, or whatever, give me a shout, cheers, Eck x x
Thanks Eck. We're not looking for single men. I hope you're enjoying the sun"
Thank you very much for your reply, really appreciate it, many thanks, Eck x |
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We are heading over in June and the charge at the door is a concern.
Unlike P.D.i.where their is no entrance fee and you can check out how many people are inside without been put under any pressure.We hope this club allows you to come inside and check if there are cpls.in the age range that we feel comfortable in.and of course if we feel comfortable then we have no issue paying the entrance fee. |
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"We are heading over in June and the charge at the door is a concern.
Unlike P.D.i.where their is no entrance fee and you can check out how many people are inside without been put under any pressure.We hope this club allows you to come inside and check if there are cpls.in the age range that we feel comfortable in.and of course if we feel comfortable then we have no issue paying the entrance fee."
Sorry, we don't let people in before paying an entrance fee. Just out of privacy reasons also. We have stricked rules in our club and that's why couples feel comfortable. if you come on a Saturday night I will personally make you feel welcome jejeje X Nora |
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