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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just to add, if any other single guys want to go then feel free to drop me a PM as I may be going on same week. We could hit the bars together and find some lovely women to play and socialise with. |
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By *eartyMan
over a year ago
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Hi. I have been fortunate to holiday in GC for a few years.
My advice would be .... yes, visit the bars and clubs mentioned on here .... be respectful .... chatty .... not pushy .... and you will have a fab time ....
Hope you have fun !! |
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"Just to add, if any other single guys want to go then feel free to drop me a PM as I may be going on same week. We could hit the bars together and find some lovely women to play and socialise with. "
Hi mate.when u going to gc??u been before? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just to add, if any other single guys want to go then feel free to drop me a PM as I may be going on same week. We could hit the bars together and find some lovely women to play and socialise with.
Hi mate.when u going to gc??u been before?"
No first time and most likely on 10th November for a week. |
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"Just to add, if any other single guys want to go then feel free to drop me a PM as I may be going on same week. We could hit the bars together and find some lovely women to play and socialise with.
Hi mate.when u going to gc??u been before?
No first time and most likely on 10th November for a week."
Ok coold,ye me too its my first time going too.im a bit nervous bout it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just to add, if any other single guys want to go then feel free to drop me a PM as I may be going on same week. We could hit the bars together and find some lovely women to play and socialise with.
Hi mate.when u going to gc??u been before?
No first time and most likely on 10th November for a week.
Ok coold,ye me too its my first time going too.im a bit nervous bout it lol"
Ok thanks and do keep in touch, there might be a few people going at a similar time.
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By *incs.cpl1Couple
over a year ago
Holton le Clay near Cleethorpes |
We are going to PDI on the 5th October for 2 weeks. You would be surprised of how many couples like us prefer to meet men and not looking for other couples. Just chat to people and it shouldn't take long to find out what they are looking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last day here single guy traveling 1st ever time here’s my view. Was really nervous traveling but has been an experience and really depends who is out at same time.
1. Dunes like a ghost town bar 300 guys like myself  they really need to chill out as any couple that brave enough to venture in mobbed saw about 3 couples have some fun over 4 days but most time walking around in scorching heat
2. Kiosk 4 first time naked sunbathing was excellent and people friendly saw more naked ladies in one place to do me a lifetime First time swimming in sea naked loved it. Kiosk 4 not a spot for action but cool place to hang out sunbath and a perv at some really sexy ladies thanks ladies
3. Imagine bar cool joint went as single felt nervous but made to feel welcome secret is to try and chat I sat at back as was nervous but after a while the nerves faded. I didn’t play in the room but there is a gang bang every Friday 3-6 didn’t attend as was down kiosk 4
4. Clubs can’t really comment as in Cita basement which looked dodgy and a few dodgy blokes around so didn’t venture in anyway that’s my lot
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By *tokie62Man
over a year ago
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I agree about anyone playing in the dunes gets swamped with voyuers, just stay back to a respectful distance then you my get to see a show.kiosk 4 is great everybody is very friendly slightly surreal queing for a beer in the nude lol
imagine bar/comeback bar allways made to feel very welcome
downstairs cita don't be put off by the lady trying to get you to go to her place[brothel?]she is quite annoying but I just walk straight past her downstairs their is a sex cinema only went once and it was full of gays.fun4all can be hit&miss but had some good nights in there just enjoying the music. secrets I like but expensive esp at weekends[50euros/] but what the hell your only here once just enjoy it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I agree about anyone playing in the dunes gets swamped with voyuers, just stay back to a respectful distance then you my get to see a show.kiosk 4 is great everybody is very friendly slightly surreal queing for a beer in the nude lol
imagine bar/comeback bar allways made to feel very welcome
downstairs cita don't be put off by the lady trying to get you to go to her place[brothel?]she is quite annoying but I just walk straight past her downstairs their is a sex cinema only went once and it was full of gays.fun4all can be hit&miss but had some good nights in there just enjoying the music. secrets I like but expensive esp at weekends[50euros/] but what the hell your only here once just enjoy it"
Did you find any luck as a single man? And do you think October is a busier period rather than September? |
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"Don't think you can go wrong in either September or October
I mean from a single man’s perspective. It seems it’s all couples seeking other couples?"
I think from a single guys perspective you will find couples that are looking for guys.
We only play with couples and that has been the attraction of GC for us, not having guys follow us round. Some of the couples we have met definitely meet single guys. I'm sure if more guys travel over the bars will arrange different nights. everyone can choose which bars to visit as there are many and all have a great holiday.
Just book it, you only live once!
Use the see who's near function and get messaging.. have fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't think you can go wrong in either September or October
I mean from a single man’s perspective. It seems it’s all couples seeking other couples?"
We are only seeking single men and you would probably find it hard to believe but it’s actually not that easy.
We aren’t just looking for a “hook up” but someone who can hold a conversation and we can make a connection with.
Unfortunately most men either don’t go to the clubs or, understandably, are so nervous of doing the wrong thing they just hang around rather than engaging with people.
Our main motivation when going out out is to have a bit of fun ourselves and are not disappointed if nothing swinging happens, so we will talk to anyone.
If you go out with that mind set, you aren’t talking to people because it might lead somewhere, then you can just enjoy the night and you never know you might just click.
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As a couple that rarely plays with other couples there are some points here that resonate with us.
The dunes can be fun but it is also spoilt by some of the dickheads and lazy wankers. For many it’s about being a voyeur rather than actually getting it on.
Kiosk 4 is fun. A great social and a way to break the ice, particularly late afternoon when many congregate around the bar.
The cinema is worthwhile on occasions; we have had a few good liaisons.
Meet up bars like imagine are also a good start. They have a play room now although we haven’t used it.
The clubs can be variable and expensive for single guys, it’s hit and miss.
We have seen lots of couples behave disgustingly towards single guys. The onus lies on single guys to chase but both side should be polite. On one occasion we have told a single to fuck off but it’s rare to find guys so persistent.
Finally.... shy boys don’t get sweets. A no is not the end of the world but not asking doesn’t get you anywhere.
We are in PDI 2-21 Oct. Say hello guys; the worst that can happen is a “fuck off” if you ask 4 times
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I have been a few times now as a single guy to pdi and love it u just have to have an open mind try different clubs and find which suits yourself some couples behave like abs arses toward single guys not everyone is lucky enough to find the love of there life for different reasons,but most couples are fine as long as you behave properly and alot look for single guys ,
I like the dunes a bit perv and some fun but their is too many single men spoiling it by pestering couples too much no means no i like to respect people the best fun is in the clubs secrets is the best by a mile for a single guy 50 euros expensive but worth it for a sat nite orgy |
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The competition among single guys not just in PDI but the swinging scene in general is huge. Surely they are more likely to get more action on non swinging ‘dating ‘ type sites where quite often single women outnumber single men .
Another thing is from our experience of PDI it’s far easier to arrange a meeting in the UK than in PDI ( there are no more than about 50 swingers from Fab going in the whole of Oct and only about 20 in the week we are out whereas there are several thousand within a 1 hour drive at home ) so if it’s swinging you are after it’s best to stay at home . We treat it purely as a holiday and certainly don’t stay out in Clubs until 5am thereby ruining the following day . |
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There seems to be a difference of opinion as to what it's like for single guys in PDI.
In my view it's no different from attending clubs in the UK.
Be respectable, chatty and be man enough to take no as an answer and you will be OK.
Be an arse and a pest and you will come home wishing you hadn't gone at all.
I've met loads of nice people when I have been there and made some great friends.
I'm back there again 8th to 20th October this year. |
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" ( there are no more than about 50 swingers from Fab going in the whole of Oct
Really ? where you get those figures from ?
Have you looked at the October list ?"
pdi not only fab swingers go .. from Europe as well and the local swingers too .. deffently not 50 swingers going to pdi in October.. |
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"The competition among single guys not just in PDI but the swinging scene in general is huge. Surely they are more likely to get more action on non swinging ‘dating ‘ type sites where quite often single women outnumber single men .
Another thing is from our experience of PDI it’s far easier to arrange a meeting in the UK than in PDI ( there are no more than about 50 swingers from Fab going in the whole of Oct and only about 20 in the week we are out whereas there are several thousand within a 1 hour drive at home ) so if it’s swinging you are after it’s best to stay at home . We treat it purely as a holiday and certainly don’t stay out in Clubs until 5am thereby ruining the following day ."
I stay till 5 am and the following day never been ruining .. just some people cant do it and some can and enjoy it .. it is holiday we all do it the way we like !!!! |
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" ( there are no more than about 50 swingers from Fab going in the whole of Oct
Really ? where you get those figures from ?
Have you looked at the October list ?
pdi not only fab swingers go .. from Europe as well and the local swingers too .. deffently not 50 swingers going to pdi in October.. "
We said 50 swingers from Fab not from the whole world ! Also you must know if you are a swinger that at least 50% ( probably many more ) of profiles on Fab are not genuine couples where the female half is fully aware of what her male half is posting on the website so obviously at least half of the people on the October list will not be meeting anyone even if they are going to PDI for a holiday.
We have been to PDI and know the swinging scene there and it’s not really a swinging scene as there is too much alcohol consumed for much swinging to be taking place. In the Clubs ( we have been to them all ) most of the husbands who are present have d*unk so much they can’t perform. That’s why single males are important as they can step in to keep the wives happy if the wife is sober enough to consent.
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" ( there are no more than about 50 swingers from Fab going in the whole of Oct
Really ? where you get those figures from ?
Have you looked at the October list ?
pdi not only fab swingers go .. from Europe as well and the local swingers too .. deffently not 50 swingers going to pdi in October..
We said 50 swingers from Fab not from the whole world ! Also you must know if you are a swinger that at least 50% ( probably many more ) of profiles on Fab are not genuine couples where the female half is fully aware of what her male half is posting on the website so obviously at least half of the people on the October list will not be meeting anyone even if they are going to PDI for a holiday.
We have been to PDI and know the swinging scene there and it’s not really a swinging scene as there is too much alcohol consumed for much swinging to be taking place. In the Clubs ( we have been to them all ) most of the husbands who are present have d*unk so much they can’t perform. That’s why single males are important as they can step in to keep the wives happy if the wife is sober enough to consent.
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" ( there are no more than about 50 swingers from Fab going in the whole of Oct
Really ? where you get those figures from ?
Have you looked at the October list ?
pdi not only fab swingers go .. from Europe as well and the local swingers too .. deffently not 50 swingers going to pdi in October..
We said 50 swingers from Fab not from the whole world ! Also you must know if you are a swinger that at least 50% ( probably many more ) of profiles on Fab are not genuine couples where the female half is fully aware of what her male half is posting on the website so obviously at least half of the people on the October list will not be meeting anyone even if they are going to PDI for a holiday.
We have been to PDI and know the swinging scene there and it’s not really a swinging scene as there is too much alcohol consumed for much swinging to be taking place. In the Clubs ( we have been to them all ) most of the husbands who are present have d*unk so much they can’t perform. That’s why single males are important as they can step in to keep the wives happy if the wife is sober enough to consent.
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Well your pdi experience is totaly deferent to mine .. 100 %disagree..
Ok 50 swingers for you and all are d*unk what ever you think i feel sorry for you ..we must be in deferent places on holiday .. i say what i think .. |
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i have been to all clubs in pdi and just about always find fun with couples single woman if im in the mood great place for single guys if u behave properly play first then drink later pubs open long enough never spoiled next day if u cant handle your drink drink less simple  |
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over a year ago
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I Mr never drink on nights we are out out, you’ve got to keep your wits about you and make informed decisions
And who wants the embarrassment of brewers droop
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all
Thinking of booking a week away on my own on 9th November. Any single guys been to PDI alone? How was it?
Thanks in advance "
You’ll have a great time there as a single. Like previously mentioned on here visit the bars and clubs mentioned on here .... be respectful, chatty, not pushy .... and you will meet lots of fun people.
Despite what you read on here once in the clubs you will see very few people from fab....instead mainly Europeans who are generally easier going, less cliquey and hotter. |
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I’ve had loads of fun in PDI, either of the clubs in La Cita; the German one was great fun, and had rather a small drinks bill considering how many we had, was a very friendly place if you could speak the lingo  Had a lot more fun around the corner at the more British like club; admittedly that was with two Italians and a Brit guy and was great fun ... lots of the couples were just sat around drinking and were too pissed to play really, but was good fun ... knowing lots of the bar staff from nights in the Yumbo obviously helped  |
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"I Mr never drink on nights we are out out, you’ve got to keep your wits about you and make informed decisions
And who wants the embarrassment of brewers droop
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PDI Swinging Clubs are the European capital of brewers droop .
Couples go out for something to eat at 8pm but usually have pre dinner drinks from 7pm followed by maybe a bottle of wine with their dinner. Then they go to Imagine or Comeback bar and drink solidly from 10 pm to midnight (how could these two bars possibly survive without people drinking in them ) so that’s a solid 5 hours of drinking by midnight before they even hit a club and the first thing they do in the club is order another drink ! That’s why in the Clubs most couples are just dancing ,smoking or staggering around and not actually playing.
In the UK serious swingers ( ie couples who like to fuck with other couples) don’t mix alcohol with swinging as it’s a terrible combination and the two should be kept separate. |
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"I Mr never drink on nights we are out out, you’ve got to keep your wits about you and make informed decisions
And who wants the embarrassment of brewers droop
PDI Swinging Clubs are the European capital of brewers droop .
Couples go out for something to eat at 8pm but usually have pre dinner drinks from 7pm followed by maybe a bottle of wine with their dinner. Then they go to Imagine or Comeback bar and drink solidly from 10 pm to midnight (how could these two bars possibly survive without people drinking in them ) so that’s a solid 5 hours of drinking by midnight before they even hit a club and the first thing they do in the club is order another drink ! That’s why in the Clubs most couples are just dancing ,smoking or staggering around and not actually playing.
In the UK serious swingers ( ie couples who like to fuck with other couples) don’t mix alcohol with swinging as it’s a terrible combination and the two should be kept separate. "
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We go in April, October and December. While we have met many many couples for chat and drinks our preference is for single men. We have met lovely single guys on every trip and have invited them to join us going out to Imagine or just local bars and they seem to appreciate having the company as well as fun.
In terms of couples, I know of well over 50 couples going in October. They aren’t fake as we have met loads of them in Imagine and Comeback and whilst we haven’t played with them we have very much enjoyed the craic and have kept in touch with many over the years.
Whilst it is always going to be harder ( lol) for single guys I think if you are fun and polite you will have a great time. If you are there 3-13 October say hi. Enjoy, it’s a fab place |
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By *uboCouple
over a year ago
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"I Mr never drink on nights we are out out, you’ve got to keep your wits about you and make informed decisions
And who wants the embarrassment of brewers droop
PDI Swinging Clubs are the European capital of brewers droop .
Couples go out for something to eat at 8pm but usually have pre dinner drinks from 7pm followed by maybe a bottle of wine with their dinner. Then they go to Imagine or Comeback bar and drink solidly from 10 pm to midnight (how could these two bars possibly survive without people drinking in them ) so that’s a solid 5 hours of drinking by midnight before they even hit a club and the first thing they do in the club is order another drink ! That’s why in the Clubs most couples are just dancing ,smoking or staggering around and not actually playing.
In the UK serious swingers ( ie couples who like to fuck with other couples) don’t mix alcohol with swinging as it’s a terrible combination and the two should be kept separate.
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No wonder you are rolling your eyes Hedonist. I am surprised we have not been told what the swingers had for breakfast as well.  |
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"I Mr never drink on nights we are out out, you’ve got to keep your wits about you and make informed decisions
And who wants the embarrassment of brewers droop
PDI Swinging Clubs are the European capital of brewers droop .
Couples go out for something to eat at 8pm but usually have pre dinner drinks from 7pm followed by maybe a bottle of wine with their dinner. Then they go to Imagine or Comeback bar and drink solidly from 10 pm to midnight (how could these two bars possibly survive without people drinking in them ) so that’s a solid 5 hours of drinking by midnight before they even hit a club and the first thing they do in the club is order another drink ! That’s why in the Clubs most couples are just dancing ,smoking or staggering around and not actually playing.
In the UK serious swingers ( ie couples who like to fuck with other couples) don’t mix alcohol with swinging as it’s a terrible combination and the two should be kept separate.
No wonder you are rolling your eyes Hedonist. I am surprised we have not been told what the swingers had for breakfast as well. "
Lol, I will be drinking tropical for breakfast in the jacuzzi at venus star. |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
Ok, so away from the bitching of how many go our there blah blah blah. Back to the OP. Hun we have been going to maspalomas, PDI and CITA for 15 years now and at least 3 times a year minimum, we would be more than happy to give you some pointers on the scene out there. Message out profile hun if you would like a few genuine tips xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP, don’t worry.
I have not seen much evidence of this over drinking! I think it is just a British over 55s couple thing, not been able to control their alcohol intake. As a single guy, you want to be able to socialise and not be d*unk, and ultimately be able to perform if the opportunity arises.
The Europeans seem to have a bit more class, and are still up for fun until the early hours...4am! not like some of the Brits abroad who need a pint in their hand at every chance and then by 11pm are done in..... |
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"OP, don’t worry.
I have not seen much evidence of this over drinking! I think it is just a British over 55s couple thing, not been able to control their alcohol intake. As a single guy, you want to be able to socialise and not be d*unk, and ultimately be able to perform if the opportunity arises.
The Europeans seem to have a bit more class, and are still up for fun until the early hours...4am! not like some of the Brits abroad who need a pint in their hand at every chance and then by 11pm are done in..... "
Exactly, don’t add to much Dutch courage and if some couples are rude to you just shrug it off, it’s not you it’s them
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"OP, don’t worry.
I have not seen much evidence of this over drinking! I think it is just a British over 55s couple thing, not been able to control their alcohol intake. As a single guy, you want to be able to socialise and not be d*unk, and ultimately be able to perform if the opportunity arises.
The Europeans seem to have a bit more class, and are still up for fun until the early hours...4am! not like some of the Brits abroad who need a pint in their hand at every chance and then by 11pm are done in.....
Exactly, don’t add to much Dutch courage and if some couples are rude to you just shrug it off, it’s not you it’s them
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Very true, if you are polite and not pushy then there is no need for a couple to be rude. The ones that do tend to be rude are the ones you normally would not even look at twice....but because of the high volume of single guys and choice they feel a little bit of power for the first time in their lives |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
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"OP, don’t worry.
I have not seen much evidence of this over drinking! I think it is just a British over 55s couple thing, not been able to control their alcohol intake. As a single guy, you want to be able to socialise and not be d*unk, and ultimately be able to perform if the opportunity arises.
The Europeans seem to have a bit more class, and are still up for fun until the early hours...4am! not like some of the Brits abroad who need a pint in their hand at every chance and then by 11pm are done in.....
Exactly, don’t add to much Dutch courage and if some couples are rude to you just shrug it off, it’s not you it’s them
Very true, if you are polite and not pushy then there is no need for a couple to be rude. The ones that do tend to be rude are the ones you normally would not even look at twice....but because of the high volume of single guys and choice they feel a little bit of power for the first time in their lives "
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Profile not available ....now there's a surprise . Wow hun, at least all the single guys we met were extremely polite, respectful and played till the sun rose on the horizon |
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"OP, don’t worry.
I have not seen much evidence of this over drinking! I think it is just a British over 55s couple thing, not been able to control their alcohol intake. As a single guy, you want to be able to socialise and not be d*unk, and ultimately be able to perform if the opportunity arises.
The Europeans seem to have a bit more class, and are still up for fun until the early hours...4am! not like some of the Brits abroad who need a pint in their hand at every chance and then by 11pm are done in.....
Exactly, don’t add to much Dutch courage and if some couples are rude to you just shrug it off, it’s not you it’s them
Very true, if you are polite and not pushy then there is no need for a couple to be rude. The ones that do tend to be rude are the ones you normally would not even look at twice....but because of the high volume of single guys and choice they feel a little bit of power for the first time in their lives ,
Profile not available ....now there's a surprise . Wow hun, at least all the single guys we met were extremely polite, respectful and played till the sun rose on the horizon "
That’s exactly as I said !
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