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What to do when your wife no longer wants sex.
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My wife stopped wanting sex 3 years ago. She said it hurt and I stopped immediately.
I have suggested lube or no penetrative fun. I just get turned down. I am at a loss. I suggested perhaps oestrogen cream for there. I know she uses her rabbit by herself once every month or so.
Not sure what I can or should do.
I am tempted to ask for her permission to look elsewhere but I don't want a divorce.
What have you done? What would you do? Looking for ideas that might help. |
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Create a moment with her you would normally try and have sex and start with her rabbit…shes familiar with this and knows it wont hurt and you get to open the door to her having fun with you again. Men find it hard to change our habits/ways…shes changed and you have to change with her to keep her on her toes. Definitely have the conversation if you’re both open minded. Good luck |
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I was in the same position as you. My wife just refused any form of sexual contact even toys. In the end I’d had enough met with a few couples for mmf and clubs. In the end we divorced and I found a new partner who enjoyed sex. |
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For the last 2 years i have put up with the same situation but without the toys, she wont talk about it , says im going on , I dont want to leave her but its killing our marriage, her mojo has gone. |
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