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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is just not into anything other than normal sex and even at that months apart...
How should I handle this if it was any of you guys how would you advise me to introduce her into like outdoors or being watched etc... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'd love that to be honest, but I've kinda asked her before but never really showed an interest.
I'd love to try set her up with a guy to try chat her up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go out to a nice restaurant, make sure you drive so she can have a few drinks to relax her, tell her how good she looks and how much she makes you horny, don't do it all the time but drop it into the conversation a few times, each time getting a little ruder, tell her you can't wait to get her home and fuck her then when you do get her in the car tell her again kiss her try to get her horny, only you know what turns her on, then make sure you drive somewhere you know will be a little bit secluded just pull in and tell her you can't wait you want her now, hopefully she'll be in the mood by then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would be a good idea to try and introduce some porn dvd into your relationship , try saying that it's nothing serious and that some of your work colleagues have been chatting about them and how they sometimes watch them with their other halfs, get one were the couple is being watched or what ever you feel is best for what you want her to do , if she gets a bit turned on get more of them as a bit of a regular thing then you maybe will find it easier to introduce her to doing the real thing like dogging ect |
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My honest opinion ... If she's not that interested in sex, your half the problem.
Just don't pussy foot around things, tell her exactly what you want, what you like and how you want it.
Then, push her to tell you the same ... Leave alcohol out of it, if you need to drink or get her to drink before hand, there must be some issues.
She's not going to Finnish with you just because you'd like to involve others, see her have fun or just spice things up ... Worst she can do is say no, right?
Sorry if I seem a little blunt, but surely in a relationship you'd feel comfortable sharing your thoughts, feelings and even darkest fantasies?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For hell sake don't just tell her what you like and what you want from her , whats the worst that can happen well yes she could finish with you , it could be such a shock that you want to see her with other men that she does just that, it's much better to get her involved more gently see my post above or the other guys post about taking her out and telling how sexy she looks after a good meal and getting her relaxed and feeling sexy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stone in a pond....
Start in her comfort zone. Decide you want to do something different to rest her boundaries AND learn more about which direction to take her. She probably prefers to 'think' sexually rather than act sexually. It seems she doesn't likes to 'hear' sex. So try touch, feel. Indeed. Eliminate sight with a blind fold. But when introducing something make the first memory safe and enjoyable for her, say a massage. Your taking her on a new journey. But more importantly your working which doors to take her through. Think about how she experiences her sexual pleasure. E.g. which sense is most active her and which has the opposite effect. Also find out which aftershave she likes you to wear!! You have to get into her world before you take her into yours. Hope that helps. Good luck. |
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