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How do I ask my girlfreind
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a difficult one. My view is you are upstanding and to the point. Take her out for dinner, drop it into the conversation you are going on to a club. Get to the club and feign innocence and say whilst we are here we might as well try it?
If that fails Rhohypnol and .........  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a girlfreind of 8 years but would like to do different things how do I go about asking her About it really scared in case she takes it the wrong way "
Explaining anal isn't that difficult and if she takes it the wrong way then you'll only be doing what you've been doing for the past 8 years anyway. What's the problem?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mention it during dirty talk during sex, very slowly introducing little ideas so as not to scare her off straight away or freak her out.
She might hate whatever it is that you want to do; she might like the IDEA of it but not the real thing orrr she might love it and you could be surprised!
You should know her reaction, i guess if youve been with her for 8 years she's not going to run away because of one little fantasy you have  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm confused.
Your arranging a meet with your girlfriend for June. If you can talk about bringing someone else into your relationship, what are you struggling with?  "
 like the others said bring it up during sex  |
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I've told my wife that one of my friend is fancy her and say to me that can he have a go with her, just joking he said so one day me and wife was talking about our fantasy so I mention about my friend that want to fuck her and she said ok give it ago that how she got in to swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a girlfreind of 8 years but would like to do different things how do I go about asking her About it really scared in case she takes it the wrong way "
8 years and you still dont know how to talk to her about sex?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just talk to her but more importantly listen!...after 8 yrs I'd like to think I'd understand my partner and have nothing I couldn't talk about.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"LOL if she doesnt know, how are you both looking for a meet (according to your profile)... "
he didnt say which of his girlfriends he was talking about !  |
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"I have a girlfreind of 8 years but would like to do different things how do I go about asking her About it really scared in case she takes it the wrong way "
She'll be fine, she loves meeting us for a threesome, she did say however that you're a little boring in bed hence her profile here! Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It was the other way round for me,my GF,who worked at a local petrol station,once asked me to do something really dirty for her,so I shit in her handbag,it didn,t do it for her.So I took the romantic approach and bought her a gift,but apparently sanitary-towels don,t qualify as "nice" presents,she ended it. But to this day,I can,t go past that petrol station without filling up. |
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"It was the other way round for me,my GF,who worked at a local petrol station,once asked me to do something really dirty for her,so I shit in her handbag,it didn,t do it for her.So I took the romantic approach and bought her a gift,but apparently sanitary-towels don,t qualify as "nice" presents,she ended it. But to this day,I can,t go past that petrol station without filling up. "
lol - that made me spit my tea out! Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have had sex in the same room as another couple and she liked it so am just going to bring that up xxxxx thanks everyone  "
And the look on yor face will be priceless when she says she wants to take you up the ass with her big strap on friend |
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"We have had sex in the same room as another couple and she liked it so am just going to bring that up xxxxx thanks everyone "
In all seriousness then, if that's the case expand on that as others have said during sex.
If your able to have sex infront of others then I'd think a club trip is next. Pick a good one and discuss it with her. A good club you have no obligation to do anything do just go with the pretence of looking around.
If its going to happen I'd think it would by that stage.
Whatever happens respect her descission.
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