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Profiles get blocked. Why?
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This is getting annoying and more frequent.
I will be chatting with someone, it's all going well, then for no apparently reason I'm blocked. I go back to search for the profile I see it and as I'm looking it gone.
On one occasion the member created a knew profile and found me. I new they were off line, I could see their profile and as soon as i had posted a message i was blocked, i searched for their profile, it had been removed.
This morning, a new profile they were not online, and i could see i was able to message them, i sent a message and i was blocked then the profile disappeared 
Anyone know what is happening |
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The question is, are they blocking you or are the profiles being deleted? Do your messages to and from them disappear? If the messages also disappear, the profile has been deleted, either by them or by admin. If the messages are still there, they’ve blocked you. We can’t tell you why a specific person has blocked you, there are a lot of possible reasons. If it’s the same person making new profiles all the time, and you’re sure they blocked you previously, it’s best not to message the new profile. |
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"The question is, are they blocking you or are the profiles being deleted? Do your messages to and from them disappear? If the messages also disappear, the profile has been deleted, either by them or by admin. If the messages are still there, they’ve blocked you. We can’t tell you why a specific person has blocked you, there are a lot of possible reasons. If it’s the same person making new profiles all the time, and you’re sure they blocked you previously, it’s best not to message the new profile."
That's about it except messages only disappear if the person themselves deletes the profile  |
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"The question is, are they blocking you or are the profiles being deleted? Do your messages to and from them disappear? If the messages also disappear, the profile has been deleted, either by them or by admin. If the messages are still there, they’ve blocked you. We can’t tell you why a specific person has blocked you, there are a lot of possible reasons. If it’s the same person making new profiles all the time, and you’re sure they blocked you previously, it’s best not to message the new profile.
That's about it except messages only disappear if the person themselves deletes the profile "
Oh really? I didn’t know that, I’m still learning new things even after so long. |
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I’ve had similar experiences this week - all from new members (female). Starts with an innocent message and builds (so it’s a real person of sorts). Then for no reason - blocked. Clearly time wasters or join then realise fab isn’t for them. Of course, it could also be that they’re just no into me/us/you? The trick is to ignore it and move on. Their loss  |
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"I’ve had similar experiences this week - all from new members (female). Starts with an innocent message and builds (so it’s a real person of sorts). Then for no reason - blocked. Clearly time wasters or join then realise fab isn’t for them. Of course, it could also be that they’re just no into me/us/you? The trick is to ignore it and move on. Their loss "
It might not be either of those. Someone isn’t a timewaster for changing their mind, and it may not be that Fab isn’t for them. When I first joined, I had 100 messages in the first hour. At the time I thought I should reply to everyone, and I had short conversations with a lot of men. They all seemed to think that meant I’d have sex with them, I thought I was just being polite. Not one of them could be bothered to talk to me like a person, all of them wanted me to meet for sex immediately, I was uncomfortable and stopped talking to them. I didn’t block anyone, I just gave up on them. Did that make me a timewaster? Or were they wasting my time? And as you can see from the fact that I’m still here, it didn’t mean Fab wasn’t for me. It meant those men weren’t for me. |
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"I’ve had similar experiences this week - all from new members (female). Starts with an innocent message and builds (so it’s a real person of sorts). Then for no reason - blocked. Clearly time wasters or join then realise fab isn’t for them. Of course, it could also be that they’re just no into me/us/you? The trick is to ignore it and move on. Their loss
It might not be either of those. Someone isn’t a timewaster for changing their mind, and it may not be that Fab isn’t for them. When I first joined, I had 100 messages in the first hour. At the time I thought I should reply to everyone, and I had short conversations with a lot of men. They all seemed to think that meant I’d have sex with them, I thought I was just being polite. Not one of them could be bothered to talk to me like a person, all of them wanted me to meet for sex immediately, I was uncomfortable and stopped talking to them. I didn’t block anyone, I just gave up on them. Did that make me a timewaster? Or were they wasting my time? And as you can see from the fact that I’m still here, it didn’t mean Fab wasn’t for me. It meant those men weren’t for me."
Yes. I can understand that it must be tricky for ladies joining only to be inundated with messages. I’m glad you persevered - fab is all the better for you being here. |
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"I’ve had similar experiences this week - all from new members (female). Starts with an innocent message and builds (so it’s a real person of sorts). Then for no reason - blocked. Clearly time wasters or join then realise fab isn’t for them. Of course, it could also be that they’re just no into me/us/you? The trick is to ignore it and move on. Their loss
It might not be either of those. Someone isn’t a timewaster for changing their mind, and it may not be that Fab isn’t for them. When I first joined, I had 100 messages in the first hour. At the time I thought I should reply to everyone, and I had short conversations with a lot of men. They all seemed to think that meant I’d have sex with them, I thought I was just being polite. Not one of them could be bothered to talk to me like a person, all of them wanted me to meet for sex immediately, I was uncomfortable and stopped talking to them. I didn’t block anyone, I just gave up on them. Did that make me a timewaster? Or were they wasting my time? And as you can see from the fact that I’m still here, it didn’t mean Fab wasn’t for me. It meant those men weren’t for me.
Yes. I can understand that it must be tricky for ladies joining only to be inundated with messages. I’m glad you persevered - fab is all the better for you being here. "
Thank you, I honestly think I’m better for being here, too. It is very intimidating for new women joining though, and I do think a lot of new profiles disappear (rather than blocking people) simply because it’s a bit scary in the first few weeks and I think a lot of them leave because it’s too much. I nearly panicked and left straight away! |
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Yes gutted.. I was about to meet this Nigerian princess who just wanted my bank details to check my identity. Obviously I gave them over as she had eyes that were beguiling. 
You have to treat the site with as much caution as when you are in the wild West, caution, scepticism and bury your money x |
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