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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Are you put off by the 'Interests' on a person's profile?
Do you view this list as what the person has experience of, wants to try, or is simply interested in giving it a go if the situation is right?
I've put a lot of things in my interests that I've never done but might be willing to try...
Should I only put down what I have experience with? (Which would leave almost nothing lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you put off by the 'Interests' on a person's profile?
Do you view this list as what the person has experience of, wants to try, or is simply interested in giving it a go if the situation is right?
I've put a lot of things in my interests that I've never done but might be willing to try...
Should I only put down what I have experience with? (Which would leave almost nothing lol)"
Cross dressing would definitely put us off yes.
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I don’t pay a huge amount of attention to them, as some people seem to just tick everything in hopes of getting more interest. The only thing that really puts me off is safe sex not being listed.
I do think it can be things you want to try as well as things you have experience of. |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
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Personally I look for mutual listed interests. Ones that really do put me off is the ones with only "virtual" stuff listed like phone/voyager/dogging. As that says to me that person ain't into hands on. I'm not into cocks in frocks so that pretty much rules out them in cross dressing and if they don't have safe sex listed then I avoid them as well. But that's just my perspective |
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"Personally I look for mutual listed interests. Ones that really do put me off is the ones with only "virtual" stuff listed like phone/voyager/dogging. As that says to me that person ain't into hands on. I'm not into cocks in frocks so that pretty much rules out them in cross dressing and if they don't have safe sex listed then I avoid them as well. But that's just my perspective "
Good point, if it’s just phone/cam I don’t bother because even now, I really can’t be doing with all that. |
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I've found that putting up interests tends to attract the sort of attention I am DEFINITELY not looking for, so I only ticked safe sex, as it is my only essential.
The messages I got from men (when I had any interests ticked) were so out there in terms of what I'm looking for. I much prefer to state in my profile that I have varied interests, and discuss with anyone I'm thinking of meeting what they are. |
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"I've found that putting up interests tends to attract the sort of attention I am DEFINITELY not looking for, so I only ticked safe sex, as it is my only essential.
The messages I got from men (when I had any interests ticked) were so out there in terms of what I'm looking for. I much prefer to state in my profile that I have varied interests, and discuss with anyone I'm thinking of meeting what they are."
Also very true. I put interests on when I first joined, and as you say, it got the wrong sort of attention. So for ages I only had safe sex ticked as well. I’ve put some back on now, but only because I don’t get as many messages now. |
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"Are you put off by the 'Interests' on a person's profile?"
In a word, no. It gives an indication of their interests, not what they want to do with us.
Or to put it another way, we have no interest in hangliding, but we wouldn't turn someone down just because they go hangliding at the weekend. |
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