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... What's the reason really...????
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There are no guarantees mate on this site.
Verification may help a bit, but I suspect that a lot of messages won’t get replied to simply because you are male and there are just too many of us on here in comparison to women and couples. |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Back in Gatwick! |
You have much better photos on your profile than your main one- change it and see if it improves?
Avoid the “Hey” “What u up to” (or even worse, “Wuu2”  ) “How is lockdown/Fab treating you”, openers as those will most certainly get your message deleted without a glance...
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"You have much better photos on your profile than your main one- change it and see if it improves?
Avoid the “Hey” “What u up to” (or even worse, “Wuu2” ) “How is lockdown/Fab treating you”, openers as those will most certainly get your message deleted without a glance...
Hope this helps "
Yep, agree on the main photo. You say you have some extra pounds but your other photos show someone very slim? |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
hiding from cock pics. |
Your pictures look good to me.
I've no idea what the quality of message you are sending is.
Are you reading their profile to see if if you are likely to be someone they are looking for, because if not they would be unlikely to reply. |
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I agree with Glitterbabe read the profile first then send a message that you've actually thought about. That way you can avoid putting people off by asking something that is covered on their profile.
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I like your profile and pics  Just depends on the message you send and distance matters to lots of people, I generally wont reply to messages from people miles away. Messages which are filthy or uncharming are deleted straight away. Messages which are boring or copy and pasted, theres just so many messages yours has to stand out. Its difficult. Your profile is fine I think |
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By *osineCouple
over a year ago
Weston-Super-Mare |
If i dont respond to messages, its simply because I can not be bothered.
I have a fabulous life here at home, anything is just an extra... I can take it or leave it really, it really is about me and not the person messaging (well sometimes it is)
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Me [Mrs crazy] are so fussy and so picky, honestly cant understand myself sometimes  really! Thats why I believe hubby is absolutely exceptional as for me he is perfect in every inch of his body and Character.
I had a quick look on your profile and it seams good for me (extra points for making more confident womens with the extra pounds as me )
So there may be two reasons I think.
Dont know about the quality of messages are you sending on. As even if I would say 'he seams ok' by the look on the profile Im getting attracted by the character. You need to be a true gentleman and let me feel it through the message. Thats also applies to the couples that we chat with.
2nd covid makes everything more complicated  
So just be patient is the key I guess or work on your messages. |
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For me, too young, you can't do a thing about that
Not sure what you'd be offering me. FWB - I always ask what the benefits are? I don't get GF/BF experience without the commitment
If I got a message, that I didn't want to answer because I end up woman-plaining that you're not for me, and it ends in an arguement, so its easier for me to not reply, block, delete, move on |
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