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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe a few more picks would help, "
Thanks. It did cross my mind, but I'm hoping my next fab meet can be my photographer. Lots of filthy pics, and photos never look as good if there selfies! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm pretty open to all sexual Scenarios! "
That's a total turnoff for me, as is someone ticking all the boxes in the "Interests" list. You need to say more about what you want and rule out what you don't. Nobody's into everything. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've seen much worse. You have to remember that you have joined up when meeting is not on the cards for most people. Use the time to get involved on the forums and make connections. "
Thanks my freind. I state, I'm looking to chat and make friends with looking to meet in the future when this is over.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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""I would actually do all the things in my interests above"
Actually, they are below  "
Are you sure!? I just looked and my interest are definatly above my profile txt  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Brutal honesty is what I need."
I cant remember the last time a woman told me that taking a picture with a parrot tucked in my pants dropped her knickers and melted her mind.
Go to the gym. Improve your physique, improve your Attraction level. Post better pics.
Learn how to structure sentences and not giant walls of text.
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""I would actually do all the things in my interests above"
Actually, they are below
Are you sure!? I just looked and my interest are definatly above my profile txt "
Ah, your on the mobile site, we are on the desktop site. Profiles appear slightly different depending on how you access them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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""I would actually do all the things in my interests above"
Actually, they are below
Are you sure!? I just looked and my interest are definatly above my profile txt
Ah, your on the mobile site, we are on the desktop site. Profiles appear slightly different depending on how you access them."
Just to be pedantic...above/below! But if this is the only comment you have then it's all good |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Calm down on the exclamation marks please.
Also your interests appear below the profile text not above."
Thank you for your constructive criticism. There was so many exclamation Mark's, lol. Now I have above...or below. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Brutal honesty is what I need.
I cant remember the last time a woman told me that taking a picture with a parrot tucked in my pants dropped her knickers and melted her mind.
Thanks, I restructured slightly but then I peaked at your profile....I got board just looking at the amount of dribble you wrote...with only 2 selfies and 1 with a filter. I mean if your going to comment, at least be more experienced than 6 weeks with not even so much as 1 verification.
Go to the gym. Improve your physique, improve your Attraction level. Post better pics.
Learn how to structure sentences and not giant walls of text.
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"I think the whole gym/ body paragraph sounds douchey honestly. I'd cut it completely, it's irrelevant to anything.
Totally right. Thanks. "
Well done for taking on board what people have said.
You are openly bi sexual and are into some niche things, so obviously you will not be everyone's cup of tea, which is fine, just concentrate on the people who seem to be looking for the same thing as you. Being true to yourself and others will make it alot more likely that you will find what you are looking for. Quite often for men on fab being respectful, reliable and having at least a bit of understanding of the scene gets them much further than a pretty face and a bad attitude. I'm sure you have the potential to do well. |
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"Maybe a few more picks would help,
Thanks. It did cross my mind, but I'm hoping my next fab meet can be my photographer. Lots of filthy pics, and photos never look as good if there selfies!"
I think most of us prefer to only see the profile user in the pics and not anyone else. In fact, it can be a major deterrent for many of us to have interest in people who use such pics. We're not looking for porn, education, proof that you have had sexual experience but just to be able to appreciate your physical looks, sufficiently to be able to decide if you may be of interest.
It's a definite single male mistake in my opinion and experience, to show others engaging in sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe a few more picks would help,
Thanks. It did cross my mind, but I'm hoping my next fab meet can be my photographer. Lots of filthy pics, and photos never look as good if there selfies!
I think most of us prefer to only see the profile user in the pics and not anyone else. In fact, it can be a major deterrent for many of us to have interest in people who use such pics. We're not looking for porn, education, proof that you have had sexual experience but just to be able to appreciate your physical looks, sufficiently to be able to decide if you may be of interest.
It's a definite single male mistake in my opinion and experience, to show others engaging in sex. "
Thanks. I was kinda getting this, looking at other profile advice. What I mean is somebody else take some good pictures of me. I always look suck a twat doing selfies and definatly need a good face pic.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, i like it and you look mighty fine "
Awwww, at least I cam please some of the people some of the time.
Would love to see your profile but you hidden it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think the whole gym/ body paragraph sounds douchey honestly. I'd cut it completely, it's irrelevant to anything.
Totally right. Thanks.
Well done for taking on board what people have said.
You are openly bi sexual and are into some niche things, so obviously you will not be everyone's cup of tea, which is fine, just concentrate on the people who seem to be looking for the same thing as you. Being true to yourself and others will make it alot more likely that you will find what you are looking for. Quite often for men on fab being respectful, reliable and having at least a bit of understanding of the scene gets them much further than a pretty face and a bad attitude. I'm sure you have the potential to do well."
Aaar, your a good friend. I'd like to think I am respectfull, reliable with a bit of understanding. I may have come across defencice in the past but nothing meant by it. Just my personal life spilling out here. We must do lunch sometime? xx |
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"I think the whole gym/ body paragraph sounds douchey honestly. I'd cut it completely, it's irrelevant to anything.
Totally right. Thanks.
Well done for taking on board what people have said.
You are openly bi sexual and are into some niche things, so obviously you will not be everyone's cup of tea, which is fine, just concentrate on the people who seem to be looking for the same thing as you. Being true to yourself and others will make it alot more likely that you will find what you are looking for. Quite often for men on fab being respectful, reliable and having at least a bit of understanding of the scene gets them much further than a pretty face and a bad attitude. I'm sure you have the potential to do well.
Aaar, your a good friend. I'd like to think I am respectfull, reliable with a bit of understanding. I may have come across defencice in the past but nothing meant by it. Just my personal life spilling out here. We must do lunch sometime? xx"
I'll stick it high on my post covid to do list |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Actually I just changed it and tried to make my profile a bit more detailed and sexy. Now I think I might have made it worse! What's your thoughts people? |
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It's looking good. Light humour, glimpses into your personality, reasonable pics, and your clear what you want.
You could do with some minor spelling corrections, but other than that the only thing standing in your way is the bloody virus.
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Brutal honesty is what I need.
I cant remember the last time a woman told me that taking a picture with a parrot tucked in my pants dropped her knickers and melted her mind.
Go to the gym. Improve your physique, improve your Attraction level. Post better pics.
Learn how to structure sentences and not giant walls of text.
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And if you think being gym fit will get you more meets you are also mistaken! Women care more about personality and how you come across than just a fit body. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Actually I just changed it and tried to make my profile a bit more detailed and sexy. Now I think I might have made it worse! What's your thoughts people? "
You have you dont do anal ewww. Expect you mean with guys as you still have anal up as your likes. You can still get a dirty dick off a fem arse also remember! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Brutal honesty is what I need.
I cant remember the last time a woman told me that taking a picture with a parrot tucked in my pants dropped her knickers and melted her mind.
Go to the gym. Improve your physique, improve your Attraction level. Post better pics.
Learn how to structure sentences and not giant walls of text.
And if you think being gym fit will get you more meets you are also mistaken! Women care more about personality and how you come across than just a fit body. "
Well I'm personally happy with the way my body is now anyway. I'm also aware that going to gym is not the answer too lol. I've tried to covay some personality in my profile other than that it's so hard to put a personality across. But thanks for your comment. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Actually I just changed it and tried to make my profile a bit more detailed and sexy. Now I think I might have made it worse! What's your thoughts people?
You have you dont do anal ewww. Expect you mean with guys as you still have anal up as your likes. You can still get a dirty dick off a fem arse also remember! "
Yep I'll take anel down! I'm not a fan with males or females. I'll do it if it somebody's thing but not for me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's looking good. Light humour, glimpses into your personality, reasonable pics, and your clear what you want.
You could do with some minor spelling corrections, but other than that the only thing standing in your way is the bloody virus.
Good luck "
Thanks for your comments. If you think it's good then I'll leave it. But correct spelling though. Thanks xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Brutal honesty is what I need.
I cant remember the last time a woman told me that taking a picture with a parrot tucked in my pants dropped her knickers and melted her mind.
Go to the gym. Improve your physique, improve your Attraction level. Post better pics.
Learn how to structure sentences and not giant walls of text.
And if you think being gym fit will get you more meets you are also mistaken! Women care more about personality and how you come across than just a fit body.
Well I'm personally happy with the way my body is now anyway. I'm also aware that going to gym is not the answer too lol. I've tried to covay some personality in my profile other than that it's so hard to put a personality across. But thanks for your comment. "
And the way you are chatting here is showing you as a nice abd tidy young man. |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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I think it’s a pretty good profile tbh.
The verification for meeting in person during lockdown is questionable. I hope it’s from someone that already knew you prior to lockdown.
You have personality and that is probably the most important thing you need on here. Not everyone will like you, but as you say “you can’t please all of the people all of the time”. |
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"Maybe a few more picks would help,
Thanks. It did cross my mind, but I'm hoping my next fab meet can be my photographer. Lots of filthy pics, and photos never look as good if there selfies!"
Agreed about selfies not being as good, but concentrate much less on the filth. Get somebody else to take photos of you, outdoors in good sunlight. Your current photos feel a bit dark and claustrophobic to me.
Have a variety of smart and casual clothes. Remember, when you meet somebody for the first time, you are most likely to be fully dressed, so show people what they can expect to see when they first meet you. How you present yourself is important to a lot of people.
The filth is what you can do when you get lucky, but just showing filth is not likely to be what lands you that luck in the first place. |
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"I think it’s a pretty good profile tbh.
The verification for meeting in person during lockdown is questionable. I hope it’s from someone that already knew you prior to lockdown.
You have personality and that is probably the most important thing you need on here. Not everyone will like you,
but as you say “you can’t please all of the people all of the time”."
Oh I can definitely confirm his verification was from a social that took place way before covid 19. |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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"I think it’s a pretty good profile tbh.
The verification for meeting in person during lockdown is questionable. I hope it’s from someone that already knew you prior to lockdown.
You have personality and that is probably the most important thing you need on here. Not everyone will like you,
but as you say “you can’t please all of the people all of the time”.
Oh I can definitely confirm his verification was from a social that took place way before covid 19."
Glad you cleared that up. Might be a good idea to just mention something to that effect on his profile. Not everyone will believe it, unless they are a forumite, but poor single guys do have to work harder. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s pretty good. Seems to be aimed at the men only tho. Was that your intention? "
Wounded! Lol. I was only trying to explain my sexuality in a bit more detail. The rest I thought was clearly aimed at girls and couples. Actually, saying about my bi thing was aimed at couples. Have to rethink something there, but thanks though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Spell check. There's no such word as exorbitionist (or anel, as pointed out above)."
Thanks. In my defence, I was just pissed and horny when i wrote it, so there was bound to spelling mistakes lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it’s a pretty good profile tbh.
The verification for meeting in person during lockdown is questionable. I hope it’s from someone that already knew you prior to lockdown.
You have personality and that is probably the most important thing you need on here. Not everyone will like you,
but as you say “you can’t please all of the people all of the time”.
Oh I can definitely confirm his verification was from a social that took place way before covid 19."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personally needs more body pictures also less cock pictures also noticed a spelling error ( sorry Not into anel ) what is anel "
But but but, I didnt think they was cock pics, more like body pics. body pics that just includes my cock, Haha. As I dont wear underwear it seems I might have to invest in a pair of sexy boxers  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe a few more picks would help,
Thanks. It did cross my mind, but I'm hoping my next fab meet can be my photographer. Lots of filthy pics, and photos never look as good if there selfies!"
I'm not really sure why I said "Filthy" I want nice clean pics that look sexy!! |
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"A few spelling mistakes
Especially West 'Mailing' Always helps if you can spell where you actually come from. "
As someone with border line dyslexia and fat fingers I know how important spelling can be for some folks. I think that’s fair enough, we all have our own clues which we look for to decide if we could have a connection with this person (aka profile) or not. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A few spelling mistakes
Especially West 'Mailing' Always helps if you can spell where you actually come from. "
Lucky I'm not from there then isnt it. Just working here for a couple of weeks. Thankyou for noticing though |
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"errr, it's lockdown and pandemic nothing is happening for any of us!
How observant you are....
Errr, it clearly states, When this pandemic ends "
And yet you have a meet verification during lockdown?? Questionable. |
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"errr, it's lockdown and pandemic nothing is happening for any of us!
How observant you are....
Errr, it clearly states, When this pandemic ends
And yet you have a meet verification during lockdown?? Questionable. "
And I'll answer you're question...it was from a freind I met before lockdown  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nothing wrong with it xx least it's not all dick pics or pics bj pics with ladies blurred faced, and I love the stuffed animal pic, that's cute xxx"
Thank you. If only you where closer! The parrot appreciates you're comment too  |
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"errr, it's lockdown and pandemic nothing is happening for any of us!
How observant you are....
Errr, it clearly states, When this pandemic ends
And yet you have a meet verification during lockdown?? Questionable. "
All explained earlier in the thread. The op has been on fab previously, I met him for a social way over a year ago and verified him when he rejoined as he thought it would be helpful.
Any questions you do have about this, please feel free to ask |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"errr, it's lockdown and pandemic nothing is happening for any of us!
How observant you are....
Errr, it clearly states, When this pandemic ends
And yet you have a meet verification during lockdown?? Questionable.
All explained earlier in the thread. The op has been on fab previously, I met him for a social way over a year ago and verified him when he rejoined as he thought it would be helpful.
Any questions you do have about this, please feel free to ask "
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