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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ok this is going to be quiet long so wake up and read it carefully ok
during the cold war the Russians ans the U.S.A had enough weapons (atom bombs) to kill each other and all the rest of us many times over...
the reason no atom bombs where ever used is because of M.A.D that being mutaul assured destruction ...
we still awake and keeping up ..
right to my points
1) if you a bi male why do you put your st8 , normal reply "cause mates or work ppl might see " so they see you but you know they swingers that be M.A.D THEN
2) PPL ON HERE MOSTLY SINGLE MALES NOT HAVING ANY FACE PICS OR NO PIC AT ALL when asked why they normal reply " dont want friends or family to see " but if friends or family see means they looked on a swingers site do they want ppl to know so we back at M.A.D again
3) NOW all that been said i have a very strong word of advice to all if a single male has no pic or no face pic says they bi in message but not on profile and they profile says they cannot accomadate assume they married or got a g/friend and are playing away
4) this is a swingers site and if you put up you where a married man looking for a mistress i bet you would get a reply do to your honesty
any way any thoughts ppl this should keep you chatting for a while |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"ok this is going to be quiet long so wake up and read it carefully ok
during the cold war the Russians ans the U.S.A had enough weapons (atom bombs) to kill each other and all the rest of us many times over...
the reason no atom bombs where ever used is because of M.A.D that being mutaul assured destruction ...
we still awake and keeping up ..
right to my points
1) if you a bi male why do you put your st8 , normal reply "cause mates or work ppl might see " so they see you but you know they swingers that be M.A.D THEN
2) PPL ON HERE MOSTLY SINGLE MALES NOT HAVING ANY FACE PICS OR NO PIC AT ALL when asked why they normal reply " dont want friends or family to see " but if friends or family see means they looked on a swingers site do they want ppl to know so we back at M.A.D again
3) NOW all that been said i have a very strong word of advice to all if a single male has no pic or no face pic says they bi in message but not on profile and they profile says they cannot accomadate assume they married or got a g/friend and are playing away
4) this is a swingers site and if you put up you where a married man looking for a mistress i bet you would get a reply do to your honesty
any way any thoughts ppl this should keep you chatting for a while "
Short reply!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hopefully alcohol will have featured in the OP's post and if it didn't 
Just a thought though, you put up a face pic and someone you know who does not give a rats arse about what other folk think spots it, you put up a face pic and a client/colleague/employee spots it................perhaps a little more thought is needed |
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So, just to clarify. If my name means "swinger" in Russian, my dog speaks in an American accent and if I then pretend to be straight.......
.......do I get a cold star or do I get sectioned for being mad?
How about if a Russian spy recognizes me on the site? Do i still get a cold star?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me the main issue is I don't want some porn website owner/farmer putting my entire form up and profiting off my image. When was the last time you saw porn with the heads chopped off? 
Naturally I have several face shots in attachment only folder. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
For me if I see (on a female's profile):
1) No photo verification (ie, green flag)
2) No cam (ie can't tell if a male or female using the account)
3) No face pics
... then I ten to bypass.
spoke to a lady who said she wouldn't put her face pic on (not even in private), had to meet verifications displayed, and would not even "display" (not send) her face pic via MSN (display window). Basically, she wanted me to "trust her" as her job required her to stay as anonymous as possible, but hoped I'd meet her. Yeah right! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just because you are seen on a swingers site doesn't mean swingers saw you, example, as I have posted elsewhere we had a message from someone that actually mistook Colleen for someone else, regardless he is convinced he knows her and so is asking friends to look to confirm it's the lady he thinks she is.
my point, if for an example an open about it all swinger was to see someone they are familiar with they could simply show someone else that isn't a swinger.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Alrighty then.
I've woken up,read it carefully and it still makes not much sense.
After a brief yet debatable history lesson are we concluding you think everyone should bung photos on here regardless of the consequences and married dudes looking for mistresses should beware?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i dont have face pic on profile...i have it private... i dont show verifications simply because its no ones business who i have swung with...i dont go on cam cause find it just encourages people to want a free cam show which i dont find much fun! on msn i wont show face pic until i trust the person enough and no its not becuase im pot ugly its because some psycho threatned to post my pics all over my home town and to my work people have reasons they want to remain anonymous except to people they do want to meet does it make them any less "genuine swinger"?? |
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I think what the OP is trying to say is.
Why are people worried about being recognised by other members, surely they're swingers too.
If this is the case I think they are slightly misguided about who actually frequent swingers sites. Yes the majority are genuine swingers but there is a minority of mischief makers top of the list being journalists. As well as the sad individuals who like outing people for the sheer hell of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well we put pics on our ad all the time and if anyone says they are gonna take them and put them somewhere else as its been done b4 we say god bless yous poor soles . we dont hide anything from anyone we told everyone we know that we were swingers a long time ago so it makes no difference we are not ashamed. we cant help it if we love sex.xxx WELL THATS WHEN HE CAN GET A HARD ON LOL LOL LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think what the OP is trying to say is: Why are people worried about being recognised by other members, surely they're swingers too.
If this is the case I think they are slightly misguided about who actually frequent swingers sites. Yes the majority are genuine swingers but there is a minority of mischief makers......"
I entirely agree, trickydicky. This is a swingers site and yes, hopefully most of us are genuine swingers/swingles. But at the end of the day, this is a free site, and there will be members on here who are just here to perv/w@nk/write a story for the NOTW. I would not want these people to be able to recognise me, hence I have no face pic.
I agree that some people will think I am a hypocrite, because I expect men to make the first move in sending me a face pic. However, as a single female living alone, I am not prepared to scatter my face pic far and wide, because of fears for my personal safety. Fortunately, though, the cam-chat room on this site is an excellent facility, which enables us to build up a level of trust which cannot be generated soley through PMs.
Happy swinging, everyone! xx |
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We know a cpl for whom this is a big issue. She had a good job, but had to leave when someone posted her profile pic on the staff canteen notice board.
We have heard of other cpls and singles who have had similar experiences, not many but enought to confirm our first instinct that we keep the pics private. We are happy to go on cam on msn at first contact to prove we are genuine, but only if gut instinct tells us all is ok, otherwise, you might be waiting a while!! |
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"We know a cpl for whom this is a big issue. She had a good job, but had to leave when someone posted her profile pic on the staff canteen notice board.
We have heard of other cpls and singles who have had similar experiences, not many but enought to confirm our first instinct that we keep the pics private. We are happy to go on cam on msn at first contact to prove we are genuine, but only if gut instinct tells us all is ok, otherwise, you might be waiting a while!!"
I'd have bluffed my through through that - no way would i leave my job! my attitude would have been - well why were you on that site anyway and someone must have used my pics cos i'm so god damned gorgeous! |
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"We know a cpl for whom this is a big issue. She had a good job, but had to leave when someone posted her profile pic on the staff canteen notice board.
We have heard of other cpls and singles who have had similar experiences, not many but enought to confirm our first instinct that we keep the pics private. We are happy to go on cam on msn at first contact to prove we are genuine, but only if gut instinct tells us all is ok, otherwise, you might be waiting a while!!
I'd have bluffed my through through that - no way would i leave my job! my attitude would have been - well why were you on that site anyway and someone must have used my pics cos i'm so god damned gorgeous!"
She tried to bluff it out, but it became too much, senior managers got involved and she felt it would be easier just to quit. |
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"We know a cpl for whom this is a big issue. She had a good job, but had to leave when someone posted her profile pic on the staff canteen notice board.
We have heard of other cpls and singles who have had similar experiences, not many but enought to confirm our first instinct that we keep the pics private. We are happy to go on cam on msn at first contact to prove we are genuine, but only if gut instinct tells us all is ok, otherwise, you might be waiting a while!!
I'd have bluffed my through through that - no way would i leave my job! my attitude would have been - well why were you on that site anyway and someone must have used my pics cos i'm so god damned gorgeous!
She tried to bluff it out, but it became too much, senior managers got involved and she felt it would be easier just to quit."
That's a bloody shame - there are some truly horrible people about - |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i don't have any pics on my profile or anywhere else for that matter! Why? because i don't want to!! period!!! I do post most of my verifications so hopefully people will know i'm genuine and i have had lots of meets without pics if people don't want to meet because i've no pics oh well i can live with that! why stress just enjoy! |
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By *ancduoCouple
over a year ago
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What we don't understand is that we state we will meet singles as well as couples, but yet still get singles pretending to be a couple - and they still pretend after initial contact!
If someone isn't 100% honest about such basic, why would we want to meet them? What else are they hiding?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we don't have any face pics but have verifcations from people that have seen us on ca talked to us on phone and met us but it don't make us any more unreal just feel face pics are too risky |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok this is going to be quiet long so wake up and read it carefully ok
during the cold war the Russians ans the U.S.A had enough weapons (atom bombs) to kill each other and all the rest of us many times over...
the reason no atom bombs where ever
used is because of M.A.D that being mutaul assured destruction ...
we still awake and keeping up ..
right to my points
1) if you a bi male why do you put your st8 , normal reply "cause mates or work ppl might see " so they see you but you know they swingers that be M.A.D THEN
2) PPL ON HERE MOSTLY SINGLE MALES NOT HAVING ANY FACE PICS OR NO PIC AT ALL when asked why they normal reply " dont want friends or family to see " but if friends or family see means they looked on a swingers site do they want ppl to know so we back at M.A.D again
3) NOW all that been said i have a very strong word of advice to all if a single male has no pic or no face pic says they bi in message but not on profile and they profile says they cannot accomadate assume they married or got a g/friend and are playing away
4) this is a swingers site and if you put up you where a married man looking for a mistress i bet you would get a reply do to your honesty
any way any thoughts ppl this should keep you chatting for a while "
I thought M.A.D. was a song from Ian Gillan  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The argument that members are assured protection from others who 'see' them on here due to 'thieves being thick' is possibly the most ill concieved argument of the century.
I simply do not want SOME others in my OTHER walks of life knowing what I do. I'm far from ashamed of it - it's just mine, that's all.
I don't discuss my non swinging private life with all and sundry either. So why should the swinging part of my life in an open book for any stupid arse hole who wants to look. I'd give access to my medical records and financial history first. I do tire of the arseholes who repeatedly say
' fuck who knows about it' ooohhh come to think of it .. I might have to.
The idea that a married man being 'honest' assures him of loyalty and understanding from anyone he contacts is equally as ludicrous and unmeasureably naive.
Im a single woman. I have NOTHING to lose if a married man annoys me. He has NO hold over me. NO assurance that I won't reveal to his family his level of 'honesty' M.A.D not applicable. Tsk. Lucky for some that my sanity and lack of vindictiveness takes care of that one for me.
I prefer not to put a picture on my profile. You have the option of speaking to me or not. There's no more to be said. I won't hold it against you if you don't contact me - honest  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok this is going to be quiet long so wake up and read it carefully ok
during the cold war the Russians ans the U.S.A had enough weapons (atom bombs) to kill each other and all the rest of us many times over...
the reason no atom bombs where ever
used is because of M.A.D that being mutaul assured destruction ...
we still awake and keeping up ..
right to my points
1) if you a bi male why do you put your st8 , normal reply "cause mates or work ppl might see " so they see you but you know they swingers that be M.A.D THEN
2) PPL ON HERE MOSTLY SINGLE MALES NOT HAVING ANY FACE PICS OR NO PIC AT ALL when asked why they normal reply " dont want friends or family to see " but if friends or family see means they looked on a swingers site do they want ppl to know so we back at M.A.D again
3) NOW all that been said i have a very strong word of advice to all if a single male has no pic or no face pic says they bi in message but not on profile and they profile says they cannot accomadate assume they married or got a g/friend and are playing away
4) this is a swingers site and if you put up you where a married man looking for a mistress i bet you would get a reply do to your honesty
any way any thoughts ppl this should keep you chatting for a while
I thought M.A.D. was a song from Ian Gillan "
lol, that song started to go around my head as soon as I read the OP, lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok this is going to be quiet long so wake up and read it carefully ok
during the cold war the Russians ans the U.S.A had enough weapons (atom bombs) to kill each other and all the rest of us many times over...
the reason no atom bombs where ever
used is because of M.A.D that being mutaul assured destruction ...
we still awake and keeping up ..
right to my points
1) if you a bi male why do you put your st8 , normal reply "cause mates or work ppl might see " so they see you but you know they swingers that be M.A.D THEN
2) PPL ON HERE MOSTLY SINGLE MALES NOT HAVING ANY FACE PICS OR NO PIC AT ALL when asked why they normal reply " dont want friends or family to see " but if friends or family see means they looked on a swingers site do they want ppl to know so we back at M.A.D again
3) NOW all that been said i have a very strong word of advice to all if a single male has no pic or no face pic says they bi in message but not on profile and they profile says they cannot accomadate assume they married or got a g/friend and are playing away
4) this is a swingers site and if you put up you where a married man looking for a mistress i bet you would get a reply do to your honesty
any way any thoughts ppl this should keep you chatting for a while
I thought M.A.D. was a song from Ian Gillan
lol, that song started to go around my head as soon as I read the OP, lol."
Mine too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been swinging on this and many other sites and the free sites are the worst for pic collectors, I have even had genuine verified couples begging for more and more pics just becuase the guy (who was on his own) wanted his morning wank, no way had he any intentions of meeting, he did not even have one pic with both him and his partner on, and yes I reported him but also heard of others with the same problem. Tip if u are unsure about someone ask their friends about them or ask in chat, it soon dispells any problems, most trouble makers are well known. |
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