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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What is the best way to start a conversation because I never know to go it hard and say what I want or go in soft with a hey because some just get deleted and some just read and no reply. |
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"Well I'd say hey if I could buy them a drink etc the normal stuff "
I think something along those lines is probably the best way to approach people on here. Say hello, mention something about their profile you like and ask if you could meet for a coffee/drink once this madness is over. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Okay MMA does really have a bad name it's mainly for fitness and football is playing football and I thought saying dancing when d*unk would sound like I'm fun.
Thank you for the advice |
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"Okay so going straight into asking about a meet is all good in the first message is all good ?"
It depends how you ask really.
Saying "can we meet and fuck when covid is over" will probably appeal to fewer women than "hi my name is hankysteamtrain, I saw that you like flying kites off the foot hills of Everest. Would you like to meet for a coffee after covid?"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Okay so going straight into asking about a meet is all good in the first message is all good ?
It depends how you ask really.
Saying "can we meet and fuck when covid is over" will probably appeal to fewer women than "hi my name is hankysteamtrain, I saw that you like flying kites off the foot hills of Everest. Would you like to meet for a coffee after covid?"
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Yeah that's makes sense ahah thank you |
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"Okay so going straight into asking about a meet is all good in the first message is all good ?
It depends how you ask really.
Saying "can we meet and fuck when covid is over" will probably appeal to fewer women than "hi my name is hankysteamtrain, I saw that you like flying kites off the foot hills of Everest. Would you like to meet for a coffee after covid?"
Yeah that's makes sense ahah thank you "
Our of interest what are your expectations of the site? |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
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Starting a message saying " hey how are you " has used up 4 words of the 14 or so a woman sees in her list of Unopened messages today. It's the same 4 words in many other messages. Why open yours OP ? Maybe the next 10 words you write are the decider?. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Women get a lot of messages, if I log in in the morning and see a solid block of yellow "hey/how's you/wuu2/up to much" they are just getting deleted as honestly, I don't have the patience for that shit.
Read their profiles, then read it again to be sure you're what they want and then approach with authenticity. Keep it bright and breezy, no long-arsed fantasy erotic fiction or stupid ice breaker questions like "Hey, what's your favourite biscuit?:. A simple introduction that shows you've read their profile and states your interest is fine. |
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"I do read every profile just don't really get much to start conversation without going in the deep end"
With people not meeting due to Covid, I think a LOT of single girls and couples simply don't want/need to expand their contacts. It's exhausting trying to keep thirty conversations going at the same time. |
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