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Whenever I watch gangbang porn, there is never any condoms??
But what about real life?
My real life is safe sex all the way, but going to a party meet soon and wanted your opinions on the matter.
I think (not sure how the night will go) that oral sex will be the starter, without condoms, but what happens once I cover up, what is the protocol about dipping here and dipping there?
would you (if you were a girlie) be horrified if I came out of a girl, then into you with the same condom on??
I would be protected, but you wouldn't be protected from the juice of the other girl??
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over a year ago
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Truly horrified! U would get a punch on the nose if u tried it with most I think! Stock up on ur fav brand and keep changing them! The inconvenience is worth ur life and health no doubt as well as an unbruised face!!!!   |
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I play with a female friend as a fem fem couple on here. The amount of men that assume they can use the same condom for the both of us is unreal.
A different condom for every girl, it's common sense, safer sex isn't just about you, it's about protecting those you are with too. |
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Buy a big box and change between dipping! I wouldn't be a happy girl if you had dipped your condom clad twinkle into someone before me without changing your condom! |
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"I play with a female friend as a fem fem couple on here. The amount of men that assume they can use the same condom for the both of us is unreal.
A different condom for every girl, it's common sense, safer sex isn't just about you, it's about protecting those you are with too. "
I was just wondering. How does this work with oral. Or fingering???? I think the whole taboo of bareback and the ignorance of people assuming they can only catch it via penetration is laughable. I see no difference in same condom girl to girl than fingering a room full of girls. Or perhaps U make the men wash their hands after each woman. Just thought I would throw a cat amongst the pigeons  |
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I guess the women could all wear femedoms too and then no one has to change anything if the guys are bagged and the girls r bagged! Might get noisy though lol  |
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Do you really need to ask if it would be ok to fuck a woman then come out and fuck another one with the same jonny on? Some people need to guy back to school and learn a bit more |
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"I play with a female friend as a fem fem couple on here. The amount of men that assume they can use the same condom for the both of us is unreal.
A different condom for every girl, it's common sense, safer sex isn't just about you, it's about protecting those you are with too.
I was just wondering. How does this work with oral. Or fingering???? I think the whole taboo of bareback and the ignorance of people assuming they can only catch it via penetration is laughable. I see no difference in same condom girl to girl than fingering a room full of girls. Or perhaps U make the men wash their hands after each woman. Just thought I would throw a cat amongst the pigeons "
The risks while still there are considerably less for oral than from penetrative sex for a lot of STIs...
When we have a group session here we provide baby wipes and hand gel and yes, I would generally expect someone to at least wipe their hands...we also take our own to other places...
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"I play with a female friend as a fem fem couple on here. The amount of men that assume they can use the same condom for the both of us is unreal.
A different condom for every girl, it's common sense, safer sex isn't just about you, it's about protecting those you are with too.
I was just wondering. How does this work with oral. Or fingering???? I think the whole taboo of bareback and the ignorance of people assuming they can only catch it via penetration is laughable. I see no difference in same condom girl to girl than fingering a room full of girls. Or perhaps U make the men wash their hands after each woman. Just thought I would throw a cat amongst the pigeons "
I'm not ignorant, I am fully aware of the risks of oral, and fingering, hence why I use the term safer, not safe sex, as there is no such thing as safe sex. As I have previously said in threads, I assess my risks, and I am willing to accept the risk from oral sex, as it is considerably less. |
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"Whenever I watch gangbang porn, there is never any condoms??
But what about real life?
My real life is safe sex all the way, but going to a party meet soon and wanted your opinions on the matter.
I think (not sure how the night will go) that oral sex will be the starter, without condoms, but what happens once I cover up, what is the protocol about dipping here and dipping there?
would you (if you were a girlie) be horrified if I came out of a girl, then into you with the same condom on??
I would be protected, but you wouldn't be protected from the juice of the other girl??
Michael "
if you tried to have sex with me with the same condom on you have used on another woman im rip your cock off and make no mistake about that
It the one thing i really hate. it really is the ultimate in fuck you im ok isnt it
Id be less mad if a guy tried to fuck me bare because at least hes ricking his own health too, but to protect yourself and them risk spreading things about to other women because you cant even be arsed to change a condom when you change a woman is just the ultimate in selfishness |
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"If you're not changing condoms between partners, then its not safe sex. Well, at least not for the women. Has the price of condoms gone up?"
NHS Freedoms if the supermarket prices have gone up,,, and you can buy them in bulk too.
I would Never EVER let a guy do that to me or infront of me! not only can you spread STI's but the likelyhood of splitting is increased as soon as its exposed to the air for any amount of time... if my partner switches from fucking to fingering or oral with the same woman i always change his condom while im keeping him hard.. for his and her protection. |
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"I totally agree with everyone but it defeats the object if when playing two girls in question give each other oral....is it not? X"
You can say that about men too tho, if i give a guy a blow job without protection does that mean i may as well fuck him bare? |
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"I totally agree with everyone but it defeats the object if when playing two girls in question give each other oral....is it not? X
You can say that about men too tho, if i give a guy a blow job without protection does that mean i may as well fuck him bare?"
What happens lets say..If you in the middle of a grou of men. Going from cock to cock sucking??? Do you take Antiseptic mouthwash for in between blow jobs???
Each to their own when it comes to these kind of things, I just find it funny how some people seem holier than thou over one aspect of safe sex and multi person play then move the goal posts when it suits them. There is far to much a taboo and fear of being cast out or the victim of a with hunt.
Never have I seen such a bunch of judgemental people in a lifestyle that is frowned upon by vanillas. I dont understand how any kind of swinger can try and take the moral high ground over any other swinger...After all we are all fucking other peoples wives/husbands etc etc. |
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Swingers are people too. Which means we can be racist, sizeist, sexist, nasty horrible people.
We can take the moral high ground over others simply because we are human, and although not right, it is human nature, being swingers does not exempt us from that, any more than the vanilla shopping next to us in Tesco! |
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I do regular gangbangs and we provide a large bowl of condoms so there is no reason not to change it. Anyone trying to fuck 2 different women with same one would get told to leave. Also have wet wipes and tissue next to bed. |
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I think it's a perfectly good point that's been raised here and a point that I bet a lot of people in gang bang situations have never thought about.
Yes the guys change condoms between girls but I bet a hell of a lot of fingering goes on from girl to girl without sanitising of fingers and hands or do they think a quick wipe from an old rag does the trick. |
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The trouble is that there is no such thing as safe sex!!!
STD's can be transmitted orally as well as through penetration.
So I ask you how many of you have an STD or anything?
If you think the other person(s) might have something, then why do you bother??
If you are cant take the risk then the only safe way is to not be invovled!
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Each to their own when it comes to these kind of things, I just find it funny how some people seem holier than thou over one aspect of safe sex and multi person play then move the goal posts when it suits them. There is far to much a taboo and fear of being cast out or the victim of a with hunt.
Never have I seen such a bunch of judgemental people in a lifestyle that is frowned upon by vanillas. I dont understand how any kind of swinger can try and take the moral high ground over any other swinger...After all we are all fucking other peoples wives/husbands etc etc."
Well said  
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"Swingers are people too. Which means we can be racist, sizeist, sexist, nasty horrible people.
We can take the moral high ground over others simply because we are human, and although not right, it is human nature, being swingers does not exempt us from that, any more than the vanilla shopping next to us in Tesco!"
What I am saying is, Dont go throwing stones if you live in a glass house, Or for the common folk like me, Dont shit on your own doorstep |
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have you been to a gang bang before? im guessing not lol, whats the odds they more than one lady there to do this with, and also if u mean a party where theres a few couples/ladies and loads men there then whats the odds you go from one, straight to the next one having sex again.
im betting you wont
so odds on its coming straight off anyways for a bj if your moving to the next lady, or your having to keep your self hard for when its your turn next, which probs means condom off once again anyways lol
been to a canny few parties and had loads group fun and when they numbers involved it wont be often you go from pussy to pussy, thats more when they 3/4 of you playing
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"I totally agree with everyone but it defeats the object if when playing two girls in question give each other oral....is it not? X
You can say that about men too tho, if i give a guy a blow job without protection does that mean i may as well fuck him bare?
Well said
well said
What happens lets say..If you in the middle of a grou of men. Going from cock to cock sucking??? Do you take Antiseptic mouthwash for in between blow jobs???
Each to their own when it comes to these kind of things, I just find it funny how some people seem holier than thou over one aspect of safe sex and multi person play then move the goal posts when it suits them. There is far to much a taboo and fear of being cast out or the victim of a with hunt.
Never have I seen such a bunch of judgemental people in a lifestyle that is frowned upon by vanillas. I dont understand how any kind of swinger can try and take the moral high ground over any other swinger...After all we are all fucking other peoples wives/husbands etc etc."
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"Swingers are people too. Which means we can be racist, sizeist, sexist, nasty horrible people.
We can take the moral high ground over others simply because we are human, and although not right, it is human nature, being swingers does not exempt us from that, any more than the vanilla shopping next to us in Tesco!"
Agreed but doesnt make it right. No one has a right to judge or criticise another, be you vanilla or a swinger.
Each to their own i say. Those who like to play bear, good luck to you, those who like to play safe, good luck to you.
Time i was off for a cold beer |
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The inherent risks of getting an STI via unprotected oral sex versus vaginal sex are substantially lower due to the vagina's more delicate mucous membrane, which allows virus/bacteria to enter the body easier than through the throat/mouth. Hence why oral chlamydia is relatively low compared to vaginal.
The anus on the other hand has an extremely thin mucous membrane, hence the high number of cases of rectal chlamydia/gonorrhoea in this area when people have unprotected anal.
So, although it may seem judgemental there is science behind the safer sex message...
I do unprotected oral but never unprotected anal/vaginal...thats not to say I deny I won't have others vaginal/penis fluids on me but I do tend to clean hands/body area periodically during play and would be hacked off a guy dipped his wick in another and didnt bother changing the condom before entering me, im effectively barebacking vaginally then x |
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"Swingers are people too. Which means we can be racist, sizeist, sexist, nasty horrible people.
We can take the moral high ground over others simply because we are human, and although not right, it is human nature, being swingers does not exempt us from that, any more than the vanilla shopping next to us in Tesco!
Agreed but doesnt make it right. No one has a right to judge or criticise another, be you vanilla or a swinger.
Each to their own i say. Those who like to play bear, good luck to you, those who like to play safe, good luck to you.
Time i was off for a cold beer "
'No one has the right to judge' you say..... however that doesn't stop them doing it no matter how loud you shout that they can't.
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haha love how he was asking so knows what to do when he gets there and made the point about females etc but every1 jumped on him calling him selfish, and saying theyd punch him or kick him out etc and then started being judgemental towards each other...forums always entertaining lol he was asking advice! |
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"haha love how he was asking so knows what to do when he gets there and made the point about females etc but every1 jumped on him calling him selfish, and saying theyd punch him or kick him out etc and then started being judgemental towards each other...forums always entertaining lol he was asking advice!"
Well thank you, yes I was asking for advice, great see the views of the people.... I went to the gangbang meet 4 or 5 girls with double that blokes...I knew within an instant that the changing of the condoms is a MUST!!!
I totally loved it , and as much as I wanted to protect myself with a condom, I also wanted to protect them too.
So I don't think I have learned a lesson here...that's because I already knew the Answer to the question..!!
Cheers guys..please keep up the debate tho...it is fantastic..!!
Michael (now, not a Gangbang newbie anymore) |
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I was just wondering. How does this work with oral. Or fingering???? I think the whole taboo of bareback and the ignorance of people assuming they can only catch it via penetration is laughable. I see no difference in same condom girl to girl than fingering a room full of girls. Or perhaps U make the men wash their hands after each woman. Just thought I would throw a cat amongst the pigeons "
thats sommin i wondered to..
ladies can you shed any light on this |
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"haha love how he was asking so knows what to do when he gets there and made the point about females etc but every1 jumped on him calling him selfish, and saying theyd punch him or kick him out etc and then started being judgemental towards each other...forums always entertaining lol he was asking advice!
Well thank you, yes I was asking for advice, great see the views of the people.... I went to the gangbang meet 4 or 5 girls with double that blokes...I knew within an instant that the changing of the condoms is a MUST!!!
I totally loved it , and as much as I wanted to protect myself with a condom, I also wanted to protect them too.
So I don't think I have learned a lesson here...that's because I already knew the Answer to the question..!!
Cheers guys..please keep up the debate tho...it is fantastic..!!
Michael (now, not a Gangbang newbie anymore)"
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"I dont understand how any kind of swinger can try and take the moral high ground over any other swinger...After all we are all fucking other peoples wives/husbands etc etc."
Do you believe that swinging is immoral?
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"I dont understand how any kind of swinger can try and take the moral high ground over any other swinger...After all we are all fucking other peoples wives/husbands etc etc.Do you believe that swinging is immoral?"
Interesting! I know plenty who would believe that swinging is immoral but don't personally. |
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Haha, I always loved the idea of a gang bang but this debate kinda killed the magic for me. Common sense usually prevails and it was only a fairly simple question. Do most questions on here end in such an argument of sorts? |
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"haha love how he was asking so knows what to do when he gets there and made the point about females etc but every1 jumped on him calling him selfish, and saying theyd punch him or kick him out etc and then started being judgemental towards each other...forums always entertaining lol he was asking advice!
Well thank you, yes I was asking for advice, great see the views of the people.... I went to the gangbang meet 4 or 5 girls with double that blokes...I knew within an instant that the changing of the condoms is a MUST!!!
I totally loved it , and as much as I wanted to protect myself with a condom, I also wanted to protect them too.
So I don't think I have learned a lesson here...that's because I already knew the Answer to the question..!!
Cheers guys..please keep up the debate tho...it is fantastic..!!
Michael (now, not a Gangbang newbie anymore)"
Did you enjoy it ?, I hope so...... forget the empties on here.
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When R is being a greedy girl in a club or at a party she prefers me to be on hand to make sure all the men are covered up and nobody swaps from another female with the same condom. She's usually not in a position to check herself, or is carried away by the scene. You'd be surprised how many men try to get in females at a GB without a condom, they always get shouted at and told to sod off! |
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"Haha, I always loved the idea of a gang bang but this debate kinda killed the magic for me. Common sense usually prevails and it was only a fairly simple question. Do most questions on here end in such an argument of sorts?"
it usually does when its about blatent disregard for safe sex or cheating, or someone very arrogant asking why they not had any meets lol |
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"Haha, I always loved the idea of a gang bang but this debate kinda killed the magic for me. Common sense usually prevails and it was only a fairly simple question. Do most questions on here end in such an argument of sorts?"
Pretty much yes lol |
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"Do you really need to ask if it would be ok to fuck a woman then come out and fuck another one with the same jonny on? Some people need to guy back to school and learn a bit more"
abit harsh for a completely valid question. I have personally never been in or near a gang bang as of yet so questions being asked like this is more helpful if it's answered with a decent reply rather than "some people need to go back to school"
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"Do you really need to ask if it would be ok to fuck a woman then come out and fuck another one with the same jonny on? Some people need to guy back to school and learn a bit more abit harsh for a completely valid question. I have personally never been in or near a gang bang as of yet so questions being asked like this is more helpful if it's answered with a decent reply rather than "some people need to go back to school" "
fucking hell, when i was at school i must have missed the lessons that teached how to gang bang..
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"haha love how he was asking so knows what to do when he gets there and made the point about females etc but every1 jumped on him calling him selfish, and saying theyd punch him or kick him out etc and then started being judgemental towards each other...forums always entertaining lol he was asking advice!
Well thank you, yes I was asking for advice, great see the views of the people.... I went to the gangbang meet 4 or 5 girls with double that blokes...I knew within an instant that the changing of the condoms is a MUST!!!
I totally loved it , and as much as I wanted to protect myself with a condom, I also wanted to protect them too.
So I don't think I have learned a lesson here...that's because I already knew the Answer to the question..!!
Cheers guys..please keep up the debate tho...it is fantastic..!!
Michael (now, not a Gangbang newbie anymore)
Did you enjoy it ?, I hope so...... forget the empties on here.
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Yes I totally enjoyed it, unfortunately just as the party was getting a hold, everybody had to leave..i was the first one to play, and the last one to leave (does that tell you anything..!! haha)
I cant wait to pull them condoms on again, and get stuck in..!!
Like minded people are amazing..!!
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SERIOUSLY guys is this a swingers site or a friggin debate society, the amount of times I go on these forums hoping to see events or socials posted and you get retarded topics like 'what would you do if I fucked you bareback' or even this topic for that matter, surely if you had common sense originial poster you wouldn't need to ask!!!!
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"SERIOUSLY guys is this a swingers site or a friggin debate society, the amount of times I go on these forums hoping to see events or socials posted and you get retarded topics like 'what would you do if I fucked you bareback' or even this topic for that matter, surely if you had common sense originial poster you wouldn't need to ask!!!!
RANT OVER "
sorry but if you dont want to interact with others socially and hate the forums so much why bother coming on to them??? maybe you should use your common sense and if your looking for meets try looking in the correct forum like the parties and meets forums or just browse the meets and events!!!
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"Haha, I always loved the idea of a gang bang but this debate kinda killed the magic for me. Common sense usually prevails and it was only a fairly simple question. Do most questions on here end in such an argument of sorts?
Pretty much yes lol"
Haha, I'll have to start joining these debates more often then I think. More for the comedy than the debate though lol |
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thats sommin i wondered to..
ladies can you shed any light on this"
Its simple for me... I make sure I am the only girl lol So no needing to clean hands etc inbetween
I have to say in all honesty I like to see a guy put the condom on.. or put it on myself. That way I know there has been no use before me.
I have also ever seen in a club anyone wiping fingers with anything when in a group situation.
I also find guys have no issues with getting cocks in my mouth even knowing I have just had another guy cum in there.. and still have it over me...
So just do what you comfortable with.
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Regarding fingering etc - we use gloves. I have a large box with me and the guys/girls use those.
Takes some getting used to wearing gloves but, I love being fisted and this is the best way for that to happen esp with inexperienced fisters.
New condoms all round otherwise.
Oral is a bit of a weird one - cover up or not? I love the taste of cum so I don't like them covered but then that is risky.
Nightmare basically! x |
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facts are, if u wanna be 100% safe...dont swing, or have casual sex(for those on 'dating' sites)..stay on cam and wank...altho u might give ur comp a virus....depending on what sites u frequent hehe |
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"facts are, if u wanna be 100% safe...dont swing, or have casual sex(for those on 'dating' sites)..stay on cam and wank...altho u might give ur comp a virus....depending on what sites u frequent hehe"
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