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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I’m looking at organising a party at my house. Any advice would be much appreciated, especially with do’s and don’ts.

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By *inksAPlentyCouple  over a year ago

Bedfordshire

A few things to think about to get you started. Decide what type of party you want to host - will you allow any fetish play?. Be aware of ratios couples/males/females. Invite more people than you want to attend - people always drop out. Setup a chat group to allow people to get to know each other in advance. Decide which rooms of your house people are allowed in and where play is allowed. Think about ice breaker party games.

I could go on...

Ms x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Great advice, however over inviting people hasn’t really worked as I can’t seem to get a reply off most lol.

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By *lym4realCouple  over a year ago

plymouth

Just decide what kind of party as we tried to mix it but it ended in tears so if it's a "Social" make sure everyone attending understands that and the same if it's a "Sex party" and we personally never ever invited people apart from the ones we knew as we just listed it on the meets/events page and just work on a lot of no shows and the fact you will no doubt upset a few ?? but as the old saying goes ..Damned if you do..Damned if you don't !! might be different in your area but maybe pop in the local chat room and that worked for us better than inviting people randomly also keep the numbers of single males low as it can and has and does turn in to a sausage fest or even a trouser stroker party ..provide nibbles though and tea/coffee

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By *lym4realCouple  over a year ago

plymouth

Also keep a list of all the ones you give details out to for future reference ( no shows) !!! that works and just enjoy it we did !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Mega advice thank you guys.

I’ve had the pool and hot tub cleaned especially and the bar is stocked up ready.

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds

If the pool and hot tub are outside, have you considered the weather forecast?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

They’re both inside.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

where abouts in the south would it be??

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By *luttyLaylaWoman  over a year ago

North West

Get to know and research the people your inviting.

No point inviting lots of couples if they all want single men for example.

Make it clear if it’s a social or sex party.

Check your ok to share the guest list with others.

Don’t expect to play yourself, you’ll be hosting all night haha.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"where abouts in the south would it be??"

New forest area.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Get to know and research the people your inviting.

No point inviting lots of couples if they all want single men for example.

Make it clear if it’s a social or sex party.

Check your ok to share the guest list with others.

Don’t expect to play yourself, you’ll be hosting all night haha. "

I’m planning on keeping it small to start with, thank you for the advice, very much appreciated.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman  over a year ago

North West


"Get to know and research the people your inviting.

No point inviting lots of couples if they all want single men for example.

Make it clear if it’s a social or sex party.

Check your ok to share the guest list with others.

Don’t expect to play yourself, you’ll be hosting all night haha.

I’m planning on keeping it small to start with, thank you for the advice, very much appreciated."

Small means you need to know everyone even better... less choice/options for people so you need to know they will get on and be each other’s “type” for want of a better word!

I’m sure you’ll have a great night! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Point taken, maybe I’ll just stick to throwing a social at first.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Point taken, maybe I’ll just stick to throwing a social at first. "

That's a good idea, because often single women invited to house parties feel pressure to play.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"where abouts in the south would it be??

New forest area."

Cool we might be up for something if you manage to organise something, you can let us know by pm when you have sorted something

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"where abouts in the south would it be??

New forest area.

Cool we might be up for something if you manage to organise something, you can let us know by pm when you have sorted something"

Awesome, yes I will let you know.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Will people need to be "double vaccinated" to attend?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Will people need to be "double vaccinated" to attend?"

hope so

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

So do I, but there's been no mention of it on this thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Absolutely 100% necessary

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