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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I’m on here solo with my partners full knowledge and consent, am I better to remain in the ‘single guy’ bracket or put myself in the MF category, explaining that I’m on here solo.

I’m just finding it hard as there are A LOT of single guys on here.

Thanks!

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple  over a year ago

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We would say single guy section.

Of course your wife confirms that?

It will make things much easier for you.

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By *litterbabeWoman  over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

If it is just you meeting and you just need a single male profile.

People messaging a couples profile going to expect me to both people.

Just had a few sentences in your profile to let people know you are married and have consent to enjoy the lifestyle

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

Definitely single.

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By *spotpleasurerMan  over a year ago

Norwich

If you have your partner's full knowledge and consent, but she has no interest in swinging, surely it is misleading to label yourself as MF?

Experienced members will want to chat with both of you before taking it further.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Single, I'm married and playing alone too xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We would say single guy section.

Of course your wife confirms that?

It will make things much easier for you."

Thank you, I thought so too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If it's only you that will be meeting & interacting...it's defo a single profile

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By *luttyLaylaWoman  over a year ago

North West

I’d say single guy profile but I’d expect someone to make it known they were married and playing with permission.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I’d say single guy profile but I’d expect someone to make it known they were married and playing with permission. "

Yeah 100% disclosure is how we (me and the wife) operate anyway. Thanks for your comment

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If it's only you that will be meeting & interacting...it's defo a single profile"

That’s what I thought, thank you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Single, I'm married and playing alone too xx"

Ah so you’re in the same boat as me?! Thanks for the confirmation

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If you have your partner's full knowledge and consent, but she has no interest in swinging, surely it is misleading to label yourself as MF?

Experienced members will want to chat with both of you before taking it further."

Well that’s what I thought too, I just wanted to hear everyone’s thoughts because I’m still unverified and having a profile that says ‘single male’ but my bio says I’m married could cause confusion and possibly make people think I’m fake. That’s where my head was at anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Definitely single. "

Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If it is just you meeting and you just need a single male profile.

People messaging a couples profile going to expect me to both people.

Just had a few sentences in your profile to let people know you are married and have consent to enjoy the lifestyle"

Thanks for that, I have wrote that on there too, but people don’t always read bios!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

definatly a single profile, with the explanation on your profile, we however would like to speak to your oh first before a meet tho, we wouldnt just take your word that shes ok with it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Single, I'm married and playing alone too xx

Ah so you’re in the same boat as me?! Thanks for the confirmation "

Yeah I do what (and who) I want. He's aware and sometimes asks but generally I just get on with it and he's not involved at all. I've come home late and he's ended up with sloppy seconds (or more) plenty of times and never said anything. We're both comfortable and happy with our marriage. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’m sure you’ve got the idea already, but single is the way. That’s what I’ve done but clearly stated I’m married and the conditions around that.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you have your partner's full knowledge and consent, but she has no interest in swinging, surely it is misleading to label yourself as MF?

Experienced members will want to chat with both of you before taking it further."

Of course. After all its not Rocket science ffs.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Single, I'm married and playing alone too xx

Ah so you’re in the same boat as me?! Thanks for the confirmation

Yeah I do what (and who) I want. He's aware and sometimes asks but generally I just get on with it and he's not involved at all. I've come home late and he's ended up with sloppy seconds (or more) plenty of times and never said anything. We're both comfortable and happy with our marriage. Xx"

WOW. I take my hat off to you. I could not live like that.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Single, I'm married and playing alone too xx

Ah so you’re in the same boat as me?! Thanks for the confirmation

Yeah I do what (and who) I want. He's aware and sometimes asks but generally I just get on with it and he's not involved at all. I've come home late and he's ended up with sloppy seconds (or more) plenty of times and never said anything. We're both comfortable and happy with our marriage. Xx

WOW. I take my hat off to you. I could not live like that. "

In what way? Why not? Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"definatly a single profile, with the explanation on your profile, we however would like to speak to your oh first before a meet tho, we wouldnt just take your word that shes ok with it"

That’s something we’ve done plenty of times. Little confirmation videos/ pics with notes. Thanks for your input!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Single, I'm married and playing alone too xx

Ah so you’re in the same boat as me?! Thanks for the confirmation

Yeah I do what (and who) I want. He's aware and sometimes asks but generally I just get on with it and he's not involved at all. I've come home late and he's ended up with sloppy seconds (or more) plenty of times and never said anything. We're both comfortable and happy with our marriage. Xx"

I know a few couples like this. They have each other blocked on their accounts so they absolutely nothing, and trust that the other one will tell them if there’s ever an issue.

If it works, then good for you guys!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve got the idea already, but single is the way. That’s what I’ve done but clearly stated I’m married and the conditions around that."

I’ve got it but thank you lending you voice too

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