used to meet couples, on my previous account, but it can be very tricky. A lot of the times, the woman's bisexuality gets blown out of proportion- you get assured "oh yes, she's very bisexual" but when you meet, all she is prepared to do is allow you to maybe kiss her, maybe play with her boobs a bit, maybe even lick or finger her. However, they are hardly ever prepared to give back- so do prepare yourself mentally for such a possibility. I thought I was asking all the right questions before the meeting, yet still ended up with pillow princesses.
Have a clear chat about everyone's boundaries, both soft limits (ones that they wouldn't mind being pushed in the heat of the play) and hard limits, or total no-goes. Make sure you are very clear about what you are prepared to do, whether you are happy with full penetration from the man or would just prefer soft swing, and if you are happy with full penetration- decide whether you want safe sex.
If the couple have got too many "hoops" for you to jump through before even arranging the meet- leave it and move on to the next one, more easy-going couple. Also, if there are too many "don'ts" set for the play- as above. As in the heat of the play you may easily forget whether, for example, you were or you weren't supposed to kiss him, and that may lead to some awkwardness or even arguments between the couple. You don't want to be part of that.
Remember, you are what couples seek, if you don't like their rules- there are plenty others who might be more suitable.
I like to arrange the first social with the woman only, too see how we get on and whether she is really into having sex with another woman or whether she is just helping her man fulfill his fantasy.
If this social goes well and you're happy, then arrange another, with both of them. And take it from there.
I have met some amazing couples, where we all had great time, and not so amazing couples where it was clear she was only there to please her man. Currently I am not meeting couples (unless by chance in a club) as I haven't got time to vet them properly and also being a couple's plaything is not a turn on for me at present. Maybe at some point in the future.
OP, feel free to contact me privately if you have any questions.
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I feel respected and not like a sex toy. I do love watching couples together, it really gets me going! Remember we're unicorns, rare and in demand. You can be very very picky. Good luck and have fun when you do meet the right ones. 
