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Starting out.

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I’ve been on this site for a couple months now but finding it hard to get started, maybe because I’m a single male or because I’m still yet to get verified. Any advice?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A couple of months! That’s nothing. If you’re not prepared to look at it for the long haul you’re wasting your time….100s if guys to each lady. Welcome to the queue! Lol

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By *ablo minibar123Woman over a year ago

Get cam verified in the chatrooms

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

Use your second last picture for your profile and add some more pictures smartly dressed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Aren't there any organised socials in your area ? Great way to meet people, have a chat and get verified.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

what were you expecting, women waiting outside your door?

when you go out and want to meet someone, do you just say hi or put in some effort, same here

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

I like the picture taken 25th August.

You’re a handsome guy, in a club I think you’d do well. On here well, get ready to be in the competition with all of the other guys.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shame you're not down south OP

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By *ister-mischiefMan over a year ago

Trafford

"I’ve been on this site for a couple months now but finding it hard to get started, maybe because I’m a single male or because I’m still yet to get verified. Any advice? "

Hi OP there is the manchester social event I think the next one is in December but not quite sure you will have to check the forums for it ( I've / we have never been) I would recommend socials and clubs, there are plenty of clubs in the NW to choose from to go along too. Some even have newbie nights for first timers as well to get to know people and the scene. Have fun!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How do you do this I’ve never thought about it

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By *anshee99Woman over a year ago

Loads of clubs in the NW. You're young and handsome so I think you would have a ball

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By *imi_RougeWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

Move down south!!

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By *r easy1981Man over a year ago

leeds

I have been on here 2 years and I still find it hard

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By *urora1912Woman over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Get cam verified thats a start.

As others have said go to a club or event if you can

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By *ubal1Man over a year ago

Newry Down

Covid pandemic has wrecked things for everyone; when the crisis dissipates and meets/socials resume things should get better; people are still anxious about close contact with strangers.

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By *lex D.Man over a year ago

London

"I’ve been on this site for a couple months now but finding it hard to get started, maybe because I’m a single male or because I’m still yet to get verified. Any advice? "

Dare yourself to a social or club.

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