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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve been on and off fab for about three years now but not had ANY look (I’ve made like two friends last year but absolutely none of my messages get any replies). I’m aware I’m brown, which puts a LOT of people off. I’m aware I’m small; which puts a LOT of people off. I don’t think I’m insanely unattractive though? I really want to actually get responses on here. The few responses I have had are all “not my type”.
Any tips? Maybe tips for messages to send to people too?
Please be kind and not mean! Thank you. |
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"I’ve been on and off fab for about three years now but not had ANY look (I’ve made like two friends last year but absolutely none of my messages get any replies). I’m aware I’m brown, which puts a LOT of people off. I’m aware I’m small; which puts a LOT of people off. I don’t think I’m insanely unattractive though? I really want to actually get responses on here. The few responses I have had are all “not my type”.
Any tips? Maybe tips for messages to send to people too?
Please be kind and not mean! Thank you. "
The first photo of you having bareback sex with a girl will put a lot of people off.
Action shots, especially bareback are not attractive. |
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over a year ago
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"If your in a relationship that is open to play then why not make a couples account and get it verified? Most that say that and don't usually tend to be just single guys."
The aim of the profile is NOT to play as a couple. I’m down to it but because of location (she’s currently in Bath studying and I’m in Birmingham) I primarily intend to play alone. Whilst couple meets are possible they’d be planned in advance and are not the objective of this account. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If your in a relationship that is open to play then why not make a couples account and get it verified? Most that say that and don't usually tend to be just single guys.
The aim of the profile is NOT to play as a couple. I’m down to it but because of location (she’s currently in Bath studying and I’m in Birmingham) I primarily intend to play alone. Whilst couple meets are possible they’d be planned in advance and are not the objective of this account. "
That answers that  |
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"If your in a relationship that is open to play then why not make a couples account and get it verified? Most that say that and don't usually tend to be just single guys.
The aim of the profile is NOT to play as a couple. I’m down to it but because of location (she’s currently in Bath studying and I’m in Birmingham) I primarily intend to play alone. Whilst couple meets are possible they’d be planned in advance and are not the objective of this account. "
Then why mention it on your profile? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If your in a relationship that is open to play then why not make a couples account and get it verified? Most that say that and don't usually tend to be just single guys.
The aim of the profile is NOT to play as a couple. I’m down to it but because of location (she’s currently in Bath studying and I’m in Birmingham) I primarily intend to play alone. Whilst couple meets are possible they’d be planned in advance and are not the objective of this account.
Then why mention it on your profile?"
When I didn’t have my open relationship on the profile, people said it needed to be stated. So I have.
Why mention that we’re open to playing? It’s a compromise between a) having it on my profile or b) having a couples account. We’re not together often enough (nor have enough desire) to have a couples account and play with others. But it is an option to maybe explore if things go really well. I don’t think I’m being unreasonable? |
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The first photo of you having bareback sex with a girl will put a lot of people off.
Action shots, especially bareback are not attractive.
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thank you! I figured it would be okay as it's with my long-term girlfriend, but I will remove it now.
Shucks. Gone already. Missed it!"
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"If your in a relationship that is open to play then why not make a couples account and get it verified? Most that say that and don't usually tend to be just single guys."
Agree with this totally  |
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