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Chunky male have I got a hope in hell?
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Hi everyone,
I just wanted people's viewpoint on a chunky male like myself now I know you bi lads seem to like me but unfortunately I only like women.
So ladies what can I do to attract you does my profile need changing or am I doomed to go live in a gym till I look like Thor lol.
Any advice gratefully appreciated.
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I can't see any problems with your profile except it says you're late thirties and your age is 41  .
I think everyone will find meeting difficult with Omicron rearing its ugly head.
Are there any organised socials or clubs near you? You might find it easier to get to know people that way |
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Definitely more relaxed pics needed and your bio is pretty much the same as most other guys on here so much so I ended up skimming it as there was nothing that stood out.
More effort than some put in but relax in those pics! |
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over a year ago
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I have often thought of asking this exact question. You see alot of buff guys about, im sure there are ppl out there for us all to have some fun with we just gotta find em buddy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone,
I just wanted people's viewpoint on a chunky male like myself now I know you bi lads seem to like me but unfortunately I only like women.
So ladies what can I do to attract you does my profile need changing or am I doomed to go live in a gym till I look like Thor lol.
Any advice gratefully appreciated.
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Maybe have a bit more confidence in yourself. Everyone is attractive to someone. We’ve seen people who we don’t find attractive have a lot of success and we’ve seen people who look like a model not get anywhere. |
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"Hi everyone,
I just wanted people's viewpoint on a chunky male like myself now I know you bi lads seem to like me but unfortunately I only like women.
So ladies what can I do to attract you does my profile need changing or am I doomed to go live in a gym till I look like Thor lol.
Any advice gratefully appreciated.
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You're doomed! |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
West Mids |
"Hi everyone,
I just wanted people's viewpoint on a chunky male like myself now I know you bi lads seem to like me but unfortunately I only like women.
So ladies what can I do to attract you does my profile need changing or am I doomed to go live in a gym till I look like Thor lol.
Any advice gratefully appreciated.
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Competition os very very stiff.
There are so many single guys on here, people have lots of choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swinging sites are fairly shallow places. Try a club where your personality can show."
Definately the way to go. Or attend one of th eorganised socials. |
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"Hi everyone,
I just wanted people's viewpoint on a chunky male like myself now I know you bi lads seem to like me but unfortunately I only like women.
So ladies what can I do to attract you does my profile need changing or am I doomed to go live in a gym till I look like Thor lol.
Any advice gratefully appreciated.
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I've been here successfully a single male and as part of a couple and in all honesty I've never felt my build had held me back or been a disadvantage. Not everyone's cup of tea but my larger build in general doesn't seem to be a problem. Going to the gym is great, do it. I've always gone fairly regularly myself (but I also like beer and pies). But be aware the gym is more for the benefit of your physical and mental health not your success on here (although being in a good place really helps too). My tip for success on here is to look inwards rather than focusing exterior factors.
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"Hi everyone,
I just wanted people's viewpoint on a chunky male like myself now I know you bi lads seem to like me but unfortunately I only like women.
So ladies what can I do to attract you does my profile need changing or am I doomed to go live in a gym till I look like Thor lol.
Any advice gratefully appreciated.
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Love how you say Any advice gratefully appreciated.
Then totally ignore the thread |
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Thankyou for everyones input I certainly think I will look into socials as an option and swinger clubs.
I will revamp my profile and try for some more natural photos
Am currently suffering with the covid so just been looking at the responses I didn't think I would get so many to the post of am honest Thankyou x |
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"Thankyou for everyones input I certainly think I will look into socials as an option and swinger clubs.
I will revamp my profile and try for some more natural photos
Am currently suffering with the covid so just been looking at the responses I didn't think I would get so many to the post of am honest Thankyou x"
Please don't use covid as an excuse to ignore a post for 4 weeks when a week after you made this post you were making others (green arrow)
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
West Mids |
"Thankyou for everyones input I certainly think I will look into socials as an option and swinger clubs.
I will revamp my profile and try for some more natural photos
Am currently suffering with the covid so just been looking at the responses I didn't think I would get so many to the post of am honest Thankyou x
Please don't use covid as an excuse to ignore a post for 4 weeks when a week after you made this post you were making others (green arrow)
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Perfectly said. |
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"Am sorry I didn't realise I had to constantly respond should I delete this now or just try to keep on top of replying Phil x"
4 weeks to reply is a long time and then you have the odasitiy to blame covid I've had it and still manage to keep up with forum when I had my good days at least admit you forgot about this thread don't need bull honesty is always thd best policy hate look at me threads that ops can't even be bothered to look at themselves |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
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"Am sorry I didn't realise I had to constantly respond should I delete this now or just try to keep on top of replying Phil x
4 weeks to reply is a long time and then you have the odasitiy to blame covid I've had it and still manage to keep up with forum when I had my good days at least admit you forgot about this thread don't need bull honesty is always thd best policy hate look at me threads that ops can't even be bothered to look at themselves "
True.
Over to you OP. |
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I haven't used the forums before and yes I did forget about this post as the other two had stopped getting replies and fell off the cliff
So am sorry if I have upset anyone by not replying to them personally.
Phil x |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"Am sorry I didn't realise I had to constantly respond should I delete this now or just try to keep on top of replying Phil x
4 weeks to reply is a long time and then you have the odasitiy to blame covid I've had it and still manage to keep up with forum when I had my good days at least admit you forgot about this thread don't need bull honesty is always thd best policy hate look at me threads that ops can't even be bothered to look at themselves "
That was uncalled for. No one is obligated to caretake a thread, even if they ask for advice.
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Am sorry I didn't realise I had to constantly respond should I delete this now or just try to keep on top of replying Phil x"
You don't. They may not give advice on other threads of yours but you can use the forums however you wish to.
If you are unwell you're not obligated to reply on a swingers site forum.
I'm still recovering from Covif from catching it at Christmas and the last thing I was worried about was this forum.
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"Am sorry I didn't realise I had to constantly respond should I delete this now or just try to keep on top of replying Phil x
4 weeks to reply is a long time and then you have the odasitiy to blame covid I've had it and still manage to keep up with forum when I had my good days at least admit you forgot about this thread don't need bull honesty is always thd best policy hate look at me threads that ops can't even be bothered to look at themselves
That was uncalled for. No one is obligated to caretake a thread, even if they ask for advice.
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Why is it uncalled for if he didn't want the advice he shouldn't have made the thread and its common courtesy to reply to people when they have taken the time to try help on the forum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dude, dad bods are in!
You can be making hay, just tweak how you market yourself.
Go to clubs, especially party nights, start networking and let your personality shine.
If you’re genuine and just here for a good time it’s all good. |
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Hi I'm seem to have the same problem mate 
I'm straight
And try not to sound perverse or rude
Yet all I seem to get is MSG's from bi guys TV TS ect ect
And no disrespect to any member of this site but the few ladies I have been lucky enough to receive MSG's from seem to either get aggy I need someone to hit me up and put my faith back in to the site any help or guidance would be much appreciated thanks guys I'm sure thee are some fanfuckintastic ppl out there |
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The two things I'd change is your age says 41 but bio says late 30s
& also the bit about you've been here ages so you know how it works, what does that actually mean, does anyone honestly understand how FAB works, it's like the Sydney University statements
Other than that I think it's fine but I agree with what others have said, go to group socials and clubs, let people see the real you, I've noticed the most successful guys aren't the Adonis's it's the guys that put themselves out there to meet people |
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