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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"Could do with some advice on my profile
Tbh you're too fully clothed and too many selfies for a swinging site. if you want to see owt people can just ask 
But they won’t ask thanks lol"
Just being honest. Waiting for others to ask questions just won’t happen. You have to entice them to want to talk to you |
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"Could do with some advice on my profile
Tbh you're too fully clothed and too many selfies for a swinging site. if you want to see owt people can just ask
But they won’t ask thanks lol
Just being honest. Waiting for others to ask questions just won’t happen. You have to entice them to want to talk to you"
help me out then lol need all the help I can get |
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"But they won’t ask"
This --^
Single women and couples get more than enough offers in their inbox that they don't need to ask for more details on profiles they've randomly stumbled across. If there's more to say then say it upfront.
Your profile is really just a photo collection showing you in your best light (and honestly...do all those similar selfies really show you in your best light? They look more like you couldn't be that bothered about what photos you used.) for people to check things like location, verifications, etc.
You need realistic expectations - we've explained the numbers in lots of forums threads, but it boils down to us needing just 1% of the guys that message us, and I don't think we're unusual. You have to really read and understand people's profiles, make sure you're a match, and craft a one-off message just for them, showing that you've read about them, that you understand what they want, and what you can offer.
Then unfortunately it's just luck that your message hits them when they happen to be looking for a guy.
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"Could do with some advice on my profile "
Wish i could mate but im afraid i cant. Which is a shame as my profile isnt groundbreaking and photos not great yet i do ok and navigte the site. Helped tad by being bi (thats proper bi not im saying bi in order to get any chance of a response), able to read and understand whats going on with stuff generally, misusing the forums by not really taking part just posting angry rants as i continue to be baffled by single guys being baffled and it shouldn't bother me that either this ask for help means they are either completely inept or that its now there only way to get response....wonder how many PMs have been sent in this thread |
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