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Standing out from the crowd....
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I'm fairly new to having a single profile and the fact that I'm outnumbered by about 5 million to one makes it even more difficult getting it off the ground! ... I'm verified both ways which I guess is a good start.
Does anyone have any feedback to either the bio or photo suggestions to make it better? Xx |
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My only advice would be to lose the 2 pics that include a female, unless she'll be joining you she's not necessary in your photos & a lot of women/couples find it off putting, especially as in these type of images the woman is always the prominent character
Other than that your profile looks good to me & it's obviously working for you |
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Its not all about just your profile, I think that general viability is a good tool. You can sell yourself far outside of the reaches of your profile. So getting your self out on the forums and letting the world see a bit of your and your personality is always good.
But also if you can, go an be visible in the real world and wider scene. Go to socials, go to clubs. The physical side of our scene is a small world. Let people get to know you in the real world and simply network. It's the best way. You can't really show off your true self behind a computer screen. Many the time that people have hooked up with someone in the real world who they wouldn't of from that persons profile. And to some extent we all talk which can open oppertunities.
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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The pictures are good / done well but not to my taste or women I know - Cock, action, gym focus etc but I’m sure many others will like them
I think the profile could be better , the stuff after “other than that”…. Should be the intro and then expand it, losing the stuff above it , develop your story, you should assume people take you seriously and you’re better than all that so dint need to say it . Good luck  |
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I’m going to go against the grain here and say I think your bio is slightly lacking.
I like the fact you are addressing some of the biggest bug bears of fab, not a time waster etc etc… but I’m not seeing that as selling yourself because everyone says they are not a time waster… even the time wasters 
I mean your pictures are great, just to me, I would say add a little bit more bio… I mean we have war and peace on ours, and many probably get bored, but we think it’s an entertaining one and many people message us off the back of that alone… so maybe just add something else about you x
Good luck!
Mrs x |
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"I'm fairly new to having a single profile and the fact that I'm outnumbered by about 5 million to one makes it even more difficult getting it off the ground! ... I'm verified both ways which I guess is a good start.
Does anyone have any feedback to either the bio or photo suggestions to make it better? Xx "
I think your profile looks great. Just need time and patience now or visit a Club or local social  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel your pain. Got a singles profile and not only are the numbers against men I am on a small island down south. I do go to clubs but they are obviously mainland. Whats a guy to do  |
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"Its not all about just your profile, I think that general viability is a good tool. You can sell yourself far outside of the reaches of your profile. So getting your self out on the forums and letting the world see a bit of your and your personality is always good.
But also if you can, go an be visible in the real world and wider scene. Go to socials, go to clubs. The physical side of our scene is a small world. Let people get to know you in the real world and simply network. It's the best way. You can't really show off your true self behind a computer screen. Many the time that people have hooked up with someone in the real world who they wouldn't of from that persons profile. And to some extent we all talk which can open oppertunities.
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That is excellent advise |
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"I'm fairly new to having a single profile and the fact that I'm outnumbered by about 5 million to one makes it even more difficult getting it off the ground! ... I'm verified both ways which I guess is a good start.
Does anyone have any feedback to either the bio or photo suggestions to make it better? Xx "
You’re in good shape lad. I’m sure loads of women will reply or wink you. Good luck |
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"I'm fairly new to having a single profile and the fact that I'm outnumbered by about 5 million to one makes it even more difficult getting it off the ground! ... I'm verified both ways which I guess is a good start.
Does anyone have any feedback to either the bio or photo suggestions to make it better? Xx "
Great profile, nice blurb, good pics x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"be visible in the real world and wider scene. Go to socials, go to clubs."
I would love to do this but how do single guys get on at clubs? I'm polite and social but for some reason I feel I'd be a loner in the corner or is that not the case? |
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