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A serious question for the man in a couple!
Lets say your in a club sharing fun with another couple. How do you feel after you've cum? Do you feel totally uninterested or still turned on enough to watch?
PLEASE.. NO COMMENTS ABOUT "I can repeat" and "I last for ever"
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"For me just because I have cum doesnt mean I don't want to stop playing or even watching. I'm a repeater so enjoy building up to round 2 or 3"
You couldn't resist! 
It does make me smile when I read these forums!
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In sexuality, the refractory period is the recovery phase after (normally male) orgasm during which it is physiologically impossible for an individual to have additional orgasms. Most men cannot maintain or achieve an erection during this time, and many perceive a psychological feeling of "satiation" and are temporarily uninterested in further sexual activity. The penis may be hypersensitive and further sexual stimulation may even feel painful.
Seems I'm the only one that follows the norm? Are you guys evolving faster than the average man? |
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"In sexuality, the refractory period is the recovery phase after (normally male) orgasm during which it is physiologically impossible for an individual to have additional orgasms. Most men cannot maintain or achieve an erection during this time, and many perceive a psychological feeling of "satiation" and are temporarily uninterested in further sexual activity. The penis may be hypersensitive and further sexual stimulation may even feel painful.
Seems I'm the only one that follows the norm? Are you guys evolving faster than the average man? "
I must be deformed then as I can keep an erection after orgasming if others are involved, not if I'm just having a wank though! |
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"For me just because I have cum doesnt mean I don't want to stop playing or even watching. I'm a repeater so enjoy building up to round 2 or 3
You couldn't resist!
It does make me smile when I read these forums!
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Although I have been know just to wipe my cock on the curtain and leave. |
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"For me just because I have cum doesnt mean I don't want to stop playing or even watching. I'm a repeater so enjoy building up to round 2 or 3
You couldn't resist!
It does make me smile when I read these forums!
Definitely the best answer ever!
Although I have been know just to wipe my cock on the curtain and leave. "
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I feel like doing a gym work out after I cum.
My heads buzzing and I feel ever so happy .
I need a break but can become very interested again especially if my wife is bent over in front of me, she has a arse to die for lol
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I feel confused? Medical research says its normal to feel uninterested after ejaculating but all you guys are saying otherwise? I must say that I don't feel horny after I have cum! And it does take a while to get back the feeling. Apparently the older you get the longer the refractory period is, but I imagine the average swinger man wasn't included when they done all this research!  |
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My body takes a while to recover but my brain doesn't so I enjoy watching others after I've cum... I find it speeds up the recovery period.
That's assuming I didn't just fart, roll over and fall asleep. |
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"I feel confused? Medical research says its normal to feel uninterested after ejaculating but all you guys are saying otherwise? I must say that I don't feel horny after I have cum! And it does take a while to get back the feeling. Apparently the older you get the longer the refractory period is, but I imagine the average swinger man wasn't included when they done all this research! "
Please remember that you are writing this on a forum where people post anonymously. In our experience if we are in a threesome (with a guy) or a foursome with another couple - if the guy cums then 99 times out of 100 - that is the end of the story. Extreme reactions even include the guy becoming "down." |
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Ive experienced a loss of interest immediately upon ejaculating a few times, regret/sadness even.
After about 5 minutes I turn back into a dirty sod tho  |
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I have problems with ejaculating aanyways. so i wouldnt really know to be honest. I prefer to give the women as much pleasure as possible than myself.
If i did i would probs stay and watch then join back in. |
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first and foremost as i have been in that situation ....u want to come but other males there can put a major stop to premature ejaculation.u wanna bw the stud who lasts forever but end up frustrated lol
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"I feel confused? Medical research says its normal to feel uninterested after ejaculating but all you guys are saying otherwise? I must say that I don't feel horny after I have cum! And it does take a while to get back the feeling. Apparently the older you get the longer the refractory period is, but I imagine the average swinger man wasn't included when they done all this research! "
Hi fanny here reporting on how balls does it 
Once he's come then that's it, game over lol but he's polite enough to watch rather than run and put the kettle on as much as he would love to! I think this research is probably based on vanilla sex rather than swinging though, I'm sure during the "experiments" there wasn't other horny couples fucking about the place around the "participants"!? |
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"I feel confused? Medical research says its normal to feel uninterested after ejaculating but all you guys are saying otherwise? I must say that I don't feel horny after I have cum! And it does take a while to get back the feeling. Apparently the older you get the longer the refractory period is, but I imagine the average swinger man wasn't included when they done all this research! "
Medical experts probably don't take into account highly charged situations like swinging. I hate cumming in these circumstances as It's just a physical reaction rather than a loving/spiritual one and so I try not to, or continue through refractory as best as possible to hit round two. |
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Dont forget many blokes at clubs or parties take blue pills or are in a fantasy world and have never been in that situation anyway!Male of us just has a bit of a rest then gets back to it after 20mins no blue pills required yet  |
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I would certainly say intensity has alot to do with recovery. Not all orgasms are the same, some can wipe me out, some leave me feeling energised. Sometimes I could go quite off sex, other times I would happily still kiss and cuddle and if I was not of a mind to fuck, I could still be loving.
I'll admit though when we went to clubs to swing I didn't cum and I would wait until we got home to finish probably subconsiously as I did not want to ruin the moment.
However, I can definately see a case of needing to move away from the sex, maybe go to the bar or do something else for 20 minutes, then a reintroduction to the sensuality and it could be ready for round 2.
I'm certainly not a repeater, but I think the study quoted does not account for swinging. I seam to recall an article (it was some time ago so forgive me for not being accurate) but the article basically said if a man has just finished with one woman, it will be harder for him to get it up again for the same woman, however introduce a new woman and he can become erect for the new woman much more easily.
This has some support genetically as it allows the male a much better chance of spreading his genetic material than if he stuck to just one woman.
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"I feel confused? Medical research says its normal to feel uninterested after ejaculating but all you guys are saying otherwise? I must say that I don't feel horny after I have cum! And it does take a while to get back the feeling. Apparently the older you get the longer the refractory period is, but I imagine the average swinger man wasn't included when they done all this research! "
with all due respect (female writing) i don't imagine normal reserch was done on a guy doing a threesome or foursome so feel that research and your question on a swinging forum may npot go together just a thought x |
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"I feel confused? Medical research says its normal to feel uninterested after ejaculating but all you guys are saying otherwise? I must say that I don't feel horny after I have cum! And it does take a while to get back the feeling. Apparently the older you get the longer the refractory period is, but I imagine the average swinger man wasn't included when they done all this research! with all due respect (female writing) i don't imagine normal reserch was done on a guy doing a threesome or foursome so feel that research and your question on a swinging forum may npot go together just a thought x"
I would think its exactly the right sort of question on a forum, on a swingers web page that says help and advice! |
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