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So... club night is approaching and your period arrives... what do you do?
Not go?
Go but not play?
Go and play?
I see it on updates ladies saying they can't go because of it... interested in thoughts please? |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Good on ya. don't let the red peril ruin your night out.
My thoughts totally, wanted to feel others opinions.... refreshing that people don't wanna hide away just cos of a bit of nature lol. "
Hideaway? Where, the bingo hall? |
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"Good on ya. don't let the red peril ruin your night out.
My thoughts totally, wanted to feel others opinions.... refreshing that people don't wanna hide away just cos of a bit of nature lol.
Hideaway? Where, the bingo hall?"
Lol.. not likely |
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"I don't have this problem. I had a football sized tumour along with a total hysterectomy removed 9 years ago.
So now every night or day is playtime  xxxxx Suzi"
Wow, football-sized tumour! Glad you're well and able to play . I have coil, my first one- no periods, just light spotting. This one is still settling in so it's ups and downs. |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
"I don't have this problem. I had a football sized tumour along with a total hysterectomy removed 9 years ago.
So now every night or day is playtime xxxxx Suzi
Wow, football-sized tumour! Glad you're well and able to play. I have coil, my first one- no periods, just light spotting. This one is still settling in so it's ups and downs. "
Yeah, my surgeon was amazed too seeing as how tiny I am. I never had the coil, and wasn't on the pill either, there was no need then, I only ever fucked hubbs. After surgery was when we started swinging. Surgery changed my life in so many ways |
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Male member of the partnership here.
Ladies, if you're not comfortable playing downstairs while mother nature is in the house there's still lots you can do.
If possible, don't let it stop you from having a good time even if it's not your best time.
For the record, I'm happy to play regardless of periods. It's only blood and it wouldn't put me off at all. |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
There's the reason not to play though ... blood. It carries every element the human body needs to live and die. From life giving oxygen to life taking viruses, hep C, HIV, syphilis, (now that's a very nasty one).
I would never have played on a period, but like everything in life we are all different, we are all individual and adult enough to do what feels right for us. Xxxx Suzi |
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"I've been advised to use the dark room. Tried menstrual cup before, not recommended. Maybe I was doing it wrong, but it's difficult to get it in place.
Still to try the sponge tampons like Beppy. "
I'm a fan of beppy every now and again... not a fan of the cup to be honest |
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"I don't have this problem. I had a football sized tumour along with a total hysterectomy removed 9 years ago.
So now every night or day is playtime xxxxx Suzi
Wow, football-sized tumour! Glad you're well and able to play. I have coil, my first one- no periods, just light spotting. This one is still settling in so it's ups and downs.
Yeah, my surgeon was amazed too seeing as how tiny I am. I never had the coil, and wasn't on the pill either, there was no need then, I only ever fucked hubbs. After surgery was when we started swinging. Surgery changed my life in so many ways "
So sorry about your tumour but amazing that you're better and nothing to stop play...
I have the coil so very light spotting but sods law that now is a change lol |
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"Male member of the partnership here.
Ladies, if you're not comfortable playing downstairs while mother nature is in the house there's still lots you can do.
If possible, don't let it stop you from having a good time even if it's not your best time.
For the record, I'm happy to play regardless of periods. It's only blood and it wouldn't put me off at all. "
I'm totally happy with playing with period, totally more of a club etiquette situation for me |
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"There's the reason not to play though ... blood. It carries every element the human body needs to live and die. From life giving oxygen to life taking viruses, hep C, HIV, syphilis, (now that's a very nasty one).
I would never have played on a period, but like everything in life we are all different, we are all individual and adult enough to do what feels right for us. Xxxx Suzi"
Thank you for a different look at it and you're totally right, I'm a 100% safe player... apart from hound |
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"So... club night is approaching and your period arrives... what do you do?
Not go?
Go but not play?
Go and play?
I see it on updates ladies saying they can't go because of it... interested in thoughts please? "
Not go! |
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If there's a chance of mother nature turning up before a planned club night you can use Norethisterone to delay her visit x
Personally I'd still go out either way as I love the social side and getting to know people I'd like to meet again in future, but I totally understand why some women just don't feel sexy when they're on. |
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This is interesting. I was wondering what I would as this will no doubt happen to me (a lot, knowing my luck)
I would still like to go and socialise at least. I wasn't sure what the etiquette was though. Good to know some people might still play.
I'm going to have a look at beppy too. Thanks!
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"If there's a chance of mother nature turning up before a planned club night you can use Norethisterone to delay her visit x
Personally I'd still go out either way as I love the social side and getting to know people I'd like to meet again in future, but I totally understand why some women just don't feel sexy when they're on."
I agree, happy to attend and socialise, and there's always my mouth lol |
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"I go for the social aspect rather than to play anyway. If I was feeling bloated and rough I wouldn't go if I was feeling fine I might x"
To be honest, that's the main downsize... the bloating and tiredness xx |
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"This is interesting. I was wondering what I would as this will no doubt happen to me (a lot, knowing my luck)
I would still like to go and socialise at least. I wasn't sure what the etiquette was though. Good to know some people might still play.
I'm going to have a look at beppy too. Thanks!
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Really interesting to see people's opinions..
Beppy are great, not the easiest to use always, and not for heavy days for sure.
I think that as long as I felt OK I'd go for the social and looking, play if I felt like it using hands and mouth and if I'm there with hound we see how the mood takes.
Don't feel like playing with others would be for me at that time x |
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"I wouldn't go purely cus I'd be gagging and would be soooo frustrated....but if you're happy either not playing or just doing oral then go and enjoy it "
Gotta admit... thats the problem huh? All that fun and temptation and not feeling like you can fully submerse lol |
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"I wouldn't go purely cus I'd be gagging and would be soooo frustrated....but if you're happy either not playing or just doing oral then go and enjoy it
Gotta admit... thats the problem huh? All that fun and temptation and not feeling like you can fully submerse lol "
Exactly I'd have a right toddler tantrum lol x stamping my feet and everything bahahaha x |
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"I wouldn't go purely cus I'd be gagging and would be soooo frustrated....but if you're happy either not playing or just doing oral then go and enjoy it
Gotta admit... thats the problem huh? All that fun and temptation and not feeling like you can fully submerse lol
Exactly I'd have a right toddler tantrum lol x stamping my feet and everything bahahaha x "
Haha. I was thinking the same with the "using mouth" thoughts. I love giving oral, I'd get so turned on and not having sex would get me so frustrated. So would be all or nothing play wise (if the other person wanted to obviously) But definitely go for a social (bloating, tiredness and mood depending)  |
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over a year ago
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I'd still go!
I tell people that Im on my period so my knickers will be staying on... sometimes that makes playtime all the more imaginative! Ive had some awesome knickers-on experiences, including once at a club |
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Id still go, I get super horny on my period and theres a few really great options for menstrual discs these days so no need to sit it out. I personally love my lumma cup but you can also get the ziggy, nixit or flex (dosposable) discs pretty easy on jeff bezo's site and away you go, you cant feel it and it doesnt negatively affect the guys either. |
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"Rainbow sex!! I love it!!!
Johnoxo
Really? I always wondered if there was a ponchant for that! Always annoys me being “on”! And no sex play!!"
In all he years I was with my ex it never stopped us doing what we wanted to do. It's interesting how most of the posts seem to have come from women, which is understandable given the subject, but I'd be interested to know how many guys, like me, would be happy to play regardless of mother nature being there. |
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By *r SteelMan
over a year ago
North Wales |
"Rainbow sex!! I love it!!!
Johnoxo
Really? I always wondered if there was a ponchant for that! Always annoys me being “on”! And no sex play!!
In all he years I was with my ex it never stopped us doing what we wanted to do. It's interesting how most of the posts seem to have come from women, which is understandable given the subject, but I'd be interested to know how many guys, like me, would be happy to play regardless of mother nature being there."
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"Rainbow sex!! I love it!!!
Johnoxo
Really? I always wondered if there was a ponchant for that! Always annoys me being “on”! And no sex play!!
In all he years I was with my ex it never stopped us doing what we wanted to do. It's interesting how most of the posts seem to have come from women, which is understandable given the subject, but I'd be interested to know how many guys, like me, would be happy to play regardless of mother nature being there."
One of my exes (funnily, his name is Dave, too lol) never minded, I think he even loved it. |
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"I'd still go!
I tell people that Im on my period so my knickers will be staying on... sometimes that makes playtime all the more imaginative! Ive had some awesome knickers-on experiences, including once at a club "
Love this |
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"Id still go, I get super horny on my period and theres a few really great options for menstrual discs these days so no need to sit it out. I personally love my lumma cup but you can also get the ziggy, nixit or flex (dosposable) discs pretty easy on jeff bezo's site and away you go, you cant feel it and it doesnt negatively affect the guys either. "
Great reply.. thank you.
I've used beppy for a while but will check this out x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Norethisterone comes in very handy for this. If I have made plans I don't want mother nature ruining them."
That's great for those that are predictable and only for occasional use so not an ideal solution |
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"Norethisterone comes in very handy for this. If I have made plans I don't want mother nature ruining them.
That's great for those that are predictable and only for occasional use so not an ideal solution"
I'm not predictable but can tell when I'm due on by how my body feels, if I take it as soon as I start my period then it stops it. I only use it occasionally too so it's perfect for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So... club night is approaching and your period arrives... what do you do?
Not go?
Go but not play?
Go and play?
I see it on updates ladies saying they can't go because of it... interested in thoughts please? "
Well did you go? We needs to inow? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Norethisterone comes in very handy for this. If I have made plans I don't want mother nature ruining them.
That's great for those that are predictable and only for occasional use so not an ideal solution
I'm not predictable but can tell when I'm due on by how my body feels, if I take it as soon as I start my period then it stops it. I only use it occasionally too so it's perfect for me."
Brilliant for you then. I've found it delays but didn't stop it for me so like I said, only for some. |
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"Rainbow sex!! I love it!!!
Johnoxo
Really? I always wondered if there was a ponchant for that! Always annoys me being “on”! And no sex play!!
In all he years I was with my ex it never stopped us doing what we wanted to do. It's interesting how most of the posts seem to have come from women, which is understandable given the subject, but I'd be interested to know how many guys, like me, would be happy to play regardless of mother nature being there.
One of my exes (funnily, his name is Dave, too lol) never minded, I think he even loved it. "
Well hunny, if you're happy to play the next time you're on and we're at Jaydees you know where to come lol.
By the way, how does Pete feel about playing at that time? |
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"So... club night is approaching and your period arrives... what do you do?
Not go?
Go but not play?
Go and play?
I see it on updates ladies saying they can't go because of it... interested in thoughts please?
Well did you go? We needs to inow?"
Haha!
Yes absoloutly... I was always gonna go
But as it happened it was all over anyway so period free play resumed!
And I'm shattered today |
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"If I wasn’t feeling like a sack of spuds at the time then I’d still go! Like others said, the hands and mouth still work, and I can always just watch Mr play instead  Miss pc "
I think I would've gone either way as long as I didn't feel well.... as it happened it passed by yesterday morning so all good |
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Personally I wouldn’t go, mostly because I have the most horrendous cramps and period pains. I’ve spent three days dosed up on cocodamol and stuck on the sofa this week because of the pain. But also because I wouldn’t feel able to enjoy it as much, I don’t feel sexy for that whole week!
C x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine come and go whenever they like, never ever been regular and I get really bloated, the pain can be horrific and mine are heavy, quite often im sick from the pain so I hide away for atleast 3 days when it appears so always ruins play  I wouldn't go purely because mine make me feel so poorly and look so drained and run down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So... club night is approaching and your period arrives... what do you do?
Not go?
Go but not play?
Go and play?
I see it on updates ladies saying they can't go because of it... interested in thoughts please? "
I've still gone out but said oral only due to period... i use to be very heavy. Had the coil fitted and not so bad now. So i would see how i am on the day xx |
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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago
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We went to a club this weekend with Kitty on her period. With a tampon in, The Boy, and only The Boy, can go down on her. So all play would be with this in mind. However we try to arrange stuff to avoid! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So... club night is approaching and your period arrives... what do you do?
Not go?
Go but not play?
Go and play?
I see it on updates ladies saying they can't go because of it... interested in thoughts please? "
. You can buy online some tablets called period delay . You take them from 3 days before your period they work x |
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There's a place which sells a flat equivalent of the cup. You can put it in and people can still fuck you with it in. I can't remember what they're called though
.... I used them quite a bit and you don't even need to tell people. They feel really comfortable in as well and you can't even tell you're wearing them. But they are fairly expensive. I don't use anything else now! Just make sure you take a few extra to change them.
Flexfits.uk
Found them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some men are not put off by women on their period ( I haven't) but its down to personal preference.
It may be respectful to speak to the owners to get their perspective and obviously make sure the people you hitch up with have no objections |
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"So... club night is approaching and your period arrives... what do you do?
Not go?
Go but not play?
Go and play?
I see it on updates ladies saying they can't go because of it... interested in thoughts please? . You can buy online some tablets called period delay . You take them from 3 days before your period they work x"
what tablets are they called please I've only known only doctors to give them out on prescription |
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"So... club night is approaching and your period arrives... what do you do?
Not go?
Go but not play?
Go and play?
I see it on updates ladies saying they can't go because of it... interested in thoughts please? . You can buy online some tablets called period delay . You take them from 3 days before your period they work x what tablets are they called please I've only known only doctors to give them out on prescription "
Norethisterone. You can buy them online. |
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"So... club night is approaching and your period arrives... what do you do?
Not go?
Go but not play?
Go and play?
I see it on updates ladies saying they can't go because of it... interested in thoughts please? . You can buy online some tablets called period delay . You take them from 3 days before your period they work x what tablets are they called please I've only known only doctors to give them out on prescription
Norethisterone. You can buy them online."
thank you |
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"So... club night is approaching and your period arrives... what do you do?
Not go?
Go but not play?
Go and play?
I see it on updates ladies saying they can't go because of it... interested in thoughts please? "
Definitely go it's not all about playing as all the good clubs (secrets in your area) have a really good social side to the night you can still meet people and create connections for future opportunities?
Like others have said you probably have other talents, Got a strap-on? You could consider focusing on other elements of play you would not normally get around to trying?
A beppy is in every good girls play/party bag and we've found that amazon came up with a more reasonable price alternative that works just as well - in emergency ask as plenty of the other girls carry one.
Hope this helps  |
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"So... club night is approaching and your period arrives... what do you do?
Not go?
Go but not play?
Go and play?
I see it on updates ladies saying they can't go because of it... interested in thoughts please? . You can buy online some tablets called period delay . You take them from 3 days before your period they work x what tablets are they called please I've only known only doctors to give them out on prescription
Norethisterone. You can buy them online."
I use this often to delay mine. Literally just stopped a pack |
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"So... club night is approaching and your period arrives... what do you do?
Not go?
Go but not play?
Go and play?
I see it on updates ladies saying they can't go because of it... interested in thoughts please? "
I've this problem - 98% of every single time we organise anything fab related (we operate social rule, so play is never guaranteed no matter where we are or who with) I get my period!
We still go ahead with our plans, but any kind of chance of play is off the table.
Period sex with Dirk - not a problem. Be it foreplay, him going down on me or penetration. Neither of us has any problems with my blood.
I would be greatly putt off other women's periods and would not want to touch her genitals even with a tampon or a cup in, so would greatly appreciate if potential play partner would give a heads up.
Someone mentioned dark rooms - if I would happen to be in one of those and smelled someones period blood (I do have an extremely sensitive nose) - that would put me off going to another dark room for life.
Double standards? yes! Can I help my gag reflex? Nope
There's period tracking apps out there, which are very easy to use and great help for booking party/club dates for seasoned club goers. |
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"I don’t have to worry anymore as mine have stopped now, so I’m a anytime I want to women 
Molly
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Last time I touched strangers bum in a moment of passion I ended up with a poopy finger. Maybe bum good for more intimate occasions than a club  |
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"So... club night is approaching and your period arrives... what do you do?
Not go?
Go but not play?
Go and play?
I see it on updates ladies saying they can't go because of it... interested in thoughts please?
I've this problem - 98% of every single time we organise anything fab related (we operate social rule, so play is never guaranteed no matter where we are or who with) I get my period!
We still go ahead with our plans, but any kind of chance of play is off the table.
Period sex with Dirk - not a problem. Be it foreplay, him going down on me or penetration. Neither of us has any problems with my blood.
I would be greatly putt off other women's periods and would not want to touch her genitals even with a tampon or a cup in, so would greatly appreciate if potential play partner would give a heads up.
Someone mentioned dark rooms - if I would happen to be in one of those and smelled someones period blood (I do have an extremely sensitive nose) - that would put me off going to another dark room for life.
Double standards? yes! Can I help my gag reflex? Nope
There's period tracking apps out there, which are very easy to use and great help for booking party/club dates for seasoned club goers. "
Period tracking apps only work if you have regular periods though.
Not an answer for most of us women or we’d simply not book on those dates ha
Everyone should be aware, but no one I’ve ever played with has noticed a beppy sponge. (They always know about it). |
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"So... club night is approaching and your period arrives... what do you do?
Not go?
Go but not play?
Go and play?
I see it on updates ladies saying they can't go because of it... interested in thoughts please?
I've this problem - 98% of every single time we organise anything fab related (we operate social rule, so play is never guaranteed no matter where we are or who with) I get my period!
We still go ahead with our plans, but any kind of chance of play is off the table.
Period sex with Dirk - not a problem. Be it foreplay, him going down on me or penetration. Neither of us has any problems with my blood.
I would be greatly putt off other women's periods and would not want to touch her genitals even with a tampon or a cup in, so would greatly appreciate if potential play partner would give a heads up.
Someone mentioned dark rooms - if I would happen to be in one of those and smelled someones period blood (I do have an extremely sensitive nose) - that would put me off going to another dark room for life.
Double standards? yes! Can I help my gag reflex? Nope
There's period tracking apps out there, which are very easy to use and great help for booking party/club dates for seasoned club goers.
Period tracking apps only work if you have regular periods though.
Not an answer for most of us women or we’d simply not book on those dates ha
Everyone should be aware, but no one I’ve ever played with has noticed a beppy sponge. (They always know about it). "
Obviously it's not a solution for all and I'm guilty of not using the app regularly enough to be able to plan things ahead myself lol
Beppy sponge isn't an answer for all either - someone I used to work with used it - I could smell her period from a distance.
I'm sure it's not the sponges fault, but it was enough to mentally turn me right off even coming near one when it's in use.
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"So... club night is approaching and your period arrives... what do you do?
Not go?
Go but not play?
Go and play?
I see it on updates ladies saying they can't go because of it... interested in thoughts please?
I've this problem - 98% of every single time we organise anything fab related (we operate social rule, so play is never guaranteed no matter where we are or who with) I get my period!
We still go ahead with our plans, but any kind of chance of play is off the table.
Period sex with Dirk - not a problem. Be it foreplay, him going down on me or penetration. Neither of us has any problems with my blood.
I would be greatly putt off other women's periods and would not want to touch her genitals even with a tampon or a cup in, so would greatly appreciate if potential play partner would give a heads up.
Someone mentioned dark rooms - if I would happen to be in one of those and smelled someones period blood (I do have an extremely sensitive nose) - that would put me off going to another dark room for life.
Double standards? yes! Can I help my gag reflex? Nope
There's period tracking apps out there, which are very easy to use and great help for booking party/club dates for seasoned club goers.
Period tracking apps only work if you have regular periods though.
Not an answer for most of us women or we’d simply not book on those dates ha
Everyone should be aware, but no one I’ve ever played with has noticed a beppy sponge. (They always know about it).
Obviously it's not a solution for all and I'm guilty of not using the app regularly enough to be able to plan things ahead myself lol
Beppy sponge isn't an answer for all either - someone I used to work with used it - I could smell her period from a distance.
I'm sure it's not the sponges fault, but it was enough to mentally turn me right off even coming near one when it's in use.
Missus "
Defo no answer for all ever is there that would be too simple! Ha x |
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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago
Durham |
"There's the reason not to play though ... blood. It carries every element the human body needs to live and die. From life giving oxygen to life taking viruses, hep C, HIV, syphilis, (now that's a very nasty one).
I would never have played on a period, but like everything in life we are all different, we are all individual and adult enough to do what feels right for us. Xxxx Suzi"
All of those things are present in my vaginal fluid. Or, at least, they would be if I had them. There is absolutely no scientific reason apart from personal preference not to have period sex. |
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