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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hi everyone, im just after some advice on my profile, i want to keep it quite private as i have seen several people on here that i know away from fab, and I'd like to keep this side of my life away from family life if you know what i mean.

At the same time, i want my profile to be appealing to potential meets. I have face pictures i can and do send privately, i have included plenty of info in my profile, im not creepy when messaging, and if asked can answer any questions, ive been on and off here for years and always end up leaving for the same reason, it goes stale due to no replies. I go to a few clubs, and have had some veris from them. Is there any more i can do as asingle guy to atract people or is it just to oversaturated? Thanks in advance.

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By *uenevereWoman  over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Ok ...

Firstly, paragraphs. Big chunks of text are less easy to read.

Prospective meets are unlikely to care that you are on and off Fab like a yoyo or that you put on weight over lockdown.

Make it friendly and positive focusing on what you're looking for and what you can offer.

I would also recommend more public photos.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Ok ...

Firstly, paragraphs. Big chunks of text are less easy to read.

Prospective meets are unlikely to care that you are on and off Fab like a yoyo or that you put on weight over lockdown.

Make it friendly and positive focusing on what you're looking for and what you can offer.

I would also recommend more public photos. "

Thank you for your comment. I will revise my profile and see how it goes.

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Hi everyone, im just after some advice on my profile, i want to keep it quite private as i have seen several people on here that i know away from fab, and I'd like to keep this side of my life away from family life if you know what i mean.

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Are you not worried they will recognise your tattoos and pierced nipple ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

No because i dont know them that well that they will have seen my body that way.

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds

I think your profile comes across as you are desperately seeking anything !

Women or couples, 18-99, social or play on first meet, club or private meet, long intense sessions or quickies.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Add a few more photos. Buy some new underwear. Otherwise reads well.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple  over a year ago

liverpool

Lose the first paragraph, no one needs to know you've been on and off here.

Need a few more pics and the write up doesn't feel very personal to you.

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds

"I've been stung on here before by some strange people" is intriguing

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Ive messaged you, hope you dont mind.

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds

I never believe it when people say "I'll try anything twice" because obviously there are some things you would never try, or some things you try once but hate so couldn't bear trying again

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Can’t beat a single picture of a man in grey baggy pants.

Regular drinker?

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By *moothGrooveWoman  over a year ago

Durham

I can't pin point exactly what it is, but overall it doesn't make for very comfortable reading in my opinion.

Things like 'been stung before', 'whatever you're looking for I can help', 'strange people'. It makes it sound like you're not very comfortable being on fab, but you'll do anything to get your leg over

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By *lowercandyWoman  over a year ago

Lancashire

It's ok to keep some photos in the friends folder but you need to have a few more public ones and also remember that some people ask in their profile for a pic when you message not weeks into communication.

Public photos need to be something that looks a bit better then grungy pants (I'm sure they are not but it's all about creating the shop window)

Remove the part about being stung

, everyone has stories about experiences on the site/club etc..

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By *ollick and CallunaCouple  over a year ago

Huntingdon

A few more body pics would be good.

Carefully proofread your bio too; attention to detail is a transferrable skill

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