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I'm not totally convinced you have thought about how you come across to somebody looking at it from the other person's perspective. Do you think you are presenting yourself in the best possible light and that you come across as a somebody people would like to meet? |
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By *arko B OP Man
over a year ago
Dartford |
"I'm not totally convinced you have thought about how you come across to somebody looking at it from the other person's perspective. Do you think you are presenting yourself in the best possible light and that you come across as a somebody people would like to meet? "
I’ve changed my profile so many times, but true this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…
Aww but we haven’t seen your dick yet…..oh wait….
Okay miss filter  "
Hahaha I can’t imagine why no one is meeting you  |
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By *arko B OP Man
over a year ago
Dartford |
"It can be very difficult for single men, especially the younger ones.
What have you tried so far? Would you be able to get to a club for instance.
Good luck  "
I agree & I’ve been to only one social event on here, just had a couple chats with couples exchanged numbers that’s all, nothing really happened after though |
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"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…
Is that your head going down on someone's cock?
Wow Specsavers asap please"
Thought the exact same thing, that it's a really unclear profile pic. Tbh you're not coming over as very welcoming by your answers in this thread  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…
Is that your head going down on someone's cock? "
I think he’s lying in a guys lap playing a computer game? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…
Is that your head going down on someone's cock?
I think he’s lying in a guys lap playing a computer game? "
It's so small as the forum profile avatar I thought he had went ball deep sucking someone off?
KJ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…
Is that your head going down on someone's cock?
I think he’s lying in a guys lap playing a computer game?
It's so small as the forum profile avatar I thought he had went ball deep sucking someone off?
KJ"
That was my first thought too, it really does look like he’s sucking someone off but on second glance, I can see a game controller in his hand.
Lads that age are never without one in their hands are they |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…
Is that your head going down on someone's cock?
I think he’s lying in a guys lap playing a computer game?
It's so small as the forum profile avatar I thought he had went ball deep sucking someone off?
KJ
That was my first thought too, it really does look like he’s sucking someone off but on second glance, I can see a game controller in his hand.
Lads that age are never without one in their hands are they "
Is that what it is? 
Suppose my point was it's not enticing. But I'm probably not his target market. |
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"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…
Is that your head going down on someone's cock?
I think he’s lying in a guys lap playing a computer game? "
The other guy appears to have fingernails…..  |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
"I got no further that the awful picture that takes a mo to figure out and the fact you seem to be a just a cock size and skin colour  "
You should appraise everyone's profile
C |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
Northampton |
"I got no further that the awful picture that takes a mo to figure out and the fact you seem to be a just a cock size and skin colour
You should appraise everyone's profile
C"
I do... It's why I rarely meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…"
You could maybe add a couple more public pics, and perhaps add some more information to your bio. Interact with posts on the forum a bit more as well? Search on Fab for what you’re looking for, send winks, send messages that aren’t cheesy to anyone you are interested in….you do have to put a little bit of effort in to make yourself stand out a bit. Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…
Is that your head going down on someone's cock?
Wow Specsavers asap please
Thought the exact same thing, that it's a really unclear profile pic. Tbh you're not coming over as very welcoming by your answers in this thread "
Tbf people are being really rude to him unprovoked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Put a bit more info on your bio
More about you, what you like, don't like
What you're looking for
Maybe 1 dick pic, some torso pictures, you don't have to show your face, lots of men don't.
Have a look at some of the men in the forum who have been meet verified and see what their profile has that yours maybe lacking
Not going to lie but your age will go against you as majority of people on here are a little older and don't like the thought of playing with someone so young/the same age as their kids |
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By *arko B OP Man
over a year ago
Dartford |
"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…
Is that your head going down on someone's cock?
I think he’s lying in a guys lap playing a computer game?
The other guy appears to have fingernails….. "
Lol the picture is public & available to view on my profile, everyone can think what you wanna think doesn’t bother me |
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By *arko B OP Man
over a year ago
Dartford |
"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…
You could maybe add a couple more public pics, and perhaps add some more information to your bio. Interact with posts on the forum a bit more as well? Search on Fab for what you’re looking for, send winks, send messages that aren’t cheesy to anyone you are interested in….you do have to put a little bit of effort in to make yourself stand out a bit. Good luck! "
Great advice thank you ! |
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By *arko B OP Man
over a year ago
Dartford |
"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…
Is that your head going down on someone's cock?
I think he’s lying in a guys lap playing a computer game?
It's so small as the forum profile avatar I thought he had went ball deep sucking someone off?
KJ
That was my first thought too, it really does look like he’s sucking someone off but on second glance, I can see a game controller in his hand.
Lads that age are never without one in their hands are they "
Miss filter at it again. |
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By *arko B OP Man
over a year ago
Dartford |
"Put a bit more info on your bio
More about you, what you like, don't like
What you're looking for
Maybe 1 dick pic, some torso pictures, you don't have to show your face, lots of men don't.
Have a look at some of the men in the forum who have been meet verified and see what their profile has that yours maybe lacking
Not going to lie but your age will go against you as majority of people on here are a little older and don't like the thought of playing with someone so young/the same age as their kids "
Omg this is the most helpful advice in my opinion, thank you. Helps me understand so much & explains a lot. |
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I seen many young people on here with lots of verifications. Some play with alot older couples, some play with their age group. Nothing is an obstacle unless you make it. But meeting time wasters and scammers is another matter lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…
Is that your head going down on someone's cock?
I think he’s lying in a guys lap playing a computer game?
It's so small as the forum profile avatar I thought he had went ball deep sucking someone off?
KJ
That was my first thought too, it really does look like he’s sucking someone off but on second glance, I can see a game controller in his hand.
Lads that age are never without one in their hands are they
Miss filter at it again. "
I’ll give you the first comeback, as it appeared light hearted but now you’re just being a nob I’m afraid. That was a general comment in conversation with someone else.
I completely see why you can’t get a meet.
Good luck honey |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…
Is that your head going down on someone's cock?
I think he’s lying in a guys lap playing a computer game?
It's so small as the forum profile avatar I thought he had went ball deep sucking someone off?
KJ
That was my first thought too, it really does look like he’s sucking someone off but on second glance, I can see a game controller in his hand.
Lads that age are never without one in their hands are they
Miss filter at it again. "
Oh and FYI young man, that particular photo (the only one available for you to see) doesn’t actually have a filter on it but thankyou so much for the compliment! My face doesn’t need a filter and gets me lots of meets luckily. ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…
Is that your head going down on someone's cock?
I think he’s lying in a guys lap playing a computer game?
The other guy appears to have fingernails…..
Lol the picture is public & available to view on my profile, everyone can think what you wanna think doesn’t bother me"
It's like that Internet conundrum of green dress gold dress. Gets people looking.
Know your audience. It all depends on who/ what you're looking for. Like attracts like.
Be *you*. If you don't get meets that just means there's no-one compatible. Don't take it as a negative against you personally. |
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"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…
Is that your head going down on someone's cock?
I think he’s lying in a guys lap playing a computer game?
The other guy appears to have fingernails…..
Lol the picture is public & available to view on my profile, everyone can think what you wanna think doesn’t bother me"
I was being supportive of you mate, pointing out what was obvious in your pic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Put a bit more info on your bio
More about you, what you like, don't like
What you're looking for
Maybe 1 dick pic, some torso pictures, you don't have to show your face, lots of men don't.
Have a look at some of the men in the forum who have been meet verified and see what their profile has that yours maybe lacking
Not going to lie but your age will go against you as majority of people on here are a little older and don't like the thought of playing with someone so young/the same age as their kids
Omg this is the most helpful advice in my opinion, thank you. Helps me understand so much & explains a lot."
No problem.
Just ignore the leople who are obviously making digs at you  |
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"Genuine question. Based on your profile, pics, and forum posts only..... What will people see that would make them want to meet or talk to you?"
I would be interested to know too. But saying that everyone's standards vary. Mine is super high and for specific reason where some ladies are more relaxed about who they chat to. It's overcoming the initial phase of capturing someone to want to spend their precious time with you from very limited information.
I mean would you ask a person wearing a head mask and all black clothes out on a date because you're both on the same train? So why would anyone want to agree to an empty profile on fab? |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
The effort you put in to Fab reflects the rewards you get from it. Go to socials, improve your pics, write a better profile and then maybe you’ll get more responses.
No one is entitled to anything on here, we all have to make an effort to chat and meet people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Genuine question. Based on your profile, pics, and forum posts only..... What will people see that would make them want to meet or talk to you?
I would be interested to know too. But saying that everyone's standards vary. Mine is super high and for specific reason where some ladies are more relaxed about who they chat to. It's overcoming the initial phase of capturing someone to want to spend their precious time with you from very limited information.
I mean would you ask a person wearing a head mask and all black clothes out on a date because you're both on the same train? So why would anyone want to agree to an empty profile on fab?"
If you look at your own profile and smile, laugh or it just makes you want to know more, it'll do the same for people on the same wavelength. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Genuine question. Based on your profile, pics, and forum posts only..... What will people see that would make them want to meet or talk to you?
I would be interested to know too. But saying that everyone's standards vary. Mine is super high and for specific reason where some ladies are more relaxed about who they chat to. It's overcoming the initial phase of capturing someone to want to spend their precious time with you from very limited information.
*I mean would you ask a person wearing a head mask and all black clothes out on a date because you're both on the same train? So why would anyone want to agree to an empty profile on fab?*"
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By *ippy68Man
over a year ago
Portland |
"Put a bit more info on your bio
More about you, what you like, don't like
What you're looking for
Maybe 1 dick pic, some torso pictures, you don't have to show your face, lots of men don't.
Have a look at some of the men in the forum who have been meet verified and see what their profile has that yours maybe lacking
Not going to lie but your age will go against you as majority of people on here are a little older and don't like the thought of playing with someone so young/the same age as their kids
Omg this is the most helpful advice in my opinion, thank you. Helps me understand so much & explains a lot.
No problem.
Just ignore the leople who are obviously making digs at you "
I think this lady Tattooed Tess offers the best and kindest advice on this thread. Some of the nastiness obviously comes from confident people who have it all going on, looks, body etc. some know and understand the struggles many of us have on here and offer good advice and some are completely arrogant and offer no empathy at all. You will never please everyone that’s for sure and to one person your profile will be fine and to others it will read dreadful. When it comes down to it it’s all about opinions. Just try to be the best person you can be and ignore the haters. |
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By *ippy68Man
over a year ago
Portland |
"Put a bit more info on your bio
More about you, what you like, don't like
What you're looking for
Maybe 1 dick pic, some torso pictures, you don't have to show your face, lots of men don't.
Have a look at some of the men in the forum who have been meet verified and see what their profile has that yours maybe lacking
Not going to lie but your age will go against you as majority of people on here are a little older and don't like the thought of playing with someone so young/the same age as their kids
Omg this is the most helpful advice in my opinion, thank you. Helps me understand so much & explains a lot.
No problem.
Just ignore the leople who are obviously making digs at you "
I wanted to message you TattooedTess to compliment you on your replies to the OP but I don’t fit your criteria to message you however once again we’ll done on kind replies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Put a bit more info on your bio
More about you, what you like, don't like
What you're looking for
Maybe 1 dick pic, some torso pictures, you don't have to show your face, lots of men don't.
Have a look at some of the men in the forum who have been meet verified and see what their profile has that yours maybe lacking
Not going to lie but your age will go against you as majority of people on here are a little older and don't like the thought of playing with someone so young/the same age as their kids
Omg this is the most helpful advice in my opinion, thank you. Helps me understand so much & explains a lot.
No problem.
Just ignore the leople who are obviously making digs at you
I wanted to message you TattooedTess to compliment you on your replies to the OP but I don’t fit your criteria to message you however once again we’ll done on kind replies."
A private message would have been very unnecessary since you have already said what needed to be said. But thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Put a bit more info on your bio
More about you, what you like, don't like
What you're looking for
Maybe 1 dick pic, some torso pictures, you don't have to show your face, lots of men don't.
Have a look at some of the men in the forum who have been meet verified and see what their profile has that yours maybe lacking
Not going to lie but your age will go against you as majority of people on here are a little older and don't like the thought of playing with someone so young/the same age as their kids
Omg this is the most helpful advice in my opinion, thank you. Helps me understand so much & explains a lot.
No problem.
Just ignore the leople who are obviously making digs at you
I think this lady Tattooed Tess offers the best and kindest advice on this thread. Some of the nastiness obviously comes from confident people who have it all going on, looks, body etc. some know and understand the struggles many of us have on here and offer good advice and some are completely arrogant and offer no empathy at all. You will never please everyone that’s for sure and to one person your profile will be fine and to others it will read dreadful. When it comes down to it it’s all about opinions. Just try to be the best person you can be and ignore the haters."
I joked that he had too many dick pics (as did others!) and he took it to a personal level about my appearance (twice!!!) so an amount of the nastiness came from the OP! |
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"Put a bit more info on your bio
More about you, what you like, don't like
What you're looking for
Maybe 1 dick pic, some torso pictures, you don't have to show your face, lots of men don't.
Have a look at some of the men in the forum who have been meet verified and see what their profile has that yours maybe lacking
Not going to lie but your age will go against you as majority of people on here are a little older and don't like the thought of playing with someone so young/the same age as their kids
Omg this is the most helpful advice in my opinion, thank you. Helps me understand so much & explains a lot.
No problem.
Just ignore the leople who are obviously making digs at you
I think this lady Tattooed Tess offers the best and kindest advice on this thread. Some of the nastiness obviously comes from confident people who have it all going on, looks, body etc. some know and understand the struggles many of us have on here and offer good advice and some are completely arrogant and offer no empathy at all. You will never please everyone that’s for sure and to one person your profile will be fine and to others it will read dreadful. When it comes down to it it’s all about opinions. Just try to be the best person you can be and ignore the haters.
I joked that he had too many dick pics (as did others!) and he took it to a personal level about my appearance (twice!!!) so an amount of the nastiness came from the OP!"
Here comes the white knight to try and compliment and slip in the old dms |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Put a bit more info on your bio
More about you, what you like, don't like
What you're looking for
Maybe 1 dick pic, some torso pictures, you don't have to show your face, lots of men don't.
Have a look at some of the men in the forum who have been meet verified and see what their profile has that yours maybe lacking
Not going to lie but your age will go against you as majority of people on here are a little older and don't like the thought of playing with someone so young/the same age as their kids
Omg this is the most helpful advice in my opinion, thank you. Helps me understand so much & explains a lot.
No problem.
Just ignore the leople who are obviously making digs at you
I think this lady Tattooed Tess offers the best and kindest advice on this thread. Some of the nastiness obviously comes from confident people who have it all going on, looks, body etc. some know and understand the struggles many of us have on here and offer good advice and some are completely arrogant and offer no empathy at all. You will never please everyone that’s for sure and to one person your profile will be fine and to others it will read dreadful. When it comes down to it it’s all about opinions. Just try to be the best person you can be and ignore the haters.
I joked that he had too many dick pics (as did others!) and he took it to a personal level about my appearance (twice!!!) so an amount of the nastiness came from the OP!
Here comes the white knight to try and compliment and slip in the old dms "
Thankfully they're closed.
I always block men who dm me from forums posts cause any can't you just post on the thread like a normal person? |
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By *arko B OP Man
over a year ago
Dartford |
"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…
Is that your head going down on someone's cock?
I think he’s lying in a guys lap playing a computer game?
It's so small as the forum profile avatar I thought he had went ball deep sucking someone off?
KJ
That was my first thought too, it really does look like he’s sucking someone off but on second glance, I can see a game controller in his hand.
Lads that age are never without one in their hands are they
Miss filter at it again.
I’ll give you the first comeback, as it appeared light hearted but now you’re just being a nob I’m afraid. That was a general comment in conversation with someone else.
I completely see why you can’t get a meet.
Good luck honey "
Good luck to you too honey |
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By *arko B OP Man
over a year ago
Dartford |
"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…
Is that your head going down on someone's cock?
I think he’s lying in a guys lap playing a computer game?
It's so small as the forum profile avatar I thought he had went ball deep sucking someone off?
KJ
That was my first thought too, it really does look like he’s sucking someone off but on second glance, I can see a game controller in his hand.
Lads that age are never without one in their hands are they
Miss filter at it again.
Oh and FYI young man, that particular photo (the only one available for you to see) doesn’t actually have a filter on it but thankyou so much for the compliment! My face doesn’t need a filter and gets me lots of meets luckily. ??"
Okay, I’ll take back the good luck then  |
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By *arko B OP Man
over a year ago
Dartford |
"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…
Is that your head going down on someone's cock?
I think he’s lying in a guys lap playing a computer game?
The other guy appears to have fingernails…..
Lol the picture is public & available to view on my profile, everyone can think what you wanna think doesn’t bother me
It's like that Internet conundrum of green dress gold dress. Gets people looking.
Know your audience. It all depends on who/ what you're looking for. Like attracts like.
Be *you*. If you don't get meets that just means there's no-one compatible. Don't take it as a negative against you personally. "
Haha quite true & Okayy very true |
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By *arko B OP Man
over a year ago
Dartford |
"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…
Is that your head going down on someone's cock?
I think he’s lying in a guys lap playing a computer game?
The other guy appears to have fingernails…..
Lol the picture is public & available to view on my profile, everyone can think what you wanna think doesn’t bother me
I was being supportive of you mate, pointing out what was obvious in your pic "
Awh cute & very nice of you |
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By *arko B OP Man
over a year ago
Dartford |
"Put a bit more info on your bio
More about you, what you like, don't like
What you're looking for
Maybe 1 dick pic, some torso pictures, you don't have to show your face, lots of men don't.
Have a look at some of the men in the forum who have been meet verified and see what their profile has that yours maybe lacking
Not going to lie but your age will go against you as majority of people on here are a little older and don't like the thought of playing with someone so young/the same age as their kids
Omg this is the most helpful advice in my opinion, thank you. Helps me understand so much & explains a lot.
No problem.
Just ignore the leople who are obviously making digs at you "
You’re the best, I adore you  |
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By *arko B OP Man
over a year ago
Dartford |
"Genuine question. Based on your profile, pics, and forum posts only..... What will people see that would make them want to meet or talk to you?
I would be interested to know too. But saying that everyone's standards vary. Mine is super high and for specific reason where some ladies are more relaxed about who they chat to. It's overcoming the initial phase of capturing someone to want to spend their precious time with you from very limited information.
I mean would you ask a person wearing a head mask and all black clothes out on a date because you're both on the same train? So why would anyone want to agree to an empty profile on fab?
If you look at your own profile and smile, laugh or it just makes you want to know more, it'll do the same for people on the same wavelength."
Very true this |
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By *arko B OP Man
over a year ago
Dartford |
"Put a bit more info on your bio
More about you, what you like, don't like
What you're looking for
Maybe 1 dick pic, some torso pictures, you don't have to show your face, lots of men don't.
Have a look at some of the men in the forum who have been meet verified and see what their profile has that yours maybe lacking
Not going to lie but your age will go against you as majority of people on here are a little older and don't like the thought of playing with someone so young/the same age as their kids
Omg this is the most helpful advice in my opinion, thank you. Helps me understand so much & explains a lot.
No problem.
Just ignore the leople who are obviously making digs at you
I think this lady Tattooed Tess offers the best and kindest advice on this thread. Some of the nastiness obviously comes from confident people who have it all going on, looks, body etc. some know and understand the struggles many of us have on here and offer good advice and some are completely arrogant and offer no empathy at all. You will never please everyone that’s for sure and to one person your profile will be fine and to others it will read dreadful. When it comes down to it it’s all about opinions. Just try to be the best person you can be and ignore the haters.
I joked that he had too many dick pics (as did others!) and he took it to a personal level about my appearance (twice!!!) so an amount of the nastiness came from the OP!"
Everything is here & can be re-read there was no nastiness coming from myself, I was just counter responding & transferring the same energy I received. So if you thought I was being nasty… |
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I consider myself attractive (it’s been seconded). In good shape. Of reasonable height. Approachable with a welcoming personality. Basically a lot of the things that should ‘tick the right boxes’. I also get very little interest on apps like this and others I have used. They are just too one dimensional. I find at meets and gatherings I tend to do well as my positive traits come through. So whilst I keep a profile on here open I don’t harbour a tremendous amount of hope that it will create many leads for me personally. I guess my point is if you think you have something to offer and the digital platforms aren’t working try more real life meets such as clubs. If you can even become the slightest bit established at one of those it may open up new possibilities. Sincerest well wishes and good luck. |
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"I consider myself attractive (it’s been seconded). In good shape. Of reasonable height. Approachable with a welcoming personality. Basically a lot of the things that should ‘tick the right boxes’. I also get very little interest on apps like this and others I have used. They are just too one dimensional. I find at meets and gatherings I tend to do well as my positive traits come through. So whilst I keep a profile on here open I don’t harbour a tremendous amount of hope that it will create many leads for me personally. I guess my point is if you think you have something to offer and the digital platforms aren’t working try more real life meets such as clubs. If you can even become the slightest bit established at one of those it may open up new possibilities. Sincerest well wishes and good luck. "
"I consider myself attractive (it’s been seconded)."
That only works when it's not your mum who seconded it  |
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"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…"
I've only had one meet in 13 years,so you are in the same boat as a lot of us. I don't expect I will ever get a meet again so you just have to accept that whatever it is that woman look for, the likes of you and me don't have it.
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"I consider myself attractive (it’s been seconded). In good shape. Of reasonable height. Approachable with a welcoming personality. Basically a lot of the things that should ‘tick the right boxes’. I also get very little interest on apps like this and others I have used. They are just too one dimensional. I find at meets and gatherings I tend to do well as my positive traits come through. So whilst I keep a profile on here open I don’t harbour a tremendous amount of hope that it will create many leads for me personally. I guess my point is if you think you have something to offer and the digital platforms aren’t working try more real life meets such as clubs. If you can even become the slightest bit established at one of those it may open up new possibilities. Sincerest well wishes and good luck. "
Good advise
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"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…I've only had one meet in 13 years,so you are in the same boat as a lot of us. I don't expect I will ever get a meet again so you just have to accept that whatever it is that woman look for, the likes of you and me don't have it."
You were meet verified just 2 weeks ago (your 2nd verification from a different female to the 1st) so either your post is the lie or your new veri is? |
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"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…I've only had one meet in 13 years,so you are in the same boat as a lot of us. I don't expect I will ever get a meet again so you just have to accept that whatever it is that woman look for, the likes of you and me don't have it.
You were meet verified just 2 weeks ago (your 2nd verification from a different female to the 1st) so either your post is the lie or your new veri is?"
veri was just a chat. |
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"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…I've only had one meet in 13 years,so you are in the same boat as a lot of us. I don't expect I will ever get a meet again so you just have to accept that whatever it is that woman look for, the likes of you and me don't have it.
You were meet verified just 2 weeks ago (your 2nd verification from a different female to the 1st) so either your post is the lie or your new veri is?veri was just a chat."
You mean a social face to face meet with no play?
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"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…I've only had one meet in 13 years,so you are in the same boat as a lot of us. I don't expect I will ever get a meet again so you just have to accept that whatever it is that woman look for, the likes of you and me don't have it.
You were meet verified just 2 weeks ago (your 2nd verification from a different female to the 1st) so either your post is the lie or your new veri is?veri was just a chat.
You mean a social face to face meet with no play?
KJ"
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"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…"
You did join at a very difficult time. I definitely had more luck before COVID times. Now I really struggle past the chatting stage |
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It's probably the same going to clubs, the success is minimal too unless you look like a Greek goddess or god. That's who I seen with the most success. Black men with big cocks do very well in clubs. Blond curvy women who like black men lol |
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"I’ve had this account for like 3 years, absolutely nothing happening. I have tried…
You did join at a very difficult time. I definitely had more luck before COVID times. Now I really struggle past the chatting stage "
This place really does feel more like a chat room rather than filled with people who are looking to meet up lately. And that’s not just if I talk to them.
There’s a real reluctancy to flirt, or talk about sex and when you do it’s judged in some way. I can put my finger on it but it’s not as open as it once was to something’s.
Why I don’t know. But the increase of people voicing how difficult it is to have someone take you serious enough to meet up tells me all this.
Maybe I’m wrong. |
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"It's probably the same going to clubs, the success is minimal too unless you look like a Greek goddess or god. That's who I seen with the most success. Black men with big cocks do very well in clubs. Blond curvy women who like black men lol"
How many times have you been to a club? If you're forming this opinion after just one, not a very successful, visit (judging from one of your posts), you are overstereotyping. I have been to quite a few different clubs, on different events, and this is definitely not the case. A lot depends on how approachable you are (that is for everyone, men, women and couples), not how you look like. |
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"It's probably the same going to clubs, the success is minimal too unless you look like a Greek goddess or god. That's who I seen with the most success. Black men with big cocks do very well in clubs. Blond curvy women who like black men lol
How many times have you been to a club? If you're forming this opinion after just one, not a very successful, visit (judging from one of your posts), you are overstereotyping. I have been to quite a few different clubs, on different events, and this is definitely not the case. A lot depends on how approachable you are (that is for everyone, men, women and couples), not how you look like. "
Couldn't agree more. We have great times when we go to clubs. Every time is different but we always enjoy ourselves. We certainly aren't the Greek god/goddess types. If people think that's required they are definitely mistaken. |
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