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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just curious if any couples on here have 1 person happy with monogamy and no interest in being with anyone else, while the other likes to flirt and play? |
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No, me and my partner both like our adventures. But have know other people in relationships where this is the case. Not everyones individuals needs/desires in a relationship are the same. But their shared love and support for each other to be themselves and flourish makes this a perfectly acceptable and a rewarding feature of a great loving relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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there are 1000s of one sided couple where one is pushing the other to do it ... they never seem happy and always short lived on the scene and its 50/50 as to male or female who do the pushing so easy to spot in the clubs and private meets any onesided couples get nowhere with us so not fair on the poor person who wants nothing to do with it |
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ours is a similar relationship. W is very vanilla and due to ill health and medication has lost interest in the physical side. I on the other hand haven't. If anything its increased, although that could be because we've all but stopped having sex.
We had a very long and tearful chat about 3 years ago and come up with a compromise, (a set of rules) which I'm happy to explain when asked. |
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"Just curious if any couples on here have 1 person happy with monogamy and no interest in being with anyone else, while the other likes to flirt and play? "
Both of us like to play but not what you where looking for.
However, there have been periods in the past where due to work shifts not being swinger freindly or whatever, my wife tapped out for several months leaving me to enjoy myself...or try to in that time period.
But as a pair, no, neither of us are monogamous by any definition. |
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